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shamankingova Featured By Owner Edited Jan 20, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Im fat i know that and i feel like that too most of the time before. Im still fat now, my family calls me fat all the time and tells me to eat less and stuff like that, my point is that its better to accept what you are now dont let that hinder you from living your life to the fullest, have fun, pretty yourself up. what do you have to lose. dont think that people will ridicule you if  you'll pamper yourself up its fine. We are ourselves the worst bully we know, dont let that hinder you in reaching your potential.  Be less self conscious but not to much, Enjoy life cause you only live once :)



Everyone is beautiful but some aren't because they choose to be ugly
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ZerasTheHusky Featured By Owner Jul 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
To be fair! I like girls with small tops and big bottoms!
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Yamiga Featured By Owner May 29, 2013  Student Writer
Overweight people can sometimes be very beautiful! Don't feel bad!
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TheAspiringFlower Featured By Owner May 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
My entire family calls me fat non-stop, every single day since I was 10. I've developed severe social anxiety and always feel that everyone is staring at me and criticizing me. And because of this, my daily routine is coming back from school, sitting in my room for 7 hours, eating as little as I can, and going to sleep. It's even taken a toll on my social life...not that I had one to begin with.
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DarkPika-Sama Featured By Owner Jun 13, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I know how you feel. My dad calls me fat from time to time and he's worse off than I am, both health and weight wise. One time, I nearly put myself in a dangerous situation of because of him. Eventually, I learned to ignore him whenever the subject came up.

Things will get better.
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Zenmaya Featured By Owner May 29, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
Hold on,Things'll get better :)
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:icontheaspiringflower:
TheAspiringFlower Featured By Owner May 30, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I hope so, I'm getting really tired of it all
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:iconzenmaya:
Zenmaya Featured By Owner May 30, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
Usually the world will insult you and all you need to do is kill it with kindness,Worked with me.Hopes it does to you :)
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TheAspiringFlower Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Thank you :)
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:iconzenmaya:
Zenmaya Featured By Owner Jun 3, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
Your welcome ^w^
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space-owls Featured By Owner May 25, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
You don't have to be skinny to be pretty
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WolfieThaKitty-Cat Featured By Owner May 25, 2013  Hobbyist
Overweight is still more beautiful than extremely skinny
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:iconlittlecharmers:
LittleCharmers Featured By Owner May 24, 2013
You wanna know something? It's something I feel like everyone should know. You people are all beautiful, now all you guys have to do is believe it.
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RavynRaver Featured By Owner May 22, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Remember that your sizes and your weight is just numbers. Marilyn Monroe was a size 12. I myself am a size 10, what is considered "plus size" in my industry (modeling). If you rock what you've got, those numbers stop mattering.

If you need, my inbox is open. :)
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VB-lurvs-gummy-bearz Featured By Owner May 19, 2013  Student Writer
Weight is just a number, I have learned. As long as you are comfortable with yourself and confident in your being, then NEVER CHANGE. EVER.
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Dandelicious Featured By Owner May 20, 2013  Hobbyist
I disagree. If you are comfortable with your weight but have health problems because of it, then you should change.
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VB-lurvs-gummy-bearz Featured By Owner May 20, 2013  Student Writer
That factors into happiness.
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Dandelicious Featured By Owner May 20, 2013  Hobbyist
Nah, I've seen plenty of overweight people who won't lose weight despite health problems because "they are comfortable with their bodies". That's a bit stupid. And I'm not hating on overweight people, being one myself.
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VB-lurvs-gummy-bearz Featured By Owner May 20, 2013  Student Writer
I am as well, I don't really think this conversation is relevant to what I was saying. I just think people should start loving themselves the way they are before they decide to change.
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Dandelicious Featured By Owner May 21, 2013  Hobbyist
I interpreted it as you saying that as long as you are happy with the way you look, you donīt need to change regardless of your health. I am sorry if I misunderstood anything :)
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Kien-Lyons Featured By Owner May 19, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
My best friends told me two different things. The one I was like a sister to told me I was beautiful. The one I fell in love with called me fat. Guess who I trust the advice of?

