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:iconaspiexistentialist:
AspiExistentialist Featured By Owner Mar 31, 2013
Help the Person, Not the problem. you don't need to know what is wrong to see the Pain, Do you ? So is the point to stop the Pain from the broken arm or to stop the person from jumping off the bridge? Well if you Medicate it and it will be numb, so it WILL happen again. And that puts you right back to the start Nothing Gained. They need to understand that Jumping Is what they need to change. Not Numb it, like the closed EYES of the Dead Zombies of the world we live in.
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AspiExistentialist Featured By Owner Mar 31, 2013
Poochy 2479 Then so i am, but your words don't hurt me. I'm just returning them to you . If you chose not to be Hurtful, Then I Will and do reflect it back to you ... I'm noting more than a mirror of what you put out. I wish No One any pain just those that hurt others Willingly Like your words.. Weather you choose to look inside, Your Hurt . and it's OK. IT IS NOT OK to turn that on others. You need to let the hurt go.. It destroys you and your not truly happy and that Hurts me because you choose to do it.and You Deserve better for yourself. But I'm just a child that cant spell or type correctly and you Choose to use that as a combat tool. Well, I get it, I got that from people when i was in 2nd grade, and understood that then. Now I'm 45 and see People that are just Dead or Hurting inside IF they choose to feel anything. So the words hurt those that don't have the drive to defend against ... the Unneeded Hurt. That is why this account is in place, and what you were doing is just stopping the screams from being heard of those in pain and needing help. JUST LIKE YOU. Sad Hu?
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DeanLeoWinchester Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013   Traditional Artist
Am I the only one getting a big Fight Club vibe off this? not to belittle the secret or it's sharer but whoever posted this one, you should watch fight club, it's not a movie just about fighting, it's actually quite the modern philosophical experience.
And if you've already seen it well... remember... "Self destruction might not be the answer..."
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AspiExistentialist Featured By Owner Mar 31, 2013
And that is why I FIGHT EVERYDAY. to stop the hurt, But i still have the hurt in me and that i do not want. FIGHT club Don't help a thing with the way i was born. So while your words fit Some they don't work in all cases and knowing that self destruction is NOT the answer .. i fight with it.. I myself don't believe i have the right to stop what i am Just the Fight to change what is destroying my insides.... Hummm The Fight is from what people do to each other without any care JUST COLD MEANINGLESS HURTING and Striking out.. And what shall be done with that? Dr?
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DeanLeoWinchester Featured By Owner Apr 1, 2013   Traditional Artist
I Don't Know.
If i did i would have fixed the goddamn problem years ago,
and we would all be living in a world of Peace, Love and Understanding.
At this point in time all i can do is try to offer that to anyone i interact with,
and hope that they in turn offer it to everyone they interact with,
but so many let that message shrug off their armor, try to make fun of it,
but really as Elvis Costello put it, 'What's so funny 'bout Peace, Love and Understanding?'

The truth is, since as far back as we can remember, everything in the universe has been fighting for survival, from plants and bugs to animals and the elements, but i don't see animals committing suicide over other animal's opinions about their behavior, so why let someone else effect your mind, your beliefs? don't let other people tell you who you are, keep fighting, but don't fight yourself, you are not your title, you are not your belongings, you are you, don't destroy yourself, fight for the survival of your spirit.
And remember there are still people in the world trying to make their part of it better.

