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jtcheney Featured By Owner May 29, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
You need to be open and honest with your husband. He is your other half, and deserves your honesty and needs to trust you in all things.
fizzymoth Featured By Owner May 25, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
TMNTLeoLei03 Featured By Owner May 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Oh, and if you can't conceive, which is the idea I'm getting now, definitely tell your husband. That's something you'll both need to work out on your own. Stay strong, you can do it :)
TMNTLeoLei03 Featured By Owner May 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Tell your husband. At least, start with him. If you can't be honest with him, things will never ultimately fully work out. Just tell him :) He might not accept it at first, but if he truly loves you, he'll have to accept it. And also, make sure you both are willing to compromise. Don't be so "selfish" that you can't ever accept what he wants, but make sure you're firm in what you want that you're willing to push for it. If you don't mind having children, and he really wants them, maybe you should go for it. Also, if you really just don't want children, and he would like to have children, he'll probably have to compromise. Just do what you need to do. Best of luck :)
dhxjcrd Featured By Owner May 16, 2013
Wow... I feel sad now. I'm sorry. It's pretty bad to not be able to have children, if that's what you want. Maybe adopt if it's that bad? I don't really know what else to say.
nana-infinity Featured By Owner May 15, 2013
Man, you don't have to make up escuses for this. It's an option, and no one can judge you because you think this way. No one is obligated to have children anyway.
MitzuSojaki Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
It's not everyone who needs children. But you need to be honest with your husband - because for many it's quite as natural as breathing. If you are not ready, or don't want children at all, he need to know. Sooner or later he will found out anyway.
But I don't think it's something to discuss with family, close or not. It's between you and him. But mostly about you. It's your body. And it's a whole new person to share your life with. Just relax and don't hesitate.
grj-tardis Featured By Owner May 14, 2013
i am sure i will get shot down for this, but kids seem like a whopping annoyance to me. perhaps its best to enjoy life with out them (for some of us at least).
RemiroQuai Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
I'll shield ya. I totally agree with you. :huggle:
There is no harm in not wanting children...
JackzRagdoll13 Featured By Owner May 14, 2013  Student General Artist
I'm not sure if this secret is about the secret teller not wanting to have kids, or telling herself she never wanted children to cope with the disappointment, emotional stress and pain she is enduring from being unable to conceive.

Regardless, that is a painful situation. Here's to solace, in whatever form it comes. :heart:
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