No matter who you are, as long as you are a good person at heart, you're beautiful.
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confidenceAlive Featured By Owner May 18, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
It may not mean much to you..Because I don't know you personally, and people have a hard time wrapping their brains around how anyone could without knowing a person but...

I love you for who you are.

That's all [=
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Osolito Featured By Owner May 18, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I know I'm overweight, despite my friends etc. telling me otherwise
Because my family, the majority of my school, and some people I don't even know tell me that it "makes them sick to look at me" just because of my weight.
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ClutterCollector Featured By Owner May 17, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
You look pretty.... :)
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ClutterCollector Featured By Owner May 17, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Society's just a bitch.
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Emberra555 Featured By Owner May 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I know that feel...
I can assure you that people do love you for who you are. So many people in this world were raised to judge people on appearances but there is a similar number to judge on personality instead. If you don't have any friends in the latter grouping, find some, it isn't that hard. They are great people and will make you feel great about yourself. You are probably an awesome person, change your weight or don't, you're probably still totally awesome that doesn't change with a few numbers on a scale.
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Ari-Heart-Matsuri Featured By Owner May 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I made this a fave because I know, who ever you are, you are perfect. If you are kind to people and try to love yourself, even if you fail, I know you're perfect.
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TheGeekQueen Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
I used to be picked on for being over weight. I felt alone, so I get where your coming from. I finally got sick of being picked on so I started studying history, reading, drawing; anything to get my mind off of the people I wanted to get away from. I still go to school with the same jerks as before and their either jealous of me for being smart and talented or terrified because I learn so many secrets sitting in the corner that they fear me. hat's not what I wanted but that's what I got. The only thing that change from the beginning is that I can now draw on my homework and be in drama and play Flute without fearing their words. I got over the fact that this word is full of cruel or unusual people. I tend to like the unusual ones more. It probably doesn't help that I tutor my tormentors so that they don't get kicked out of their sports. The kicker I'm still overweight.
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Bahamut285 Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I don't really appreciate on how people who are butthurt about not being thin have resorted to thin shaming and the whole "real women have curves". It just perpetuates the idea that women are only valued by their bodies and not by who they are inside. Nobody likes to be 5 bajillion pounds with rolls of fat or triple chins or being bed-bound. Nobody likes to be 50 pounds where you are literally a bag of bones. (This is for men and women alike)

It shouldn't be about appearance, it should be about HEALTH. If you are severely overweight or severely underweight you should seek help with you doctor or nutritionist, or start exercising. Exercising is not just for people who want to lose weight. I am horribly underweight and I have since normalized my weight through exercise because it stimulated my unhealthy body to consume more food. Eating healthy is important too. I hate seeing people go into McDonalds and ordering 10 hamburgers with "a diet coke".
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VivaAngel Featured By Owner May 18, 2013
"It shouldn't be about appearance, it should be about HEALTH"

:iconclapplz:

You are one smart cookie.
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DPXArio Featured By Owner May 15, 2013
my parents constantly tell me that i will never find love because i am overweight... it kills me, because i am a nice person, and i really want that to be the only thing that matters, i mean i am not sick, and i dont look overweight... why should that deter my happiness? people should love you for who you are...
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cat12553 Featured By Owner May 17, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
u r so right! i know ur feel bro... im horribly overweight n ugly... alot of people say i probably look like she-male! noboody looks at prsonality anymore. if u hv abs, n r goodlooking or have big boobs n are beautiful then u r in the likeable category, if ur nerdy, not so good looking n fat or fat, n ugly the n ur unlikeable. n i probably think people should consider rethinking the quote: "nobody is perfect be4 they say mean things to someone." thank u for putting such a considerate n sweet comment that people should love u for who u r not what u look like. :)
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SapphiraTheMongoose Featured By Owner May 15, 2013
These comments are so wonderful! I don't know why they aren't allowed in most of the deviations here, it always bugs me. I don't want to fav and share them because it'd make me feel like I was seeking attention, or just feeling sorry for myself. The support and love from the comments show that there are people out there with the capacity to love, despite all the jerks in the world who don't, or only 'do' on specific terms and conditions. And it reminds me not to allow them in our lives, because there's no room or time available for someone who just brings you down. These people have no place in your life, and should just be passed over like a stranger on the street.

