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XxPrincessHannahxX Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2008
Really, now? My sister was in a band and she got her first boyfriend when she was the bassist in the band and she was really happy. She just had to call it off because she was afraid my father wouldn't approve.

But it can work for you!
LostInStars Featured By Owner Jul 13, 2008  Hobbyist General Artist
I was in a band once, and they broke up when the lead guitarist and the lead singer broke up. They were both my friends, it sucked.
Crawling-meower Featured By Owner Jul 12, 2008  Student Artisan Crafter
"Band members are not supposed to date"? B+ on originality, ST. This is one excuse i've never seen used before.
crimson-moon8 Featured By Owner Jul 11, 2008  Professional Photographer
So i'm going to repeat something I heard recently...
you can either take the risk and tell this person how you really feel about them, or you can wait around until someone else comes around and picks this person off their feet...which would you feel worse about? Perhaps getting rejected...or seein this person falling in love with another?
I think that's an obvious answer.

goodluck sweetheart <3
tassel Featured By Owner Jul 11, 2008
I'd just say hope it doesn't ruin the relationship the entire band has. Good luck to you.
blckdsh Featured By Owner Jul 11, 2008
Why would you think so? Dating a band member might be hard because maybe you guys will have a fight and it might affect the band but I really think you're both unhappy if you always remain hidden. There's nothing wrong with dating someone you like/love.
SmootHope Featured By Owner Jul 11, 2008  Hobbyist Photographer
Who says you can't?
Hey-There-Lefty Featured By Owner Jul 11, 2008  Student Photographer
i broke that rule.
Im a drummer dating a guitarest and I couldnt be happier.
FragileReveries Featured By Owner Jul 11, 2008  Hobbyist Photographer
Why not?
People can do whatever they want!!
Well...... to a point. We can't fly *hmm...*
Anyway, yeah.
It shouldn't stop you. Don't let it. :)
keybladeninja Featured By Owner Jul 11, 2008  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
My boyfriend is in a band, and none of the other members have gave him crap for going out with me.
If you love him, go for it. Whoever came up with that silly "Band members aren't supposed to date" needs to find someone special and see if they still mean it .
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