I'll be Peaceful if you will
I'll be Loving if you need me to be
and I'll do my best to Understand
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AspiExistentialist Featured By Owner Apr 1, 2013
Wow, Thank you.
I so wish my mind would slow, so i can learn to word things as you do, in the wonderful, proper form.
Most of the comments Treat The surface.. like the pills. The core is problem. and yer Dr Phil, gets a degree without the schooling(the schooling is a total wast anyhow) you cant Learn Understanding and In-site. Too many times there is a core problem that gets a different method of treatment and an unneeded result.. The Addition of Frustration of the person needing the help, Or a Numbing Result
Thank you for you words. This is something i think Humans need to wake up to,that will be the only way ANYTHING will ever change.
On a Funny, Frustrating, and kind of note,
Do you know how many times I had to delete a book for a response? LOL
I'm not about Judging (THAT IS JUST REFLECTION OF WHAT I GET FROM THEM)as much as I want to help everyone 2 see that THEY ARE WORTH True Peace and Happiness,(O help i sound like a love child .. lol )If my judgement is that your unhappy, I feel the need to help that one with the understanding that they ARE Different and Special,and DESERVING,WITHOUT THE ANGER, and unneeded out lashing and destruction of others.
.............. This is the work of 45 minutes for me to get this out. And it is still not right but I'm sending it out.
Sorry 4 the Running on..
MAY YOUR LOVE, ENERGY, AND HAPPINESS GROW TO FILL THE WORLD.
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DeanLeoWinchester Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2013   Traditional Artist
I agree, most try to treat only the symptoms, that's all modern medicine is now, take chemicals and drugs and hope it doesn't seriously mess up your body and mind, it ticks me off.

But anyway, yeah on one hand i would say that reflecting anger and judgment and hostility is only prolonging the problem,
but honestly some people get hurt because they're to passive to protect themselves. Seriously if just one person had stood up to Hitler, or Joseph Stalin or any of those psychopaths before they got to far, so many lives would have been spared so much suffering. instead people cowered in fear and apathy.

So i suppose the lesson there is stay balanced, be peaceful but not defenseless.

Anyway thanks for listening and don't be afraid to speak your mind,
but keep a sense of humor :)

P.S. I always thought Dr Phil was a creep.
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FoxxyImpala Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Honestly...
I'm in the same boat...
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fantasylover103 Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I can't help whoever this is because I dun understand the secret... .-.
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izzabelable Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
been here, am here, be strong.
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Cheer603 Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013
ik the feeling,im scared to let people become attached to me because i don't want them to haveto deal with my problems and my life
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rarkorn Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013
If "myself" is referring to this account and "him" is referring to the rest of this website, then yeah, I really get this statement.
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emoturtlefrk Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
that doesn't really make any sense.....and if you don't like this "account" then leave :P no need to make trouble for the people that DO wanna be here
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rarkorn Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013
I don't think you quite understand just how stupid the idea of "if you don't like, then leave" is when it comes to an account that doesn't belong here in the first place.
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emoturtlefrk Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Well..

if you dont like it...then leave.
honestly, thats as simple as it gets.


no ome really cares what you think on this subject. they arent doing anything wrong. theyre not hurting anyone.
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rarkorn Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013
Actually, first of all, some people do care what I (and the millions of others who share my opinion) think. Do you know who those people are? They're the very few people who actually submit secrets to this account because they're in genuine need of help. Second, this account is hurting people, and it just so happens that the people it hurts are the same people who would care what I think.

You see, most people on this website hate this account because it attracts more trolls and attention whores than actual heartfelt confessions and most of the quotes on here are stolen from other places on the internet. Encouraging those few honest users to submit their secrets here when they really need support hurts them because nobody can tell them apart from said trolls and attention whores, and knowing that the majority of people who see their secrets are annoyed as all fuck by them is just destructive. Nobody is helped by this account, no matter how many people post comments like "i kno that feel" or "i hope u get beter".

Also, like I said, I'm not the one who doesn't belong here. This account should be the one to leave. Move it to tumblr or something. It would be a hell of a lot easier to manage secrets from a blog like that, honestly.
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emoturtlefrk Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
dude.

i dont give a fuck.

so you have an opinion, whoopti-fuckin-doo.

and, no they arent hurting anyone.

your opinion = nothing important.

your not kind of the fucking world, and you dont know everything.

