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TheOneWithoutASoul Jul 3, 2013  Student General Artist
Ugh, I've been in a kind of similar situation recently (except the new one was her old best friend who she said she hated, but then ditched me for her again.) I just walked away from them all and cut them out of my life, because I got tired of feeling jealous and depressed. She's happy now, anyway, happier than she was, so it was the right thing to do. Maybe you'll have to walk away too in order to make things right :/ best of luck <3
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Sioke Jun 22, 2013  Student Digital Artist
Oh my... I've had quite a bunch of situations when it was the same for me :( being the third wheel just hurts sooooo much. One's friends (or ... "friends", if they don't realize it) just have no idea how much they hurt someone...

I suppose, the only thing that really helps is stopping to depend on specific people and starting to give yourself the love you try to get from others... you can't really claim someone's attention all the time if they are not willing to give it to you...
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Sioke Jun 22, 2013  Student Digital Artist
Edit: of course, you should talk to them ;) I said they were your "friends" (false friends) if they didn't realize it, but I meant they were false friends if they knew it (or realized it) and still did't care. So tell them how you feel. (if possible, without accusing them. Maybe they really just don't realize how much they hurt you!)
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DarkPika-Sama Jun 13, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I felt and been in that situation before. Tell your friend how you feel and if she doesn't understand your feelings, then move on. Hanging out with other friends and/on getting to know the new person also helps. Either way, it'll pass eventually. Just don't dwell on it too much. :)
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:iconawesomekijo:
Ive had the same problem. My ex-best friend had done the same three times. Then I wrote her a real nasty message about things, she had done wrong, but who even count to me anymore. But I wanted to be free and not to be just the third wheel. And now I am nothing to her. I thought Im finally free. But I want so badly to be her friend again that I eventually realized that I am still trapped in her spider web.
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sprinkleddisaster Jun 1, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I'm the same way. Have been, and by the looks of it always will be, the third wheel.
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mckenziemcmaisey May 31, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
I feel the same way.
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hawaii42612 May 28, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I know what you mean. friends are difficult. but I think art helps a little bit. if you just kind of back off, this person may notice and realize they were taking you for granted (if that's how you see it) art definitely helps. creating ocs and imagining things for yourself, it does kind of lessen the loneliness.
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:iconbionicler-lennart:
yes you are right. . .
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hawaii42612 May 30, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
:) but i like to help people. that also kind of helps. when you help, you make them happy and it feels wonderful.
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