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koshplappit Featured By Owner Jun 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Had a friend like that... she hurt me a lot. v.v
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ValleW Featured By Owner May 12, 2013
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ClutterCollector Featured By Owner May 12, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I honestly and truly wish I could talk to you. I'm sending you positive vibes for the future, from one third wheel to another.
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synergy-red Featured By Owner May 10, 2013
ST if you do try and talk about the person be careful on how you do it. Make sure its a face to face and not over the phone or texting. Also don't outright confront them in an aggressive way about it because that never ends well. If you out right accuse them of something they'll immediately go on the defensive and get really aggressive as well. So try and approach it in a subtle way. If you really care about this friendship with this person try and work it out, if not then leave without a word.

I been on both ends of this kind of thing. I had a friendship like this with another person I used to be close with; I approached the situation aggressively and it ended badly. I also had a friend I wasn't so close with and she left with out a word. I felt hurt that she only told one person and left the rest of us hanging. I didn't understand why she didn't tell us and there is probably a good chance that the person your leaving won't either. Often when people hurt others they don't even realize their doing it; its really saddling.
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synergy-red Featured By Owner May 10, 2013
oops I meant *saddening* for the last sentence and for the first sentence *about it with the person*
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Deus-Nocte Featured By Owner May 10, 2013  Professional Digital Artist
Seconding CutieDeidara. They can't know there's a problem unless you tell them. A lot of issues arise from simple misunderstandings that could've been resolved if someone only took the initiative to talk to the other person; communication is so important in ANY relationship you have, whether it's a friendship or significant other.

Sometimes people don't realize they're being inconsiderate. Give them a chance to change before you toss them away.
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CutieDeidara Featured By Owner May 9, 2013
To be honest I would recommend you to tell the person you refer to about your problem.
Running away is never the answere and maybe he/she will understand how you feel and change his/her behaviour. Please think about that carefully, 'cause I don't hink that you want to regret it afterwards.
Howerver I wish you the best and hope for you that you will find the strength and the courage to talk to this person about what's bothering you.
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner May 9, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I know how you feel. This is how all my close friendships ended.
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