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:iconradioactivekiwi:
radioactivekiwi Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2013
I don't think he turns you away because you are a talented individual. You can't just get to the conclusion you would be a better match to him than his girlfriend all by yourself. Maybe it's got nothing to do with the fact that you are a gamer and an artist. Maybe he's just not into you. Having no talent or being beautiful does not equal being shallow, so stop playing the victim and move on.
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ArtAghedaTodd Featured By Owner Jul 16, 2013
You are beautiful, please don't deny yourself because he doesn't think you're beautiful. IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT OTHERS SAY! IT'S WHAT YOU SAY!
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:iconkoshplappit:
koshplappit Featured By Owner Jun 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Then why do you like him? What do you see in him, besides his looks? If looks are all he cares about, he doesn't deserve someone like you.
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DarkPika-Sama Featured By Owner Jun 13, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
If he only cares about the outside appearance instead of the inside, enough to want to someone who is as shallow as his way of thinking, he isn't worth your heart. You can support him and help him find someone better but other than that, move on.
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:iconjepuisadore17:
Jepuisadore17 Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2013
1) Agreed!
2) Okay, next time you see him
3) turn around
4) locate other people around you
5) Check it out. There's someone there. Right there, who's been sneaking glances at you.

7) Go talk to them. :)
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:iconcello-squadron:
cello-squadron Featured By Owner May 25, 2013  Student Digital Artist
OHMYGODDDDDDD its like you are seeing into my very mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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:iconjepuisadore17:
Jepuisadore17 Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2013
That's what I was thinking!
And btw, your username rocks!
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:iconcello-squadron:
cello-squadron Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013  Student Digital Artist
thanks! are you a cello player too?
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:iconjepuisadore17:
Jepuisadore17 Featured By Owner Jun 6, 2013
Yup! and Yup! I transferred 'Wake Me Up When September Ends' by 'Green Day' into bass clef today, so hopefully I can play that now, yay!
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:iconcello-squadron:
cello-squadron Featured By Owner Jun 10, 2013  Student Digital Artist
COOLLLL :) love that song.
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:iconjepuisadore17:
Jepuisadore17 Featured By Owner Jun 11, 2013
It's an awesome song! There's versions of songs here, sheet music people create.
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:iconcello-squadron:
cello-squadron Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2013  Student Digital Artist
yeah i know, theyre all super fabulous.
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:iconjepuisadore17:
Jepuisadore17 Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2013
I meant "My Chemical Romance" ^.^"
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Jepuisadore17 Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2013
Agreed :D I found My Chem Romance music!
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:iconrababco:
rababco Featured By Owner May 24, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
That guy sure is shallow, I'm sorry but if he only cares about outward beauty than he's not worth your time. Maybe you just haven't met the right person yet and that's why there's still a hole left from him in you. There's also nothing wrong with being single either.
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:iconkentamaeba:
KentaMaeba Featured By Owner May 21, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
I felt like that all the time when I was younger... but that's the thing - we "feel" becomes we "felt" as time passes. It takes a little time for some, and it takes years for others. But humans are creatures that exist to love and to be loved. If our love isn't returned in any shape or form, it'll fade away. That's just how it is, whether we want it to or not.

But y'know... life's better for that. Because we'll encounter a lot of people down the line, and we'll find someone else to love. That person won't replace our lost love, and never will, for every person we meet and love is special to us. But like each of us and life itself, love grows and goes on. So don't force yourself to let go - never forget what made this guy special to you. But at the same time, don't let it drag you down - life's so, SO much more than just falling in love.

Live!
Laugh!
Learn!

See new worlds! Meet new people! Learn new things! Have fun and enjoy your life! It's too short to be spent worrying over what could've been. And know that you're not alone. You are never alone. Love will come your way again, so learn to love yourself once more.
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AerithEchidna4rt Featured By Owner May 21, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Forget about him. He doesn't deserve someone like you :)
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Fragmented-Shadows Featured By Owner May 22, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Y'know what, you're a piece of trash. There, does that make you feel better? X_X
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:iconlavaandmagma:
LavaandMagma Featured By Owner May 22, 2013  Student General Artist
I wasn't feeling bad in the first place, and I feel just as good now for not taking some random stranger on the internet's opinion seriously.
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:iconfragmented-shadows:
Fragmented-Shadows Featured By Owner May 22, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Oh darling, you try so hard not to fail...
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:iconjawyaw:
JawYaw Featured By Owner May 21, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
This will really help the secret teller to feel better. :|
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:iconlavaandmagma:
LavaandMagma Featured By Owner May 21, 2013  Student General Artist
Maybe they'll go "wait a minute, I don't wanna be self-pitying trash" and actually start gathering some self-respect and stop being irrationally obsessed with someone who couldn't give two shits about them?

