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:iconwarriorcatsrock88:
Warriorcatsrock88 Featured By Owner May 25, 2013  Student Digital Artist
I can't cry because I don't want my younger siblings to think I can't protect..
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:iconluckymewpony:
luckymewpony Featured By Owner Apr 26, 2013
Me. I'm probably even more weaker than you. I am probably the weakest person ever.
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koshplappit Featured By Owner Mar 31, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm like this too, I can't cry, no matter how much I want to, the feelings just thrash around inside me... people who can cry are so lucky. But the one thing that helps is sketching. Drawing out my feelings is almost as releasing as crying.
The few times I have been able to cry in the past several years, I tried to keep the tears coming but it never lasted more than a minute or two.
Sometimes when I'm tired and my eyes well up, I purposely think of something I've wanted to cry about so I could feel like I cared enough to do it. And I do care, it's just hard. So hard to let it out.
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themezicalsomeone Featured By Owner Mar 28, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Secret teller, please ignore all the trolls on here complaining about you being a "whiny tween" or an "emo" or whatever. This is a real problem that actually many are raised into, myself included. You need to find someone to talk to like a counselor or just a close friend you can trust. Don't let these critics get to you. You only feel weak because you've been trying to be strong for soo long.
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L-Olenska Featured By Owner Mar 28, 2013
The weak perish. If you're still alive, you're not so weak.
But there are undead, do not forget ! (car-job-sleep-car-job-sleep-car-job-drink-sleep-car-job-fuck-sleep- etc - sleep - die)
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:iconwhitestasian:
WhitestAsian Featured By Owner Oct 3, 2013  Student Filmographer
I like this comment a lot :D
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:iconroxthesox:
Roxthesox Featured By Owner Mar 28, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
So it only takes some red lines and white text to be popular on this site, neat.
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:iconthemezicalsomeone:
themezicalsomeone Featured By Owner Mar 28, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I think you're missing the point but OK.
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:iconroxthesox:
Roxthesox Featured By Owner Mar 30, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
The point is that it's brooding and interesting~~~

It's dumb. That's my opinion.
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:iconthemezicalsomeone:
themezicalsomeone Featured By Owner Mar 30, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
That's fine and what is great about art: we all have a right to our own opinions.
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:iconnorimori:
NoriMori Featured By Owner Mar 28, 2013
*facepalm*
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:iconzygomanty:
Zygomanty Featured By Owner Mar 28, 2013
People love angst. It makes them feel deep and interesting.
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:iconmikachanxd:
MikachanXD Featured By Owner Mar 28, 2013
I feel with you...
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:iconhalfearth:
HalfEarth Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I don't cry over sad movies and I don't get scared of horror movies.

Distorted expectations placed over males during grade 5 that everything "girly, immature and/or low-intelligence" are 弱智 ("retarded").
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:iconcountchristoph:
CountChristoph Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013   Writer
Some People literally cannot cry; it's not that rare.

Posting this here rather than going to find actual Help might be a bad Idea, however.
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:iconcrusher304:
crusher304 Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013
You're much stronger than you think you are.
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:icongumply:
Gumply Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013
I don't know if this is really a mental problem, or if I should just see a doctor, but I only cry on the left side of my face. Could it maybe be that my right tear duct is broken? Again, I don't know if I should see a doctor...
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:icondrawingdragons1221:
DrawingDragons1221 Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
That is exactly how I feel! Exactly!
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:iconvinnie-the-dragon:
Vinnie-the-Dragon Featured By Owner Mar 28, 2013
Another 16 year old emo. Not big surprise.
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DrawingDragons1221 Featured By Owner Mar 29, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
but the thing is i go through a hard time,i hid what i feel and i'm not 16 im not emo. i'm a lively derp who hides how the feel.
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Vinnie-the-Dragon Featured By Owner Mar 30, 2013
I've also had a rough life. But I don't cry about it, or think I'm a demon or possess dark powers, or dress in all black just because I had a tough start.
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CPTBee Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
I'm actually the complete opposite: I cry a lot. I know deep down it's not a weakness, but the thing is most people don't see that and think that I'm weak and delicate and I absolutely despise that, and it just makes me even more sad than I already am. I try so hard to stop crying for the stupidest of reasons (I actually cried once when my teacher approached me (politely, might I add) for not having done my homework), but I can never manage to stop myself. I know it isn't something that I should be ashamed of, but it still irritates me that I cry so easily, and the social pressure doesn't help at all.
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LovesToGiggle Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I hardly cry when something really sad happens to me. I'm not saying that I NEVER cry, because I do. I'm not afraid to show my feelings, but I tend to not cry often, or it's more like I can't cry even if I want to...it's weird, but I don't see it as a weakness. I move on quickly: after a bad breakup, the death of my pet, what have you. I just realize that things happen for a reason, and you can't change them once they're done and over with. I have better things to do than be sad about something for an extended period of time. For people who do stay sad for a long time, there's nothing wrong with that, because you have your own way of dealing with your emotions.

