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ReyRay Featured By Owner May 31, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I think, (and I'm just saying in my opinion) a lot of guys don't exactly realize that when people, especially girls, shrug a comment off like that, it still sticks with them them for a long time. It hurts. :( but maybe that's just me.
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Burbled Featured By Owner May 26, 2013
My boyfriend jokes a lot of my insecurities too...
About my height (I'm way too thin), about my taste of music (it's too 'pussylike'), about the games I play, about my behavior on the phone and how I speak to other people etc etc.
But I know that he only does it because of his own inferiority complexes. He's just as broken as I am, but he hides it behind his mask. He always acts so strong and self-confident but he's so vulnerable.
But sometimes he goes too far.
Sometimes I just want to punch him.
And when he sees my angry face he just starts to laugh and that makes it even worse.
But I really love him, I can't help myself : )
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TMNTLeoLei03 Featured By Owner May 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
My boyfriend is kinda like that, except he knows my insecurities. He says that when he jokes about it, it shows that those things don't really matter to him (as in he doesn't think it's a big deal). It's sweet of him to think that, but sometimes I have to tell him that it's not OK to think things like that.

If, for you, he doesn't realize how insecure you are about those things, tell him. He won't ever be able to realize what's going on until you tell him. Make sure you're firm about it, but show that you still love him. But, also know when to not take teasing too seriously. I know, it's hard, I struggle with it too. We'll work on it together :)

Much love,
Lei
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BlazeFireWolf1 Featured By Owner May 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
If it does hurt your feelings,you should either tell him or develop a thicker skin and know that when he says these things,he's just playing with you. But in one line,you said Him: I like your confidence. You're not fat,I swear."

If you had confidence,you wouldn't be hurt by it and you wouldn't be depressed and self harm. You need to let him know that you're not as confident as he thinks you are.
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emoturtlefrk Featured By Owner May 24, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
you're not stupid for being his friend, he's stupid for thinking it actually doesn't bother you.
You should let him know :/ if he knows and still does it, THEN ditch him.
but as long as he thinks there's nothing wrong, he'll always think it's a private "inside" joke between you two :/
Trust me, my dad does that kind of stuff to me too.
It hurts, but when i say something back, i mean it and he thinks i'm joking.
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Pyrosaitan1 Featured By Owner May 24, 2013
That's what friends do, why would you get pissy and do "self harm" over it?
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BlueCrayonz Featured By Owner May 26, 2013
Sup. I didn't start self-harming because of this boy. It was something way before I even met him. This doesn't affect my self-harm in any way. It's just something I go through that causes me to be more sensitive to things people say to me.
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Pyrosaitan1 Featured By Owner May 26, 2013
Oh... Then I have no idea how to give advice that'll help 0.0 personally I'm only still confused about the reasons people tell me why people cut themselves
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BlueCrayonz Featured By Owner May 26, 2013
There are many different reasons. Some do it to actually feel something. As they feel nothing though-out the day. It's a way to show that they're still alive. This doesn't apply to everyone though.
I'll admit, the people giving you hell about your comment was a bit far. Never fight fire with fire. But your comment was pretty offensive. To me anyway.
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Pyrosaitan1 Featured By Owner May 27, 2013
I tend to be a bias asshole most of the time, I usually advise people to ignore me
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