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explodingapple Featured By Owner Jul 6, 2013  Hobbyist
THERE IS NOT THE ONE.

Saying there's "the one" in relationships is like picking out Neo in the matrix.

It's absurd, and you're not going to dodge the bullets all awesomely.

You jump from a building, and you fall, and DIE. Reality. Completely unlike the matrix.

If you love him, then stay with him. But if you love him more like a brother, then tell him it's not going to work out. Just sit down with some nice coffee and muffins and just tell him. Be mature, and be soft on the blow. Say you'll always be friends with him if you're willing to do so, and then move on with your lives. :)

Everything will be fine.
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MusicGeek4Life Featured By Owner Jul 18, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
This. :) This was well put.
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explodingapple Featured By Owner Jul 19, 2013  Hobbyist
Thank you.  I try my best with things like this. :D
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Jepuisadore17 Featured By Owner Jun 6, 2013
Um..if you know he's not the one,
how are you in love,
when In Love is with The One,
and Love is with anyone,
and even if you love him,
you're not In Love
if he's not The One.

Anyways, tell him now it'll hurt less. Since you'll probably be like a bunch of other people and not, be ready for him to hurt. A lot. Which will probably suck.
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Eremitik Featured By Owner Jun 3, 2013
You owe it to this guy to tell him. Its possible that just like your secret here, he feels the same way. Even if he doesnt, though, your constant doubts will eat away at the relationship.
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Pyrosaitan1 Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013
well then, your fucked T_T
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Eremitik Featured By Owner Jun 3, 2013
;)
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Pyrosaitan1 Featured By Owner Jun 3, 2013
^u^
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emoturtlefrk Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i've been in that position.
long enough to fool myself that i choose my own "one"....which is around the same time he figured out that we weren't meant to be....and then the games began :s it didn't end pretty i'll be honest
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KairiStar728 Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013
You what I did. You end it and see how it goes. When we split up he said he'd wait for me because it was true that he thought I was the one. But he was wrong because I don't miss him in the way he wants me to. But it's just how it is for us. Maybe it'll be different for you two.
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useraccount Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013
You're in love...but you know he's not "the One". So, how do you know it's love? I don't know your age, but it could very well be some strong affection, even lust. If you know someone isn't right for you, how can you be in love with that person? Or do I just not know what I'm talking about?
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Burbled Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013
I know exactly how you feel...
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The-Lost-Hope Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013  Student General Artist
If you know he's not the one then you have to break it to him. Lies won't last forever and cause only more pain in the end. I wish I could help more but I'm afraid I can't.
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World-Breaker Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013
I think you should just tell him as honestly as you can, and then break up with him.
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AlchemistEternal Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013  Student General Artist
I'm in the same problem right now...just break it to him gently.
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SilenttPrincess Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
ouch :/
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missmuffin90 Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013   Traditional Artist
You can't live your life pretending he's the one when he's not. There comes a point when you have to do what is best for *you*. It will hurt him, but he will get over it. Drawing things out longer will only hurt him worse.
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iluvhoneysempai Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
i have that right im not sure about him cause the guy i truly like, likes me just follow ur heart
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Angelous780 Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2013
I've been in this predicament twice. 4 years for the first relationship and 6 months with the other. I truly wish I could offer you some advice, but I cant. I still don't know what's right for myself.
What I can tell you is that I ended up breaking up with the men I felt like this with. I truly loved them, but I wasn't about to lead them on for years, get married and have children when I knew that I wouldn't be happy in the long run.
The only tid-bit of advice I can offer you; try not to let these kinds of thoughts enter your mind. The more you think about it, the harder it will be for you not to think about it. Negative thoughts feed into each other.
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Storm-Nightshade Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2013  Student General Artist
Aah, this reminds me of my ex. That was a hard time. I hope you can figure it out. I can't offer advice, as I know you not, but I hope it works out well in the end.
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tricky213 Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
It'll be hard, but if he really loves you, then he'll realize that you don't like him back..and not try to make it work.
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