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:iconjewelmistic:
JewelMistic Featured By Owner May 31, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
As the person below me (or above me or somewhere on this list has stated)...Really...in love with actors/singers/voice actors?
Sure I have a list of those I have a CRUSH on...or more simply said, greatly admire. Heck if I could spend a day with just one of them I would be so happy to get to know them, but I would never bluntly tell them that: "I looooove em sooooo much!"
point 1:
They can be very different then what I imagine them to be in real life.
point 2:
99% of them are dating/married and/or have families! That means have children...
point 3:
I can imagine it's very annoying if they needed to spend a day with a fan who basically declares that they are in love with them...not really knowing who they are.

Now on the the topic of the secret: which is actually more important:
Madame (I presume you are a madame) as most say, just wait it out. In your age it's quite tricky on the whole age difference, not to mention love in general. Now I'm not saying you are immature, it's just tricky.
Plus, he could be someone completely different outside of the school and you might get your heart broken. Plus there is still the whole age difference (yes pointing that out twice.) Though I'm not the one who can lecture you on that (age difference of 15 years with my hubby to be) I do not wish you to get into any trouble what so ever. Not sure if you'll read this, but do take care.
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Tamani13 Featured By Owner May 30, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
To the people going on about being "in love" with voice actors and singers. Really? Reeaaallly? You're 'in love' with people you've never met? Yeah, ok!
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:iconscorchburst:
ScorchBurst Featured By Owner May 31, 2013
I love you for this comment. I don't care, I love you. Haha, XD jk. It was a bit of a pun on your comment.
But seriously, I agree. I want to meet a person first outside of their career or whatever, get to know them for themselves, then decide how I feel. Like, I had a huge crush on Emma Watson. Would I say I loved her no? Did, at the time, think her to be the cutest thing on the earth? Yes. I was nine years old, and that was back when I knew what love was, and not threw it around like today.
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:iconfaith-25:
Faith-25 Featured By Owner May 30, 2013  Hobbyist
I've had a huge crush on my philosopy teacher back when I was 16.
There's nothing wrong with you, just let it pass ;)
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:iconjyes1203:
jyes1203 Featured By Owner May 30, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
My father is 13 years older than my mother, they've been married for 17+ years.
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:iconvictoriatheunicorn:
VictoriatheUnicorn Featured By Owner May 29, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
Listen, you have absollutely no chance with him, he may have a wife and if he were with you, many people would cry pedophilia. You might as well have something wrong with you if you're crushing on somebody that is decreasing from there prime. You have to do what other people do and wait.
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:iconblazefirewolf1:
BlazeFireWolf1 Featured By Owner May 29, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I doubt you really love him,it's called a crush. Second of all,you will never have him. Nope,nada,never. Small chances of that happening.
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:iconthe-melonator:
The-Melonator Featured By Owner May 29, 2013
I feel exactly the same...
I am 13 he's 26...
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:iconthe-mysterious-j:
The-Mysterious-J Featured By Owner May 30, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
That's not thar bad
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:iconthe-melonator:
The-Melonator Featured By Owner May 30, 2013
You think so?
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:iconthe-mysterious-j:
The-Mysterious-J Featured By Owner May 31, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
well it's thirteen years not twentyeight...
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:iconingloriousbunny:
IngloriousBunny Featured By Owner Jun 15, 2013
So what you are saying is that it's not that bad when a 20 year old is in love with a 7 year old? :roll:
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:iconthe-mysterious-j:
The-Mysterious-J Featured By Owner Jun 15, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
No, that's Not what I was saying. The girl (I just assume it's a girl) I was talking to is the younger part. I think age matters less the older we get.
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IngloriousBunny Featured By Owner Jun 15, 2013
Yet you tell this 13 year old girl it's totally okay to be in a relationship with a 26 year old. You shouldn't encourage her, because it's wrong - and not only because the law says so.
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:iconthe-mysterious-j:
The-Mysterious-J Featured By Owner Jun 15, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I said 'it's not that bad'. If she really loves him that much that she'd wait for ten years, I see no problem with it.. (I guess this is not a straight English sentence)
There are relationships with an agegap like this which work out well.
And if she has only a crush, no problem either
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:iconthe-melonator:
The-Melonator Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2013
But...Still everyone says it's imposible...
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:iconthe-mysterious-j:
The-Mysterious-J Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
It's not legal yet. And it won't be for many years. But when you're twenty and he's thirtythree, people don't find it that bad
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:iconthe-melonator:
The-Melonator Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2013
Well i think so...
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:iconthe-mysterious-j:
The-Mysterious-J Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Look, someone above says their parents have an agegap of thirteen years!
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:iconmega-man143:
mega-man143 Featured By Owner May 29, 2013
Ive been in the same situation with a larger age gap. Hang in there, mk?

