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Secret. 13357 by DeviantArtSecret Secret. 13357 by DeviantArtSecret
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" I'm in the cliché situation where I have to choose between love and love - I can't have both. And I've cried over it the whole day today."

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bloodyemo26 Featured By Owner Jul 17, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
If you really love someone they should make you pick, neither should your family.
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Nibbler117 Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2013
I've been reading too many secrets. Now I'm crying. And I cry after every sad secret. This is one of them.
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Yamiga Featured By Owner May 29, 2013  Student Writer
Sheesh, if you really love someone and that person really loves you, then no matter what you to should be together.
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gilll Featured By Owner May 26, 2013  Student Filmographer
I have a friend who had this problem and now she's married to that same person.
If you really love your partner you should stand by their side. Your family is still your family, and they will get used to the idea of you two being together eventually wither they like it or not. I know that your family is very important to you, but I know how hard it is to find love and I wouldn't back down and give up on it that easily. Just because your family doesn't like your partner, it doesn't mean they don't want you to be happy.
Good luck!
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emoturtlefrk Featured By Owner May 26, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i just recently was put into kind of the same position....my girlfriends mom doesn't accept me.
But you know what?
give them a reason to. maybe sit down for like a "family" dinner or something....talk. get them to find something they all have in common. Show your family that your lover makes you happy.
Show your lover your family means the world to you.
even if they have no reason at all to like each other, if they truley love you, they'll both respect that you're happy with both of them in your life
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fizzymoth Featured By Owner May 25, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
it's kinda like that for me now
at least the first part
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kaoru-kitty368 Featured By Owner May 25, 2013
become the master of compromise
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Cimorin Featured By Owner May 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
it shouldn't matter if they like each other as long as you love them and they love you that's my OPINION anyway
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lunasrl1 Featured By Owner May 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I was there, hun...oh believe me I was there...
Im not anymore, I'm with a new man now that loves my parents and my parents LOVE him~ (in fact today I'm getting married to him lmao)
But with my ex...well, there was a lot of tension...I stuck with him, though, because I knew I could go back to my parents...I couldn't go back to him. I stuck with him because I had desperately hoped for a future with him...but even then I was lying to myself.
He wanted to be a girl. I am straight, and I KNOW I'm straight...so I told him I'd date him until he got a sex change. After that I'd be his friend and mother/sister like companion.

It was weird but I was desperate because of my feelings for him...and of course I hope you're significant other isn't like that, I hope they love you and make you happy and take care of you, but Ill get to my point.

Are you going to stay with them for the long run? If you are, then you need to stand by them. Like one stands by their spouse, if you REALLY love them and REALLY want to stay with him, you need to stand by them.
You also need to talk to them about their feelings towards your parents, tell them how it hurts you. They don't need to be made to like your parents, but they should want to aim for an agreement with your parents. A treaty of sorts, for your sake.

If you don't think it's going to be a long term relationship like that then stand by your family. Family is most important (hopefully you have a good family though), second ONLY to your spouse/significant other...though once they become your spouse or such they become your family as well. Don't break their hearts just to stay with a current beau that won't stick around.
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ThelordofallReturn Featured By Owner May 25, 2013
Step parents is a bitch, You are FAR from the only one experiencing this. In the end it is up to you and your partner to make the decision, not your family, and if your family can't accept your happiness or be happy for YOU, then putt hem a side a bit.

I used to date a guy (he turned out to be an asshole) anyway, the point is his step parent's hated me more then anything, They hated me because of my cloth and hair cut, and because I had ferrets, since his dad was afraid of ferrets, but I never forced them to pet them or had them with me when I was at their house.

I guess step parents (most of the time) just ARE.. assholes. It's much easier to hate something from the ''outside'' then the inside. You could try talking to them all at once maybe? :)
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