get off you7r goddamn high horse douchebag
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rarkorn Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013
Did you not read anything I just said? I literally just explained why your previous comment (and the stuff you're spewing right now) is a load of bullshit. Quit being so selfish.
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AspiExistentialist Featured By Owner Mar 26, 2013
Actually, first of all, some people do care what I (and the millions of others who share my opinion) think. Do you know who those people are? They're the very few people who actually submit secrets to this account because they're in genuine need of help. Second, this account is hurting people, and it just so happens that the people it hurts are the same people who would care what I think.
I READ THAT and i see this... YOUR WANTING someone to change because your values are different... THAT IS WHAT IS WRONG WITH THE WORLD. it causes you and others emotion and that IS ART. IM Hurt that you don't have my views and right now i cant have meds to calm my body so im in pain because it is against others values... at what point will it stop? GET A BACKBONE AND WALK ON OR DON'T... But stop trying to stop others from sharing what the want. IT HURTS YOU BECAUSE YOU CHOOSE TO LET IT HURT YOU. take your computer and Block this site and then your life will be all better ... hope you find a place inside you that is not trying to control others and you can be still and happy... BUT you take that from others... JUST STOP ... YOUR ONLY HURTING YOURSELF. RE-READ what you said... You must welcome the bashing or something because ... it s not hurting anyone but those that chose to be hurt... I CHOOSE TO HELP OTHERS YOU WANT TO BASH then Please convict yourself!!! Have an uplifting and Enlightening day.
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emoturtlefrk Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I read it.

its just really obvious that youre a total fucking idiot like the rest of the world.

therefore: i dont give a shit what you have to say.

you dont know everything, and by the way, you only said they WERE hurting people, you didn't name HOW, therefore, not a valid statement.

Why don't you do the world a favor and just stop existing. K? K.

Bye bye :D

P.s. you need to look up the propper use of the word "selfish" cause im not )
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i know how you feel
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JStanSantana Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Student Digital Artist
So they're aware of their own destruction, yet they do nothing to prevent it. Instead, they fret over bringing another down with them. The answer is simple: Let the other one go so you don't bring him down. Kind of selfish to keep them around when there is no intent on change in yourself. Then again this vague statement doesn't really leave much to elude to anything beyond simple recognition of a problem. Perhaps hope still exists or we're witnessing its dying flicker.
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yugijak Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Hope never dies, it simply leaves with your permission, waiting for you to seek it again.

Who knows, they may be afraid that by averting their own destruction, they may bring down another instead. Perhaps they even brought this destruction upon themself to save another.

We can never know.
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JStanSantana Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Student Digital Artist
True enough.
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yugijak Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Thanks for answering. To be honest I wasn't expecting a response.

That was nice of you.
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JStanSantana Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Student Digital Artist
Not all of us web-folk are trolls. ^^ You're welcome.
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yugijak Featured By Owner Mar 23, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
So how are you?
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JStanSantana Featured By Owner Mar 23, 2013  Student Digital Artist
Quite fine & yourself?
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yugijak Featured By Owner Mar 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Not bad.

