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Jepuisadore17 Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2013
As for helping the friend who is cutting, and all the other friends, think of what you would want them to do for you, would that help?
I have a friend who has a boyfriend. There's another guy who likes her, and keeps making advances. I'm friends with all 3, moreso with the girl and the crushing guy. I told him to back off because he's going to get his face rearranged (literally) and her to back off because she's been with the other guy for So Long, and the crushing boy is a fad. We both know that, we admit it openly, but she keeps allowing him to be holding her hand and cuddling and talking crush-words to her. Because she feels Worthless and she wants someone to love her.
Do I know how she feels? Yup. Been there, done that. What can I do?
Talk to her, telling her that she should soooo not be doing that, just stay with her boyfriend and the crush will wear off. And if it doesn't, at least don't cheat. You're better than that.
Does she believe me? No. I don't really expect her to,
I distract her and him so that they aren't so close, they aren't talking so crush-like.

Trust me, you're not useless.
Your friends need You, which means You can step up.

You're not useless.
Go help them.
:)
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penguinsgoboom Featured By Owner May 25, 2013
I have to be honest i agree with Pyrosaitan1 if not as harsh :/ Ive been through the same sort of situation with my best friend. Mine was a little different as she had also started to smoke and take drugs which as i hadnt experienced this before, found it hard to understand. How i got over my worries (and please dont eat into me pyro!) and pain was to be the best friend i could. If you make their life the best as you possibly can, then why will they want to leave. I know i cant understand your personal situation but i hope this helped :)
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cello-squadron Featured By Owner May 25, 2013  Student Digital Artist
if you have a counselors office at school, what you can do is go in there and say you want like a schedule change and instead slip the counselor a note that says what's happening, and sign it "I would like to remain anonymous throughout the course of this". that's what i did and it worked!
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Pyrosaitan1 Featured By Owner May 24, 2013
Tell the person to grow a pair, there are people starving in Africa, I don't think any first world problems are worth any of this emo vullshit like cutting yourself or suicide, if anything it makes you more pathetic
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Fenwolf2003 Featured By Owner Jul 16, 2013
I like you, you're one of the few people who comments here without being a massive fucktard and crying about emo teenagers wanting attention.
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Pyrosaitan1 Featured By Owner Jul 16, 2013
Well that's new, someone actually GETS it, thanks btw ^w^
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Jepuisadore17 Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2013
"Any" first world problems? Rape, murder, friend's suicide, parents die everywhere, disease is rampant always, siblings leave if they can, people die, animals die, people betray, and feel worthless for so many reasons.
Everyone has their own battles, don't you dare tell someone they're "pathetic". Yeah, maybe they Should get up and fight a little more. But maybe that's How they're fighting.
And until you talk to them, stay with them, see what they're going through, you shouldn't judge all the crap they're doing by calling them pathetic.
And learn how to spell "bullshit", just 'cause you ticked me off.
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Pyrosaitan1 Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013
I hope I did, why do I care about how pissed some little girl gets when I tell her the truth? They're bathetic wastes of time that are better off dead the way they want if they don't get their asses into gear
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Jepuisadore17 Featured By Owner Jun 6, 2013
They don't want to be dead. They want things to change, and sometimes the one who wants the change Can't control it. It Has to be other people. People who, instead of bitching about others being pathetic, actually try and give some advice *a.k.a. look up and grow a heart while they grow a spine. They Need you, why are you being a jerk?
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Pyrosaitan1 Featured By Owner Jun 6, 2013
Because I had the exact same problem from kindergarten to year 8, I'm in the ninth grade, and I know that through all of that I never once cut myself, stabbed myself or tried killing myself over something as pathetic as another's opinion, I got out of that retched slump with minimal help, because I'm not weak like that, I didn't allow myself to fall to such a disgusting state, why should anyone else be allowed to do that either? I was picked on by a blonde midget with his two lackeys twice my size in width and height all through primary school, then picked on by another midget and a ginger with a homosexual lisp for two years, then I realized, "why should I give a fuck?" I'm now twice the size of most of my schoolmates, either above or below me, I'm most definitely stronger, and I have friends, but these people, who I only call people out of spite of the rest of my species in general, can't do what I did with ease with a simple opiffony (or however the fuck you spell it) why should I give them the time of day when I didn't need it?
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