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Secret. 13290 by DeviantArtSecret Secret. 13290 by DeviantArtSecret
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:iconpyrosaitan1:
Pyrosaitan1 Featured By Owner May 19, 2013
The cruel irony of the human mind
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LaCiCi Featured By Owner May 17, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
I think you just hate the fact that she left you. If she was your best friend though, you so love her ST *hugs*
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LaCiCi Featured By Owner May 17, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
And as for the funeral thing, as Emberra555 said, go to her grave, and get some closure. ^^
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dei0809 Featured By Owner May 16, 2013
we can't run from the past...
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Slytherin-Decepticon Featured By Owner May 16, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
Personally, a birthday party comes once a year. A funeral is once.
While you cannot go back and change the past one what might have been a better choice...
Were you running? Sometimes people don't go for the fact that they're afraid.

Either way... you have to forgive yourself. I don't think you're angry or you hate your friend.
I think you're angry and hate yourself. It's just projected onto the friendship and it's quite common.

Things happen and we don't always pick the right choice - nor we do know which choice we should pick.
However, until you forgive yourself or possibly talk to her about it (or a professional maybe) -- it will probably never be resolved.
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Emberra555 Featured By Owner May 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I think that you maybe resent her because of her birthday you ended up not being able to say goodbye to your Best Friend, which to some extent I can understand especially if the girl with the birthday DEMANDED you be there knowing your Best Friend's funeral was the same day. Based of the way this was written though, it looks to me like you CHOSE to go the the party in which case you are having a case of some misdirected feelings. You should be more angry with yourself then her.
My advice? Go to your friend's grave (If you don't know where it is call or go over to your old friends house and ask their family for the location) and talk to her. Let her know the reason you went to the girl's party instead, apologize if you feel its necessary, and say goodbye. Get some very much needed closure.
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Mothfrocks Featured By Owner May 16, 2013
you...would choose a friend's party over the funeral of your best friend? your priorities are a little depressing.
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Lilyblossom26 Featured By Owner May 16, 2013  Student Writer
You don't say that kind of thing. The point for this for people t be able to say their secrets without your judgement! You can 'try to put yourself in their shoes' but you never really will be able to judge them until you yourself have experienced it. So everyone who agreed with the comment, or said something or the sort, I cannot believe you people. [link]
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Mothfrocks Featured By Owner May 16, 2013
wow, what a beautiful case of presumptuous thinking! dear lord, take a seat now, social sally. one of my best mates died in a motorbike incident, and i had a finals soccer match and my formal on the same day as his funeral. you know what i did instead of bitching about it on a deviantart group? i ditched both those events because my fucking friend had just died.
if someone submits a 'secret' they should expect opinionated people to make an appearance. the only reason the person submitted this 'secret' is because they wanted a response. actually, no, they wanted buttpats and people telling them how ~aww don't worry about ditching your friend's funeral, you're a good friend, yes it is all your party-hosting friend's fault, not your own~
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Lilyblossom26 Featured By Owner May 17, 2013  Student Writer
Now, darling, that is not exactly what I said. But I would suggest reading the forums. Have a wonderful day.
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Mahlattu Featured By Owner May 16, 2013  Student General Artist
I agree. :(
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JackzRagdoll13 Featured By Owner May 16, 2013  Student General Artist
exactly what I was thinking.
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Dexpo Featured By Owner May 16, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I don't think you can be blamed for choosing like you did. A lot of people hate funerals because they feel like going to them means admitting the person is well and truly gone, and you had an excuse not to go, so you took it. I think a lot of people would do the same, even if they wouldn't admit it.
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salty-dreams Featured By Owner May 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
you don't hate her, you hate yourself and as a defense mechanism your head told you you hate her. you must deal with your "mistake" and your "hate" for your friend will go away. how do you deal with yourself? you must forgive youself and stop punishing yourself.
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:iconlouderthanapplause:
louderthanapplause Featured By Owner May 16, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
Your friends funeral was on the same day as her death?
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:icondexpo:
Dexpo Featured By Owner May 16, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
No, the funeral was on the same day as the Birthday party of another friend of the Secret Teller.
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wishIist Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Why, is alwaus the first question we ask ourselves. Why do I hate her? Why does it really matter? Why do I care? Why do I hurt so bad? why ME? Why?

They are all very questions. But it's hard to get an answer. I wish I could give you a better comment. But this is really all I have to say... Good luck sweetie... <3
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Akuma0013 Featured By Owner May 15, 2013
Now I'm scared. May 11th is my birthday.
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:iconmidnightrosenyau:
midnightrosenyau Featured By Owner May 16, 2013  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
Me too. ^^'
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Akuma0013 Featured By Owner May 17, 2013
So weird...
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