Playing Age of Wushu.
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AspiExistentialist Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013
Live in your Heart of Hearts. Your calm is inside with your self acceptance. Your deserve the peace not the fear. Everything else will be as it should . Hugz
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CoyoteDove Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Hun, if you love him you wont drag him down, you will fix it yourself. If you can't help yourself then nobody can help you, fix it for him and there will be no worry.
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AspiExistentialist Featured By Owner Mar 26, 2013
I so wish at was true .... Please help me after 15 years my / WIFE has had enough of my undiagnosed Aspergers... and that is because i have been lied to for 45 years, I CANT FIX IT AND DON'T WANT TO HURT HER anymore ... so, even tho i did not make this post, i understand it all too well ... I should just try harder tho right ? maybe i should be more Human and not so HUMAN ..because, weather you chose to face it or not, even your hurt, by those that wish you no harm. Please understand, i mean nothing ill in what i say to you ... im just tired of others (NOT) Thinking that they know how everyone else should be. BREAK THE MOLD DON'T FOLLOW OTHERS. they are just as lost as you and that will get the same result if you are all the same .. there must be an app for that .. right ? or a pill... LMAO Hugs and i hope that you will think of my words, as it is really hard for me to hold one thought for any length of time... Give long hugs the work wonders for all involved
P.s. Nice display pic of one on the most worthy beings on this planet.
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CoyoteDove Featured By Owner Mar 26, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
>.< asbergers is a problem you are born with, this secret teller makes no mention of being born with whatever issue they have. If they where not born with the problem then it can be solved. Don't take offense to what I'm saying, but I have attempted suicide on many occasions because I AM one of those people that digs themselves into a hole. So actually I do know where a number of these secret tellers are coming from, though I have yet to share any of my own secrets. I have to many to choose even just 2 to share. Thank you though, she is my eldest sisters cat Frisky.
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AspiExistentialist Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013
i dont take any offense to intelligent t conversation.. ya i was born with it (and was forced to live a lie) and the Sad thing is that i also have attempted to stop the emotions and im tired of hurting too... AND ALL i see in this world is ones that want to hurt each other for their own gain... But back to the point ... the teller doe not say .. your right there BUT to have people in here arguing about it is Just more sad... the world is not as caring as it would like to think. Mose people are so dead inside that they dont see the ones asking or screaming for help... it is just all Really sad. the world needs to wake up and this is a small place to put these words .. when everyone should ask themselves WHY Do things like this happen.. But they cant be disturbed to stop their day and help they can however spit venom at others.
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CoyoteDove Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I agree, a young man in my area actually committed suicide this past weekend. He was one of those people who always put others first but nobody ever asked him how he was doing. *shrug* the world is not a very nice place, and the human race in general has many issues. A few of the big ones I've seen are intense war drive, choosing to follow opinions instead of facts, and not really caring about others.
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AspiExistentialist Featured By Owner Mar 29, 2013
I know it is Very Sad.. Humans are anything But Humane Pleas take care of you and yours .. and live in your heart for the good of yourself and others .
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XenoFullmoon Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013
i have a Question for everybody i you all dont mind? when will you stop killing your self for somthing you know that you did or didnt do and accept the joy and youth of your life please! everyone alwasy be happy and dont down yourself! trust me i was like all of you too you people may had it worse but in the end i still have two feet and im still standing please do the same yourself. :iconsadfaceplz:
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AzzurKnightHeretic Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013
we must purpose in life >> thats all:)
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Nemokoi Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
Whatever it is it's the wrong way to face it and it's not worth. Talk with someone about this, ask some advises and let other people help you, even if you're uncomfortable. It's not so much but it can be a start, the important thing is that you don't keep swallowing and hiding all your suffering.
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evaYabai Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Student General Artist
Maybe she's not talking about suicidal stuff....or cutting herself. Maybe she's working too hard, too much, trying to hard. Something like that. You can destroy yourself in so many ways. :/
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AspiExistentialist Featured By Owner Mar 26, 2013
Wise ,Honest and well analyzed words Hugz
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SparrowsFlame Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Very true.
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silver-skittlez Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Hobbyist
the truth often comes with pain
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Winggal Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Student Filmographer
Then stop. You are on the internet, google some resources and counseling near you.
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AlRoke Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Please. Don't. Do. That. :'(

I know somebody who could have said that... and just the thought of her wasting her life could make me cry... she's awesome and yet deep down she doesn't accept that, and because of that she could have said exactly what you just said... So please, I am sure you're like her, so please please please don't forget how valuable you yourself are!!! I don't know how awesome of a guy he is, but by destroying yourself a bit of happiness might be gained short term, but in the end no good will come of it... I am sure of that much :( ...
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ghibli92 Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
best advice
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keniakittykat Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Professional General Artist
Fantastic soft boobly teen girls? Hot-diggity! Count me in! =D
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SpindleWinter Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
'Boobly' is a fantastic word, though. I might add that to my vocabulary... "Does this dress make me look boobly?"
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LaughingBanana Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013
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