You don't have to admit your fears to the world either, no matter how big or small they may be. As long as you admit them to yourself and work on conquering them, then you should be ok. :)
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:iconinfinitegalaxies:
InfiniteGalaxies Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Explains my life.
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:iconhaineko14:
Haineko14 Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
describes my life
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:iconwhitedemonwolf0:
WhiteDemonWolf0 Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013
i agree because your just like me.... so weak and broken you can't even cry when you want to, when you need to....
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:iconnicki7771:
Nicki7771 Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Student General Artist
I can understand... :XD:
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:iconlynchkidme:
lynchkidme Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
^_^ LOVE IT
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:iconserpentnight2350:
serpentnight2350 Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Student Digital Artist
It doesn't matter if someone know that you have fears, so long as one of their fears is you.
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:iconlalune33:
lalune33 Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013
so true
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:iconangelicawest:
AngelicaWest Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013
Let me tell you a secret: every one of us is weak! Either we cry or not. We're just humans, we're meant to be fragile . Everyone has their own weaknesses, sometimes the ones who seem the most perfect are the weakest and suffer the most.
Actually, the worst thing you can do is to complain. People love to complain , and that's natural - we seek for caress, others to make us better. But this won't help in the end. You are the one and only who can change yourself - others changing you is a lie. It's you who decide - the others are just impacts.

Admit those damn fears! Your fears and imperfections make you you. They'll either make you stronger, or consume you. The choice is yours - complain now and drown, or stand up and fight. Yes, you'll have to fight every day, each moment. But after a while you'll free your soul.
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beyday Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I agree with you on most points - except for the complaining bit. In some instances, it is healthy to complain. I felt like I was bottling up all my anger about life situations until one day I just told my friend and complained about everything. Slept much better after that because I knew I didn't have to keep hiding my emotions and anger.
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AngelicaWest Featured By Owner Mar 28, 2013
Of course, you're right with this, it's impossible to keep that much pressure inside us, so it's important to give it out somehow, just like how you did in your case. What I wrote is for cases when someone shouts out to the world, trying to gain rue, or people's simpathy. Telling your problems to a friend is more than okay (:
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beyday Featured By Owner Mar 28, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Ah okay, great :) Just making sure we were on the same page, because I totally agree
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:iconhollyfowl56:
hollyfowl56 Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013
this is far too true
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:iconangelicawest:
AngelicaWest Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013
Thank you, I'm glad I'm not alone with this opinion :)
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:iconhollyfowl56:
hollyfowl56 Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013
welcome. i'm sure plenty of others agree, it's a big world
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:iconanimehearts1322:
animehearts1322 Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013
Sad truth. :iconblackheartplz:
God bless, dear!
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:iconshadowdemon86:
shadowdemon86 Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
The background reminds of the final boss from earth bound.
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:icondarkone10:
Darkone10 Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013
I didn't know Fluttershy was into poetry.

(hides in bunker)
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:iconmystic-lightscx:
Mystic-LightsCx Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Fluttershy? SERIOUSLY?!
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:icondarkone10:
Darkone10 Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013
Absolutely serious.

doth thou lack humor sensitude boi!? Art thou mad at my reference!? ART THOOOOOOOUUUUU!?
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:iconmystic-lightscx:
Mystic-LightsCx Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Nope, I just don't get how kyoote adowable Flootershai has to do with this >.<
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Darkone10 Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013
The poem sounds like her personality.
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:iconmystic-lightscx:
Mystic-LightsCx Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Fluttershy isn't strong, she cries every minute, and she is afraid of everything.
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:icondarkone10:
Darkone10 Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013
Well yeah, isn't that what the thing says? That the subject is weak? The first two bits about strength revealed as a total lie in the middle?
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Mystic-LightsCx Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah, but the character APPEARS strong, but is actually weak.

Fluttershy APPEARS weak, and IS weak.
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Crazywith80s Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Yeah....Not being able to cry is a big issue to me (even after I cry, eventually, I just feel worse than I used to feel before crying) people keep telling me to not be ashamed of crying...But I just can't help it! I see people crying and I keep wondering "How can they cry in front of people....And I can't?"

and I'm known to be a cool and calm person, mostly no one ever sees me angry (even if I get irritated, I tend to hold my anger)....But sometimes I can just explode with endless rage (and it's not because I'm angry, it's because I'm hurt and all those bottled-up feelings are breaking their chains) so while everyone sees me screaming aggressively, I'm actually drowning in my tears and sorrows....and the question that triggers my tears is "Is _____ what's bothering you?" once the person knows what's going in my mind..I feel so helpless and defeated.. :(
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rababco Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
The thing about not being able to cry is true, I was "trained" (or punished) into not crying, now I'm afraid/ashamed of crying. I've always been a sensitive person so I cried a lot when I was younger, when the other kids would tease me or I criticized I would start crying and the teachers would get mad and yell at me. It usually takes a lot to make me cry even though I'm hurt easily, I just hold it in or get angry start yelling. It feels like I'm being poisoned, crying is the body's natural way of healing and releasing emotions; it releases endorphins and helps you feel better. I'm sometimes jealous of my mom who cries all the time and isn't afraid to show emotions. I express my thoughts and emotions through my art and writing.
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