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Genevieve124 Featured By Owner May 8, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I feel you bro. And all you really need is a special person who wil LISTEN and LOVE. Find him/her and you're all set! <33
Carnivvorous Featured By Owner May 6, 2013
all the yaoi fangirls
But hey, there really isn't anything wrong with that.
Many people find it attractive as well.
KrumGirl Featured By Owner May 5, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Dont feel sad, bad or rejected. There is a lot of people out there who is just like you.

Dont get desperate, with time you will find the perfect someone for you!

I wish you lived closer to my country, I would love to have someone like you in my life! (I have an extremely dominating personality).
DubstepCat Featured By Owner May 2, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Submissive boys are hot.
ReverseImaku Featured By Owner May 1, 2013  Student General Artist
I get that feeling a lot... Though I stopped caring bout them judging me and just tell whoever I wanna tell and who cares bout whether they leave me or not. that's just me though.

Also, for the part bout being submissive, you gotta be yourself man. Dommes don't like subs who aren't confident enough. Also, demanding someone to be your master is kinda ironic isn't it? Depending on the situation, it can turn Dommes off. In fact, demanding like this is just going to sound desperate, and desperate people almost always turn others off. It doesn't just apply to the master slave relationship.
If you have the confidence to act like yourself out there, there's bound to be someone who will approach you.

Really, if you're gonna let them other people who don't understand you hinder your road to happiness, why bother finding someone who can understand you if you don't even express yourself, just for these people? (note: this advice won't be good for you if you need emotional support from others.)
lmoonga Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013  Student
Hun, I have a friend like you. He has shared with me, because he knows I'm the proud Domme of his best friend. You'll find the right people. In the mean time, don't grow too impatient. Try not to "demand" a Dom. It's a bit off putting. Good luck!
ThousandCookie Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013   Digital Artist
D/s (Domination/submission) can play a pretty huge role in people's lifestyles, but I'm not sure it's something you HAVE to share with anyone, just as there are other things you don't have to tell to every friend you have, or things that you don't share with them fully. If you like completely different genres of music, your conversations probably don't linger on music too often, and music probably doesn't form an important part of your relationship. Same principle here.

Figure out if there's any of them you could trust with that kind of information. A good way to start - or even just to hint to people - is to talk to them about what you like in a romantic/sexual partner. Tell them you think you'd prefer your partner to make more of the choices, take the lead more, push you around in the bedroom... a "dominant" character, if you will. Maybe even crack some jokes pertaining to heavier stuff. It's all about the buzzwords, you might be surprised who else feels a similar way or goes in similar circles. ;)

As for your old master, if he stopped talking to you at all just because you lived a little far away, I'd take that as a sign you're better off without him. That is assuming you're wanting some emotional support (which, given the subject matter, I'd say is advisable) from your partner, but then some people enjoy the thrill of being dominated by someone they aren't emotionally connected to.
camecame Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013  Student Writer
i feel the same but i want to lead for some reason
lmoonga Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013  Student
You may be a Switch.
DianaVVolf Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
It isn't problem i think! :) You just have to find the perfect people to talk to, to open them! :D I'm sure you'll find them! :meow:
arcanehalo Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013  Student General Artist
I find submissive boys sexy :heart:
shygirl462109 Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013
My friend is a submissive and at first when she told me i was like 'uuuum what the hell' but then i realized that I, as her friend, didnt care about her sexual life and now we talk about it all the time haha
KaulitzWolf Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013   Writer
There are many males like you, ST, but it can be hard to come out. Especially if there's a chance your friends will judge you for it. All I can suggest is that you do some research, and maybe check out some fetish social networks (like fetlife) and connect with people in your area that share your interests.

Lunatta Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
That is kinda hot
Shaun-shau Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
It must be hard to come out with that publicly (even if it IS anonymous )
i wish i could help but, Thank you for sharing and good luck with your secret:heart:
LinkinAnneww Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013
It seems like "demanding" a master is contradictory to being submissive.
limeheer Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013
that is one of the most normal things to desire so dont be afraid to say. and there are A HELL of a lot of dominating girls and boys that is just waiting to find somebody like you
siathedragon Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
do you mean being some ones slave generaly or se´xualy
BloodyMoonLady Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013  Professional General Artist
There are many many submissive men in the world, but forcing someone to be your Master usually doesn't work out. Just be honest with yourself and with the people who you come to love, and you'll find the right one for you. Keep your chin up. :)
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