I dunno, maybe I'm being unreasonable here.
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:iconjawyaw:
JawYaw Featured By Owner May 21, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Well, when you put it that way. But I think to practically call someone trash will make them feel worse, at least in most cases.
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:iconlavaandmagma:
LavaandMagma Featured By Owner May 21, 2013  Student General Artist
To take some random stranger on the internet's opinion seriously is pretty dumb, in most cases.

In addition to which, do you really think reading a completely anonymous person's "I <3 u" is going to make somebody feel much better? If they're actually that 'touch-and-go', chances are they're gonna be feeling shit again in half an hour. They'd be much better off actually sorting out their problems.

Which is where I come in. Maybe they'll read my comment and get pissed off. They might actually see some of the sense of it though, and so convert their anger into energy that they channel into making themselves better, stronger, and AHAHA JUST KIDDING. Seriously, people come here to bitch, whine and wallow in self-pity, not to actually take criticisms to improve themselves.
That's half of humanity in general. They fucking love moaning. They fucking hate ACTUALLY DOING STUFF. That's why people get insecure and depressed when they see people actually achieving things, and think "why can't I be good, like them" [which is code for 'why am I still having the mindset of a self-entitled three-year-old and being a lazy shit all day when I could be out there being AWESOME']

I type a LOT. It's good for touchtyping practise, especially since I use the keyboard at a weird angle and so am more prone to typos when typing too slow. It also relieves stress; when I yell at people on the internet, I yell at people less in real life, and I actually care about those people in real life, so that would be bad. Amazing, right? I'm not just trolling. Much.
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:iconjawyaw:
JawYaw Featured By Owner May 21, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I've never said that a nice comment from a stranger on the internet will help anyone feel better, but if you don't get much nice comments in real life chances are that the online comment will actually help you feel better, but maybe not for very long.
And OF COURSE we're here to whine! Humans love to whine, we love the attention it gives us.
And people don't do actual stuff instead of whining because they and/or others have told themselves that they suck at everything for so long that they think they'll never be able to do anything and don't even bother trying. So if you can't get attention by doing something, you can always get some by whining. Sometimes I do the same.

Ah, who am I kidding? I don't even know what I just wrote. Sorry.
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:iconlavaandmagma:
LavaandMagma Featured By Owner May 21, 2013  Student General Artist
Here in the UK moaning is our national sport.
And queuing.
And drinking tea.
And eating scones.
And moaning about queuing to eat tea and drink scones. Or perhaps the other way around!
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amaimonl Featured By Owner May 21, 2013
I hate people like that . Forget him! Your too good for him!
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:iconpyrosaitan1:
Pyrosaitan1 Featured By Owner May 21, 2013
I hate people with no discernible reasons to enjoy being them thinking that they are so much higher than the rest of us, the arrogance of mankind disgusts me
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Mothfrocks Featured By Owner May 20, 2013
As a fellow member of the male species I can readily say if I were to meet someone who readily criticized my chosen girlfriend, has no grasp on grammar, thought they were special due to their interests, and didn't take no for an answer i'd probably take an AVO on them.
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OminousEcho Featured By Owner May 20, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I know you say you love him. But if hey doesnt like you because you game, read, and sketch; then why do you want him. Im sure there is someone out there that is dying to meet someone just like you, and will love you back. ;)
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:icondeath-fish:
death-fish Featured By Owner May 20, 2013
That is terrible, making me want to cry. :c
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:iconmonsturnao:
MonsturNao Featured By Owner May 20, 2013  Student Artist
I agree with :iconwater16dragon:, they are right you should only give your love to someone who loves you for you, not for beauty, besides most girls with beauty have nasty attitudes and have their brain full of air, mean but true, trust me, I KNOW.

