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The Secret Teller would also like to say "I hate myself for not being able to tell her how I really feel."

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halperin98 Featured By Owner May 6, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Maybe you can hint that you don't want to tell anyone who you love, cuz you're afraid it'll leak out or something, and you don't want it to ruin your friendship with the special girl. If she says something like "it won't ruin it, don't worry" or something, tell her. That my opinion/
ThelordofallReturn Featured By Owner Apr 26, 2013
gofor her fi you love her, ask her honestly.
thegoodsamaritan Featured By Owner Apr 24, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I got my girlfriend when she (albeit unintentionally) admitted she liked me. She's the best thing that ever happened to me. If you love her, you need to tell her. Whatever happens, it'll hurt worse to hide it away.
iwilblood2 Featured By Owner Apr 27, 2013
She 'unintentionally' told you she liked you? Could you tell how that went, or is it personal? Just wondering.
Kohiiko Featured By Owner Apr 24, 2013
Eh, I lay down on beds when I'm talking with friends all the time and I would be REALLY uncomfortable if one of them tried to make out with me. I, personally, think it's better that you resisted. Be a gentleman and ask next time and, if she says yes, go for it!
mothfly Featured By Owner Apr 24, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
dear ST... I don't know how old you are, but... girls (starting from a certain age) don't do such things without a reason. maybe she wanted to find out if you're into her? maybe she wanted to tease you only? don't know. if I were her, I would probably hope for hearing something like 'you know, I have this great desire to kiss you right now, but I don't know if you'd like me to.'

it's not really easy to talk about your feelings when you don't know how your loved one feels. it's a lot easier just to let her know you found her very attractive when she was there on your bed. you may start with 'you remember the other day when you were at my place? we were talking and suddenly you lied down...' - that is kinda safe and, if you're lucky, you might find out that she feels the same way you do. fingers crossed (:
silver-skittlez Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist
you have been using the hurry up and wait method. but If you really love her and I mean the kind of love that means just hearing her name makes your day 10x better then you need to tell her. I followed my love around for 1 1/2 years thats 18 months that he HATED me. now we are engaged and have been together for 1 year and 5 months. All of the time we have been together started when I put on my big girl panties and pulled him to the side and told him that I had a crush on him. That crush turned into a beautiful love that I wouldn't trade for anything in the world. I ignighted a spark in him with my confession and I wouldn't have changed it for the world. <3 You never know what can happen when you take a chance.
dhxjcrd Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013
Aw. That feeling is terrible. Hang in there. You'll get a chance for it. She doesn't hate you, I doubt she even knows. Try to make the first move, if you really love her.
arcanehalo Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013  Student General Artist
Don't hate yourself for not being able to tell her, you still have a chance to.
TeraesStella Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
You shoud have maned up and do it.
Nagem1891 Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
If anyone tried that on me and I wasn't interested....let's just say their balls would be bruised....Sit her down and tell her how you feel instead
Northern-Leuchte Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
If my mate did that I’m not sure if I could resist the urge...

When i told her i found out she loved me, too. Just be calm and tell her. Now or never.
      - NoLe
Setsuai-sama Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013
From a female point of view, I can understand why you resisted the urge. She may have completely taken it the wrong way, and that could have lead to disaster. Of course, the other could be true as well, but you played it safe, which was probably the better choice.

If you find it hard to talk to this girl you love, the best choice you could probably make, is to write her a letter. In this letter you should tell her how you feel, but don't over do it. Don't profess your undying love to her or that may scare her off. Tell her you have feelings for her and would like to pursue a relationship, but if she isn't comfortable with that, then you can remain a friend.
Lacia-Marie8 Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I was in this exact situation with my guy friend exactly one month ago. I talked to him. He likes me back. So now I have this to say to you, from my own personal experience: Tell her. You never know, but the longer you hide the more opportunities you miss. Stop wondering what could have been and move forward.

p.s. yeah, I did want him to kiss me. But I'm happy we were able to talk through our feelings first.
ScatterBrainiac Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
You never know until you try. But try telling your feelings first. Honesty is the best policy. Even if you don't get the outcome you wanted, at least you manned up and spoke what you needed to say.
xXNibiNoNekoXx Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013
As each day passes, it's a missed opportunity to know if you could have ever been. As each day passes, your future gets a little shorter. Don't hesitate, because during these times you could have already been together.
Rockaria-Owl31 Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013
Tell her! You never know unless you try, maybe she will like you and then both of you will be happy, and if she doesn't, at least you know.
TGOM Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013
Don't kiss her! Just tell her you like her, because maybe she doesn't feel the same way about you.
TheAnswer-FortyTwo Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013
Never hate yourself for waiting. Sometimes, all life is is waiting. You can't stop having to wait for things, no more than you can stop this Earth from spinning around the sun. Maybe it wasn't the right time to tell her, not the right time to kiss her, all you need to do is wait for the right time.
Cheicokawabe Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013
Awwe ;3;
LuckyHetaliaFangirl Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013
totalrandomusername Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
That's way easier to say than do, unfortunately.
LuckyHetaliaFangirl Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013
Yeah, I know... But it's worth it in the end
totalrandomusername Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
It is. And probably this person thought that too. But in the end, it's only worth it if the other one feels the same for you.

I don't know this person, neither am I this person, but I've been through a similar situation and I think that most pwople would react like that too. :)
LuckyHetaliaFangirl Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013
IDK... In my opinion, it feels good to get it off your chest even if they don't return your feelings, but to each his own, right? :)
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