[link]

Remember: "There could never be a more beautiful you
Don't buy the lies, disguises and hoops, they make you jump through
You were made to fill a purpose that only you could do
So there could never be a more beautiful you!"

We're all here for you!
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metalangel123 Featured By Owner May 15, 2013   Traditional Artist
GTFO this site.
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minieverfeel Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Student General Artist
All my life I've been made fun of because of my weight. My mom the day before Mother's Day announced my weight to be over 250, but its not. I thought about returning her mother's day presents and then felt bad about it. I was anorexic at a point because my stepmother made me feel so shamed to be the weight. I still don't forgive her for it. But in the end, I know its me. And I hate me for being overweight.
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cat12553 Featured By Owner May 17, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
dont hate urself, my mom keeps telling me to go on a diet cos im fat so ur not alone, okay? learn to love urself first, then people will love u too, for urself. btw u seem a vry sweet person! :D
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minieverfeel Featured By Owner May 17, 2013  Student General Artist
Thank you! You're really nice too!
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cat12553 Featured By Owner May 18, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
ur welcom n thnx! ur still nicer! :D
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DayDreamPony Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
These "secret" thingies are so emo, srsly, can't you put something happy or funny or something like that? Put something to encourage people's self-esteem not to bring it down...
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Maura302 Featured By Owner May 15, 2013
Here's a not so secret, secret: Love yourself! Appreciate your qualities and talents. Admiration is reflected! Your body is nothing but wrapping for your soul.
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Set1996 Featured By Owner May 15, 2013
Well, if you're overweight you're not the healthiest you can be... That's kind of the whole deal ;P
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growinluvhandles Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Student Writer
There is nothing wrong with being overweight. More and more people are becoming overweight every day. It is the new normal for modern people. Learn to love yourself, and to let others love you for who you are -- not your size, shape or weight.

You area a child of the universe, and you deserve to be loved -- especially by yourself.
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TheRequiemRose Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
I'm 5'5"/165cm and 185lbs/84kg. Most people, that I've met, have their mind set that your success in life is in direct correlation with your size and curvature. The smaller you are, the more successful you are. Which in my opinion is bs. My mother is a plump woman and has her masters in Nursing, my sister is getting her Doctorates in Cancer research and she is a little less plump than my mother. They all seem so concerned with their weight. I've had people call me fat, but I look at other people and disregard those comments. I have a visible waistline and can lift a large amount of weight (50+lbs/22+kg). So, SP, please don't feel that you are fat. You will find someone who loves you for you and also loves your curves. It might take a while for you to see that, but it will happen. :)
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SormiPoro Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Regardless of what people say, whether positive or negative, you will have a problem as long as you aren't happy with yourself. The definition of a healthy weight is not set in stone, because of different body types so the "healthy" weight of a person is when they feel healthy. It certainly has nothing to do with the BMI, which was developed for statistical analysis and can only provide any useful information when looking at very large groups, not individuals. People will tell you that your weight or shape doesn't matter, but that isn't really true until you come to terms with it. At least that's how it was for me.
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UyouShibuya Featured By Owner May 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Dear, I advice you to read this [link] :)
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RukahTsubasa Featured By Owner May 15, 2013
This was really a cool link!
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Zack-angel Featured By Owner May 15, 2013
my wife is curvy and I love the hell out of that body, stop thinking that overweight is a problem, there's always someone who want you so BAD
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Zack-angel Featured By Owner May 15, 2013
it says Im forbidden to see the link :( can you please help me out?
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