So just focus on finding the right guy for you, cause he's out there somewhere :)
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:iconrababco:
rababco Featured By Owner May 24, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I agree, except just because a girl is beautiful doesn't mean they have nasty attitudes and are stupid and shallow. There are a lot of girls like that but there are also lot of girls who are pretty but are also smart and sweet. I don't know why there are a lot of girls that are pretty and have nasty attitudes, maybe it's part of our culture and it makes them feel better than everyone else, it's sad but true.
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:iconmonsturnao:
MonsturNao Featured By Owner May 24, 2013  Student Artist
Yes that is actually true, not all pretty girls are like that, but most are.
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:iconwater16dragon:
water16dragon Featured By Owner May 20, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
If a guy like that is only interested in beauty he's no worth your time and love. You should love someone who loves you for who you are and not for your looks. Someone who will stand by you and love you no matter what is the one for you.
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LinkinAnneww Featured By Owner May 20, 2013
You're not in love with him.

You're clinging desperately to an ideal that simply does not exist; this guy in real life is not the person you love, the guy in your head that happens to look like him and share his name is.

Giving attributes to a person in your head that don't belong to that person and then treating the person in real life as if they have these attributes you gave them, when they don't, is normal.

You can continue to chase him if you want, but you don't love him as a person, you love the person you wish he was. You should realize this before you continue.
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BlazeFireWolf1 Featured By Owner May 20, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
You're going after the wrong kind of attention from the wrong kinds of people. He only cares for beauty,yet you seem like a talented young lady. You deserve better. Ask yourself what you see in such a selfish person? He deserves to be treated like trash. I personally would never go out of my way to impress a guy(wether it be dressing up,wearing makeup,etc). You should look for a guy who likes you for you.
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glassmagnolia Featured By Owner May 20, 2013  Hobbyist
Well - and no offense to you - he sounds like a huge moron. If he only cares about beauty then he deserves every bit of misery he gets. I can't stand people like that. At the same time, we can't choose who we like so I feel for you. But in truth he doesn't sound good enough for you.

Here's the thing with beautiful people in general and I mean women and men. They know it and they know they can get away with murder because of it. Not all good looking people are like this of course, but he may learn the hard way...
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IcyIce360 Featured By Owner May 20, 2013
Feel your pain ST.
But I liked my person since Grade 1.
But if one cares only about physical beauty, they deserve nothing but a partner that treats them like trash.
He'll learn his lesson soon, and you will find someone who will love you for who you are.
All you need to do is to move on. Get out of that box.
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The-Dark-Warrior Featured By Owner May 20, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Ohmygod this is totally me. ;-;
Well all I can say -besides my relating to this- is that if he can't respect your talent, he's not god enough for YOU. Because someone who doesn't accept talent is just jealous.
My crush is kinda like that...*sigh*
Anywhos I wish you the best of luck.
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SakurakoAnamiya Featured By Owner May 20, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Hey if that guy is only looking for beautiful girls they are not beautiful if they treat him like trash!
If you care then just try and talk to him.
If he wont except you for who you are then He doesn't deserve you gurl.
I'm pretty sure your an amazing person!
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xLossen Featured By Owner May 20, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
I believe he's a little confused. I just cannot see how someone can go out with someone with a horrible personality. I guess looks are kinda like disguises eh. Anyway, i believe that this guy is a little lost and will eventually learn how important personality is in a relationship.
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BlackVinyl Featured By Owner May 20, 2013  Student Digital Artist
When will people realize that you can't fall in love with your ideal person? You think you will be good for him, but he obviously feels different about it. You cannot change a person's preferences so move on.
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Steeltalon Featured By Owner May 20, 2013
:hug: Beauty is only skin deep, hun. If personality matters so little to him, then he doesn't deserve someone like you.
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ShadowDhampire Featured By Owner May 21, 2013
I agree with Steeltalon. *Faves their comment.* :star:
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Steeltalon Featured By Owner May 21, 2013
:bow: Thank you. :>
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ShadowDhampire Featured By Owner May 21, 2013
lol. No prob. :3
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