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:iconnibbler117:
Nibbler117 Featured By Owner May 29, 2013
Don't hate yourself. You don't need to. Everyone has made mistakes, whether big or small, and many people hate themselves. But you have to fight the devil inside and try to keep the demon from taking over your mind.
When you feel guilty, apologise to the person or take responsibility of what you've done.
To get out of the real world, create your own. Daydream in a fictional world where you can decide what will happen next, and that follows a story. At least, that's what I do, and my daydream has been following the same story for one and a half years.
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ReverseImaku Featured By Owner May 25, 2013  Student General Artist
I won't normally comment on these kinds of self judgmental posts, but in this case, it's really your choice on how you'd like to deal with this; if you don't want to hate yourself, hurt other people and 'suffer' like that anymore(unless you don't count this as suffering) then you really should watch your behavior and try your best to change yourself. If you want to hate yourself and stay that way, it's still your choice. It's the consequences that matter to you in the end.
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zomgie117 Featured By Owner May 24, 2013
To whom ever Feels this way. Growing up Sucks. Imo 75% of people Never do it. and the other 25% have to face this statement. its ok to hate yourself. it Simply means you have come to terms with one or more of your shortComings. but knowing the problem is half the battle. Good Luck finding the solution that works for you. Lifes hard. But thats just because if it wasn't, you would not be able to derive as much Joy from it.
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:iconfaff33:
faff33 Featured By Owner May 20, 2013
Think of yourself as an expert thief who is charismatic and a good actor. Being selfish is smart (in my opinion).
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faff33 Featured By Owner May 20, 2013
I'm ignorant, and selfish, and a thief, and I do lie. But in no way I hate myself :D
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:iconasymmetrical-wings:
asymmetrical-wings Featured By Owner May 18, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
definatly
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Emberra555 Featured By Owner May 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
You don't just hate yourself in that case, because just about every person on the planet is one of those things to some extent.
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jdogthekiller44 Featured By Owner May 16, 2013
Me to so mush i what to Push them to the ground and tell what they are doing
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:icondieherzogin:
DieHerzogin Featured By Owner May 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I know this feeling. Very well.
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KnnO Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I stay away when there are people like that from now on, so I won't be affected.
Even if people think I'm dramatic, I am actually a person who seems to be high lol.
The only thing that makes me happy about myself, is being a psychopath, and at the same time having feelings and being caring for a few selected people. ^^
my psychopathy isn't so much though but I know that I was born like that.
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:iconfaff33:
faff33 Featured By Owner May 20, 2013
Are you sure your a psychopath?
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:iconknno:
KnnO Featured By Owner May 21, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
.. Um, Yeah, sadly. I've been aware of that .. like, since forever.. but I think it's more like I have multiple personalities or something.
And sometimes I thank god I am a psycho.
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TiteArumi Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Okay, I can't understand why people are "fighting' together through the comments ._.
But well, anyway.

I believe everyone have something he/she doesn't like in himself/herself. And this is true, it's so hard to change it. I know it is. And I understand (I think) the point.
I don't know if you can change now, because there is only one person who know it, and that's you. But the good point is that you're aware of what you don't like in you.
But first thing, if you don't want to be stuck at this point, the first thing is... To try to find what you LOVE in you.

Okay, that's not in order to forget what you don't like, it's just when you hate you, you can't act to change. So try to find somethings you truly like in you. Be optimist. And then, think "okay, I have defaults, but I know I can improve and be better"
I know it surely seems weird, but this was my advice. I hope it can help you in a way. It will be hard, but you can do it !
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HectorAdame Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
To DAS:

You have no quality standards whatsoever and calling people who attack you cyberbullies is just ridiculous, since you're the ones bothering people with things like this.
And the worst part is you're pulling the ST down with your ship instead of helping him/her, because the attacks don't just affect you, they affect the ST as well. Have you thought of that or you don't care about anything but your stupid pageviews?
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:iconfaff33:
faff33 Featured By Owner May 21, 2013
Like a boss
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:iconvictoriatheunicorn:
VictoriatheUnicorn Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
THANK YOU
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:iconoemilythepenguino:
OEmilyThePenguinO Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Student Digital Artist
exactly.... this. all of this. more people need to understand this
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:iconhectoradame:
HectorAdame Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Then change. There is no "I can't" in life; you can change if you want to, with professional help and your own strenght of will.

Fight for what you want, anyway you can.
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nianyanii Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Student General Artist
All these secrets are about people who hate themselfs
and cant see how these club could help them..
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:iconrohakmultiplex:
RohakMultiplex Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Don't hate, have pity.
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Lilixilon Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Haha, I was just writing something like this about myself this evening! Don't worry, you're not the only one who feels like this :) Just try not to think about it :D Bring peace to your mind and soul :aww:
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Eternities22 Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
These are getting more and more pathetic by the day. Truly pathetic.
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OEmilyThePenguinO Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Student Digital Artist
I'm hoping that eventually DAS will move to an external site... I see so many more negative comments than positive. I'm totally with you.
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Eternities22 Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I'm glad so many people agree. It's such a terrible, needless, pathetic deviation that tries to get some kind of sympathy in an obnoxious, immature fashion. I have none. I don't know or care about this person. Nobody knows them. So why should we care? We shouldn't.
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OEmilyThePenguinO Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Student Digital Artist
eh, I try to care about others... but if they're going about it in such an attention-whoring way... they won't get my sympathies.
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Nixiieh Featured By Owner May 15, 2013
If its a secret.. Why is it out for the world to see? ;l
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:iconoemilythepenguino:
OEmilyThePenguinO Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Student Digital Artist
then let's change that! Ranting about how much you hate yourself on poorly made picture isn't going to fix anything.

