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AspiExistentialist Featured By Owner Mar 31, 2013
Help the Person, Not the problem. you don't need to know what is wrong to see the Pain, Do you ? So is the point to stop the Pain from the broken arm or to stop the person from jumping off the bridge? Well if you Medicate it and it will be numb, so it WILL happen again. And that puts you right back to the start Nothing Gained. They need to understand that Jumping Is what they need to change. Not Numb it, like the closed EYES of the Dead Zombies of the world we live in.
AspiExistentialist Featured By Owner Mar 31, 2013
Poochy 2479 Then so i am, but your words don't hurt me. I'm just returning them to you . If you chose not to be Hurtful, Then I Will and do reflect it back to you ... I'm noting more than a mirror of what you put out. I wish No One any pain just those that hurt others Willingly Like your words.. Weather you choose to look inside, Your Hurt . and it's OK. IT IS NOT OK to turn that on others. You need to let the hurt go.. It destroys you and your not truly happy and that Hurts me because you choose to do it.and You Deserve better for yourself. But I'm just a child that cant spell or type correctly and you Choose to use that as a combat tool. Well, I get it, I got that from people when i was in 2nd grade, and understood that then. Now I'm 45 and see People that are just Dead or Hurting inside IF they choose to feel anything. So the words hurt those that don't have the drive to defend against ... the Unneeded Hurt. That is why this account is in place, and what you were doing is just stopping the screams from being heard of those in pain and needing help. JUST LIKE YOU. Sad Hu?
DeanLeoWinchester Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013   Traditional Artist
Am I the only one getting a big Fight Club vibe off this? not to belittle the secret or it's sharer but whoever posted this one, you should watch fight club, it's not a movie just about fighting, it's actually quite the modern philosophical experience.
And if you've already seen it well... remember... "Self destruction might not be the answer..."
AspiExistentialist Featured By Owner Mar 31, 2013
And that is why I FIGHT EVERYDAY. to stop the hurt, But i still have the hurt in me and that i do not want. FIGHT club Don't help a thing with the way i was born. So while your words fit Some they don't work in all cases and knowing that self destruction is NOT the answer .. i fight with it.. I myself don't believe i have the right to stop what i am Just the Fight to change what is destroying my insides.... Hummm The Fight is from what people do to each other without any care JUST COLD MEANINGLESS HURTING and Striking out.. And what shall be done with that? Dr?
DeanLeoWinchester Featured By Owner Apr 1, 2013   Traditional Artist
I Don't Know.
If i did i would have fixed the goddamn problem years ago,
and we would all be living in a world of Peace, Love and Understanding.
At this point in time all i can do is try to offer that to anyone i interact with,
and hope that they in turn offer it to everyone they interact with,
but so many let that message shrug off their armor, try to make fun of it,
but really as Elvis Costello put it, 'What's so funny 'bout Peace, Love and Understanding?'

The truth is, since as far back as we can remember, everything in the universe has been fighting for survival, from plants and bugs to animals and the elements, but i don't see animals committing suicide over other animal's opinions about their behavior, so why let someone else effect your mind, your beliefs? don't let other people tell you who you are, keep fighting, but don't fight yourself, you are not your title, you are not your belongings, you are you, don't destroy yourself, fight for the survival of your spirit.
And remember there are still people in the world trying to make their part of it better.

I'll be Peaceful if you will
I'll be Loving if you need me to be
and I'll do my best to Understand
AspiExistentialist Featured By Owner Apr 1, 2013
Wow, Thank you.
I so wish my mind would slow, so i can learn to word things as you do, in the wonderful, proper form.
Most of the comments Treat The surface.. like the pills. The core is problem. and yer Dr Phil, gets a degree without the schooling(the schooling is a total wast anyhow) you cant Learn Understanding and In-site. Too many times there is a core problem that gets a different method of treatment and an unneeded result.. The Addition of Frustration of the person needing the help, Or a Numbing Result
Thank you for you words. This is something i think Humans need to wake up to,that will be the only way ANYTHING will ever change.
On a Funny, Frustrating, and kind of note,
Do you know how many times I had to delete a book for a response? LOL
I'm not about Judging (THAT IS JUST REFLECTION OF WHAT I GET FROM THEM)as much as I want to help everyone 2 see that THEY ARE WORTH True Peace and Happiness,(O help i sound like a love child .. lol )If my judgement is that your unhappy, I feel the need to help that one with the understanding that they ARE Different and Special,and DESERVING,WITHOUT THE ANGER, and unneeded out lashing and destruction of others.
.............. This is the work of 45 minutes for me to get this out. And it is still not right but I'm sending it out.
Sorry 4 the Running on..
DeanLeoWinchester Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2013   Traditional Artist
I agree, most try to treat only the symptoms, that's all modern medicine is now, take chemicals and drugs and hope it doesn't seriously mess up your body and mind, it ticks me off.

But anyway, yeah on one hand i would say that reflecting anger and judgment and hostility is only prolonging the problem,
but honestly some people get hurt because they're to passive to protect themselves. Seriously if just one person had stood up to Hitler, or Joseph Stalin or any of those psychopaths before they got to far, so many lives would have been spared so much suffering. instead people cowered in fear and apathy.

So i suppose the lesson there is stay balanced, be peaceful but not defenseless.

Anyway thanks for listening and don't be afraid to speak your mind,
but keep a sense of humor :)

P.S. I always thought Dr Phil was a creep.
FoxxyImpala Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm in the same boat...
fantasylover103 Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I can't help whoever this is because I dun understand the secret... .-.
izzabelable Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
been here, am here, be strong.
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