(Secret teller, if you need to talk, note me)
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:iconkariankanna:
Kariankanna Featured By Owner May 29, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
David Tennant! I know how you feel!
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:iconka-keitorinartist:
KA-KeitorinArtist Featured By Owner May 29, 2013  Student Digital Artist
And I'm in love with a 50 year old voice actor who has the body of a god. >.> We should make a club! XD
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:iconexsakura:
ExSakura Featured By Owner May 29, 2013  Student General Artist
Vic Mignogna?
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:iconka-keitorinartist:
KA-KeitorinArtist Featured By Owner May 30, 2013  Student Digital Artist
WOw.. omg... how... omg.. how did you.. know??? Woow... I feell sooo.... Fucking happy!
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:iconexsakura:
ExSakura Featured By Owner May 31, 2013  Student General Artist
I know my voice actors XD
J. Michael Tatum's my fav, but Vic Mignogna's cool too. I can't believe he's FIFTY though!
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KA-KeitorinArtist Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013  Student Digital Artist
You do know them! XD
I cant believe he's 50 either. My mom keep asking me if he's single XD lol That would so freaking awkward.
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:iconexsakura:
ExSakura Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013  Student General Artist
He's not single, though, he's engaged. Your poor mother XD
I thought he was 30-something like everyone else; for the longest time his age wasn't on Wikipedia or imbd or anything...then one day they put it up there and it said he was 50!!!
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:iconka-keitorinartist:
KA-KeitorinArtist Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013  Student Digital Artist
Ya I know. Thats what I keep telling mom XD
I thought he was 30 to and then when I found out his age I choked on my water. I couldn't believe he was old enough to be my father because he sure doesn't look it.
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:iconexsakura:
ExSakura Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013  Student General Artist
He really doesn't look 50...40s maybe but...

He's gonna be at the anime convention I go to this year; I hope I can meet him but I know there's going to be a huge crowd of crazy fighting fangirls to keep me from doing that...
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:iconjtcheney:
jtcheney Featured By Owner May 29, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Advice: wait until you have graduated to profess your love. No sense in f@cking up his job and life.
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CheeseMango Featured By Owner May 29, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
You have your whole life ahead of you. I'd say wait to graduate high school and get a college degree (if that's what you want). The last thing you would want to do is have him lose his job and be labeled a sex offender or a pedophile for the rest of his life, which would ruin many further opportunities of success for him in the future.
If the feelings are one sided, however: give it up.
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:iconemoturtlefrk:
emoturtlefrk Featured By Owner May 29, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
them feels ,n, only mine is 41, and a singer...... ,n,
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:iconxuhurux:
XUhuruX Featured By Owner May 29, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I know how you feel pretty well. Being in love with an older man is very difficult, if you know that he might not have the same feelings for you. I am in love with a man who is 14 years older than me....
I'd say for you to wait until you're 18, so it can be legal, and then become closer with him. Like, I don't know, kind of his friend maybe? If the feelings you have don't go away, I'd say you go for it. :)
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xXNibiNoNekoXx Featured By Owner May 29, 2013
Wait a year or two and then try it out, I'm not going to hold you back just because my personal moral compass is different than yours. I have my own opinion, but it is mine, do whatever makes _you_ happy, whatever feels right. Don't let people hold you back. <3 Like I said though, wait so there isn't an issue with the law.

(Also you have to realize that because he is that much older than you are, he's going to become an old man while you're still young and feisty. This may have an impact on your relationship when it happens, you have to be prepared for that.)
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:iconthundermane:
Thundermane Featured By Owner May 29, 2013
Just know that the age difference will always be a problem for other people. Also, don't be dismayed when things aren't going to be the way you imagined it.
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Nerf-or-Nothing Featured By Owner May 29, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
You have one year, maybe not even, until you graduate. It's going to FLY by. When you are 18, do what you WANT until you are 18 realize you aren't quite an adult, and if you care for this guy, realize if you make a move before you graduate, you are putting his job in jeoperdy and any good man or teacher, can't see you and SHOULDN'T see you as an adult until you graduate.

You have a year, maybe less. Is it really going to kill you to wait?

Make a move when you graduate. If you aren't interested after you graduate, than you just didn't care as much for him as much as you think you did and that's normal because even when you are 18, even when you are 21, even when you are 25 and even when you are 45 you will still be learning, changing and growing. So at least wait until you are actually out of school, it's not like it's going to take forever.
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katryder Featured By Owner May 29, 2013  Student Photographer
Illegal. You must wait until you are 18 and graduated. Just being 18 does not make it any more legal.
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:iconprairielily:
PrairieLily Featured By Owner May 28, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Seriously, what's up with all the pedophilia secrets?

Theres nothing a grown man would want with a child.
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:iconthundermane:
Thundermane Featured By Owner May 29, 2013
Naive.
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:iconrinxlen79:
rinXlen79 Featured By Owner May 29, 2013  Student Artist
XD :iconfacebooklikeplz:
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:iconlady-zana:
Lady-Zana Featured By Owner May 28, 2013
How well do you even really know your teacher to be in love with him? And what are the chances that he feels anything towards you?
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:iconscriddles:
Scriddles Featured By Owner May 28, 2013
Oh dear... I know this is going to sound bad but... you should probably just forget about it... first off, you're illegal... and even if you were to get with him when you turn 18 it would be kind of... inappropriate, at least in my opinion. He's old enough to be your father... I'm not saying this to be mean, but I'm just concerned for you, seeing how big the age difference is. I just don't want you getting hurt is all...
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:iconhattins:
Hattins Featured By Owner May 28, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Go for it girly, but wait a year so your completely legal. If you want him get him.
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:iconmjponso:
mjponso Featured By Owner May 28, 2013
It's quite a sticky situation. Though the teacher might have qualities that the young student might find attractive, I worry about the age gap of several decades. Despite the affirmation that these feelings aren't just admiration, I suspect otherwise. It's easy for a teenager to misconstrue feelings -- I know I did when I was younger. My advice to this individual would be to try finding someone with those same attractive qualities that is much closer in age.
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