Stop saying things. DO things.
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Gnome64 Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
yay
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:iconduskvsdawn:
DUSKvsDAWN Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
true, since we all say this but we all do atleast one of these things in our lives.
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:iconsalty-dreams:
salty-dreams Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
ST, you forgot- weak. i will not be mean to you, but, if you really hate all of those things and actually see them inside yourself...why don't you change it? how do you change it? stop lying, cheating, stop being selfish, dramatic etc. or go the easier way out, hate yourself and waste your life. that one is very easy to be done. actually, snick-n-snee said it all in the best way.
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:iconduskvsdawn:
DUSKvsDAWN Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
because you don't get the point.
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salty-dreams Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
really? i am not selfish, i am not dramatic, i am not hypocritical, ignorant. i never cheated on anyone and i don't lie (did it as a child and now i just don't see the point) so my dear, when all is summoned up, this may be about you, not all of us, not all of us are like this. oh, and i most certanly ADORE myself. this being a "secret" means somebody wishes to change a thing or two about him/herself. if that person wrote this to make the rest of us wonder "hmmmm, he/she just may have a point"...it is his/hers problem. i don't know about the rest or you but none of these "qualities" represent me.
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DUSKvsDAWN Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
everybody lies atleast once. even saying "i'm fine" while you're not is a lie, and if you're telling you're not lying to me, well that adds up to the others.
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salty-dreams Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
no hun, see, you look at the world black and white while i don't, i learned one should be wiser then that. if i say "i am fine" while i am not, that is not a lie, that is hidding the reality in order not to hurt someone and make him worry over you. see the difference? i don't think so.
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:iconduskvsdawn:
DUSKvsDAWN Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
hun? wow, now that's low.
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:iconsalty-dreams:
salty-dreams Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
that is the only argument you could pull out? hmmmmm
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:iconduskvsdawn:
DUSKvsDAWN Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
does it matter to you what i write back anyway?
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SomeFrenchToast Featured By Owner May 15, 2013
There's no point to get, this person has to get their shit together and start doing something relevant instead of complaining on an art site through a terribly done thingily that I wouldn't call a deviation
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:iconduskvsdawn:
DUSKvsDAWN Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
it's not a person, it's a community. and there is a point. if you don't get it, you should feel ashamed, since this is about all of us.
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Lunatic-Blade Featured By Owner May 16, 2013  Student
Oh man :iconfacepalmplz:

The problem here is "I hate myself". Because whoever hates himself for being human, is not worth being human.

That, and saying you hate yourself basically means you REALISE whatever you're doing wrong is not just and that it needs to be changed. However, hating yourself, won't change it.
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salty-dreams Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
see, i would almost get your point...if it wasn't for that small tiny but yet noticable line at the end "i hate MYSELF". so, should i feel ashamed? no, i should not, and people who behave in a manner this secret describes don't care anyway and will not stop to think about it. not here, not like this. no, when it hits them in the head, then. maybe.
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DUSKvsDAWN Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
if you hate this so much, why are you even looking at it and commenting on it? does not make sense either.
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:iconsalty-dreams:
salty-dreams Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
huh? did you even read what i wrote? where on earth do i say i hate this???
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:iconduskvsdawn:
DUSKvsDAWN Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
i have no idea, but you pretty much give the expression.
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SomeFrenchToast Featured By Owner May 15, 2013
Stop saying this. This isn't all "about us". I don't feel that way. I don't hate myself. However, I do hate people who do nothing but to complain about it. To me, they're just wimps who can't act. I get it that you seek help, okay, but on an art site? What is there to seek? We're not psychologists, we're artists. Get that out of my frontpage. (and don't you fucking dare to tell me that if I don't like it, I have to ignore it. I did that at the beginning but you can hardly ignore something that you see every fucking day each time you log onto this site, something with such terrible bigass typo.)
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:iconduskvsdawn:
DUSKvsDAWN Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
it is about the fact that we all say that we hate those kind of people while we all do it. it's not that hard to see, is it?
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SomeFrenchToast Featured By Owner May 15, 2013
Um no, the main point is that these secrets shouldn't be on dA. it's supposed to be an ART site, period. None of that self-loathing bullshit here unless it's presented artistically, in which case I don't have anything to rant about. But here, this is just terrible and sad to see what this site resorts to in terms of new ideas.
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:iconduskvsdawn:
DUSKvsDAWN Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
then report them instead of spending so much time on me telling how much you dislike it?
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snick-n-snee Featured By Owner May 15, 2013
I know that it's easy to create a fault in yourself, and feel like you're this terrible person to be hated. I suffer from depression and have only just starting getting actual help -- medication and therapy -- to attempt to subdue some of the worst emotions and learn how to change my thoughts.

I recognize that I still have flaws, things that I am not proud of, that is not just the depression talking. All you can do is look critically at yourself and see -- what is rational? Are you really selfish, or do you feel guilty for wanting something simple? If you are really dramatic, what are you doing to try to fix that in your life?

I honestly hate these secrets, the "art", and everything, because all you can really do is help yourself by acknowledging what is wrong and moving forward. Perhaps this was an acknowledgment for you, but it is really easier to go up to your parents and ask for help -- well, not easy, but better and a better step toward feeling better.

I don't think you're going to magically stop hating yourself by posting a secret in black and red, and then coming on here and reading people complaining about the DAS group. That will probably only make you feel worse. I don't know your situation well enough to judge if you should "get over it" or if it is a case of teenage hormones vs real depression (which was why I didn't get help for as long as I did, thinking I was just being dramatic), but... Seriously, go do get help! Fix what you can fix about yourself if you're acknowledging your flaws rationally.
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LinkinAnneww Featured By Owner May 15, 2013
Looks like this post struck a nerve with several people who can relate more than they want to.

Not that a single one of them will admit it.
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