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GiftedContractor Featured By Owner Jul 7, 2013
I get this WITHOUT dating them
If they like me and I turn them down, I get this (NOT MY GODDAMN FAULT I'M ASEXUAL DEVON, BEN, FUCKING EVERY MALE FRIEND I'VE HAD EXCEPT THE ONE WHO TURNED OUT TO BE GAY (seriously why the fuck does this keep happening...?))
If they ever date anybody else, I get this.
If they ever spend more than a year in a different school as me or even with best friend who isn't me, I get this.
Nobody else seems to lose their friends every couple years the way I do.
Why the fuck does this keep happening...?
NeycuuRose1 Featured By Owner Apr 26, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Gnome64 Featured By Owner Apr 16, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
No matter the age, most humans are generally too immature for relationships. With that said, going from friend to being in a romantic relationship requires a great degree of maturity. no, I don't mean being an adult snob. What is maturity?

Being able to let things go, and to put yourself in the other persons shoes. Not needing to control others, or even needing something outside of yourself to be happy.

"But wait, everyone has those issues."

Well, that's where you're wrong. There are plenty of people who don't have these issues; that's simply an excuse to not change.

Personality changes, because they relied on your friendship to be happy. The second there's a romantic pressure, you suddenly feel as though the relationship is not oriented around yourself anymore. You feel like you owe the other person SOMETHING.

Relationships aren't like that. Prisoner relationships? sure. It's as if our society has made a master/servant relationship the standard; It's either that, or an apathetic co-existance.

People are simply too important nowadays. It's why I stay away from the whole ordeal.
JadeSelket Featured By Owner Mar 28, 2013
Dated my best friend and it was the worst mistake I ever made. It didn't work and for 4 months of dating I lost a 4 year friendship.. We still don't talk
NeonColoredRain Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I agree so much. I guess this is growing up. :/
I agree with the others below me. You fall in love with the idea of them. When you see how they act and such, its weird because they aren't what you thought they were. Its happened to me a lot of times. :(
urmothermuhahaha Featured By Owner Mar 26, 2013
I know what you mean by the sudden change...
But the truth is that when you see someone as a love interest you become blinded by the "white light" they give off that you don't see the shadow looming behind them...

they look so purely perfect in your eyes that you dismiss all of the thing you deem unfit
and then they come back and hit you in the face... and not only do you lose a love interest... but you lose everything... even their friendship...

For my whole life I had been fishing the that same pond...
The only advice I can really give you is to move to a different territory...

I ended up finding my match on a dating website...
That was my pond, but it takes some tests casts in order to find a proper bite...
emoturtlefrk Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Them feels!!!

I dated a friend of mine just for Haha's and to get over another guy (kind of like freedom test thing...long story)

but he/she? was ignoring me for a while and i wanted to end it, but he/she? was sick and i didn't want to seem insensitive, and when we finnaly DID end it....he/she? dissapeard and so did like half my now i'm sitting here thinking.... what the fuck happened?

you know?
veronicle Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
mhmm i feel yo.
emoturtlefrk Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
it sucks ._.
veronicle Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
it does, its worse when the guy you thought you loved and that you thought loved you back only dated you for a fucking bet.
emoturtlefrk Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i fucking hate those people :shakefist:
veronicle Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
mhmmm i can agree
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