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NeonColoredRain Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
You shouldn't let a bothered past make you turn into a cold person. :(
TheKnightOfCydonia Featured By Owner Mar 25, 2013
life can be unfair & cruel sometimes... but as a wise person (Lao Zi) has said- Nature itself is impersonal...
most of us have been through hardships & deep darkness, many of us have had a tough childhood... yet once we become mature & aware persons, we no longer have the luxury to redirect the responsibility for who we are! (i hope you see my words the way they are intended- as a constructive criticism)
p.s. i believe the whole "cold heart" thing is just auto-suggestion, be sincere to yourself! you wouldn't care writing all this if it was cold...
sending you warm hugs^^
Manchita1 Featured By Owner Mar 24, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
It is never one's fault that others around them made bad choices. I feel for you.

There is a love, though; one greater than anyone can imagine. And it comes from the Creator of the universe.

Consider becoming Christian. Yes, I won't deny that there are hypocrites in the religion. But if you learn from the right people, you'll discover fulfillment that will strengthen you and warm your heart again. He'll show you true love. Don't hesitate to talk to me about it. :)
Doctergirl101 Featured By Owner Apr 3, 2013
That's actually what happened to me. My heart grew cold but I discovered love after growing closer to God. :)
Tatrielle Featured By Owner Apr 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Amen! God is Love no matter what the dark says
Mary-Ana Featured By Owner Mar 24, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I totally agree with you.
Manchita1 Featured By Owner Mar 26, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Why thank you. :3
jtcheney Featured By Owner Mar 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
No, but it's your fault if you keep it there, in the cold.
ToshiroAngel Featured By Owner Mar 23, 2013
well not all the time....i have been both happy an sad to the upmost extremes of late....i'm in love with one person....and im fairly sure he's pretending to be a few ppl i talk to or he was cloned at birf....what i dont get is why all the cat and mouse because its not helping me convey my can i step forward and trust....which you is right? what if i'm dead wrong?
ToshiroAngel Featured By Owner Mar 23, 2013
i don't feel so bad about not seeing life's magic now
Shaun-shau Featured By Owner Mar 23, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
yeah sometimes it's just hard to understand that some people don't know where the happiness comes in because its been torture up until that point so...
why wait for something they never understood to supposedly be right around the corner!?
nonecansee Featured By Owner Mar 23, 2013  Hobbyist
I know the feeling. But after having a taste of warmth, I'm admittedly craving it now. Due to some twist of fate, my heart had to grow distant and alone again but I know deep inside that I want that warmth once more.
Dear submitter, I want to say that it's up to you when you want your heart to warm up.

I hope you'll find the courage to do so someday.
I (and I hope the rest of dA) won't force you but there will be people to support you, even if we're physically miles away.

Good luck with yourself :) :shamrock:
GloryAngel Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013
I get it. Maybe not in the exact same way, but I do. A few years ago I was in a car accident, had a stroke, and I've been quadriplegic and mute for the past 4 and a half years. My friends basically all bailed, my boyfriend and I broke up and my father bailed.
The only reason I haven't gone completely insane is it's all been spread out over a few years.
Long story short: it could be worse.
Ukishi13 Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Student General Artist
Life is 5% how we make it and 95% how we take it. I've never known the hardships you have known, but there's always something good to find in life. I hope you find that something soon~
Byrdgirl13 Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
i no how you feel love.

hate life if you want. it might get better it might not.

Just one thing ok?

Please, don't give up on life.

the world would be such a boring place if we didn't have you in it.
SilverScreams999 Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013
I don't believe in love as well and most people don't believe me :l
BloomyK Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I understand that life can be rough, and I know that I probably cannot relate to everything you've gone through. However, life is its own self-fulfilling prophecy. As long as you believe that life is a curse, then you won't be happy; but if you at least try to believe that there is some good in life, then you'll be happier. And that is when you will truly be alive.
confidenceAlive Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I've had a hard life too. We all have. Anyone that has any potential to really live has. You're right, it's not your fault. It happens. It happens to us all, and we've all got our stories. Some of us seem to have it better but we have our own unique struggles, all just as hard. Because it's the struggles that shape us into women and men and it's the struggles that give us a meaning, a purpose, and a cause to fight for. It's a sad fact how many people you can find to hurt you in the world, but there's something better. Because we might seem rare sometimes, but we care. I care. And we love you. I love you. You don't have to believe in it, I'm still going to give it to you, along with the respect and the attention you deserve. Because you are a beautiful, intricate, delicate human life. And that 'life' isn't just an ambiguous term for a general existence on this ball of mud; that 'life', is you, and there will never be another person that possesses the unique gift of life that you do. And that - you - are so worth it. <3
emoturtlefrk Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i can't say i know how you feel when it comes to what you been through, but i second your emotion to live being a bad thing.

I hate it. especially nowadays -.-
Anchorcrab Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013   Writer
Whoever this person is, I want to give them a hug.
LeucisticRaccoon Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Life is actually a cruel curse, not a gift. But since we like it, we consider it a blessing.
BloodySauce Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Student General Artist
It's not your fault, how could it be?

It's up to you, notwithstanding, to decide if letting someone try to warm your heart

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