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KrumGirl Featured By Owner May 5, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
U love sex... so what? Enjoy it and don’t let stupid labels like “slut” stop u.

Honestly I wish I was more like you, I would give almost anything to be in your position. I don’t enjoy sex... ever.

No matter how many people I have slept with (to this day men: 17 women: 9) or how many positions I have tried (I think I’ve exhausted the whole hetero and les Kama sutra) I just don’t enjoy it.

I’m good in bed and I know it (it might sound arrogant, vane or conceited but I don’t really care) but no matter what I do I can never please myself.

I feel great when my bed partner has a great time but this is a purely egotistical satisfaction. I don’t feel ANYTHING when I sleep with other people. No arousal, no desire, no love, no grossness (believe me I’ve tried things others find shameful just to see if I could feel something) no hate… nothing but cold, distant, indifference.

So again… dont punish yourself for loving sex. PLEASE ENJOY IT, you have no idea how blessed you are.
icebluemusic Featured By Owner May 4, 2013
If the secret teller still reads the comments (if they ever did), there's a movie called Diary of a Nymphomaniac. It's Spanish/French, and quite amazing.
DubstepCat Featured By Owner May 2, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Calling people things like "slut," or "whore," are ridiculous.
Those are just useless labels.
Don't let them get to you.
Siestalan Featured By Owner May 2, 2013
Don't let stupid labels define who you are. All that matters is that you're proud to be who you are and happy with your life - and if not, you got the courage to post this here, so you should have the courage to change your life to something you want it to be. The word "slut" is just an insult, another label people invented to make others feel bad or put them into a category. It's completely meaningless, believe me ^__^
mehpinkgirlie Featured By Owner May 2, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
You have courage to send such a secret.

I mean, look at the furore you have created with just eleven words. If that isn't creative then I don't know what it. Ignore the drama and the 'slut-shaming'.

I understand that this kind of secret is divulged with personal trauma. I know that there are connotations with the words you used, but I feel that the real worry is that you have used this words to describe yourself and you are out there somewhere punishing yourself for being a nymphomaniac and feeling like the world may begin to perceive you as a slut. All that counts is the person you face up to every day in the mirror - don't punish yourself with derogatory terms. Always remember that if you don't like the person you see staring back at you, you can always make a change in your life. Chin up hunni, you'll get through it :) xx
Greed-kun Featured By Owner Apr 30, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
Whenever I see someone call someone a "slut" or be ashamed because someone called them one or are afraid to be called one, I always thing to myself: "What's wrong with expressing your sexuality? If that's what deems someone a slut, then I'm the biggest slut of them all, and I'm proud of it."
ThoughtWanderer Featured By Owner Apr 30, 2013
The term "slut" was invented to make women feel miserable and control their sexuality. It's an artificial distinction. It can't define you once you realize how meaningless it is.
KeganVfar Featured By Owner Apr 30, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
There is nothing sluttish about wanting or enjoying sex. If you want it, take it, and don't heed those who would call you a slut.
JackzRagdoll13 Featured By Owner Apr 30, 2013  Student General Artist
Being a 'slut' is a social construct that was made up to make women feel bad about themselves. If you are a consenting adult that has sex with other consenting adults and enjoy sex, I say embrace it and have fun because you are doing nothing wrong. Let no one tell you otherwise.
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