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Ever see a squirrel fall out of a tree, only to dart back up it again? Or a little kid fall off a bike, only to be right back at it the next day? You have to figure out if what you would gain from succeeding is work taking that risk. You can set the bar low start, but keep pushing it a little higher each time.
Most of learning is done by trial and error. You make a mistake, you learn "oh, so that wasn't it," and you try to do things differently next time and see if that works. It's like learning any skill (a sport, a craft, etc)-- you won't be great at it to start with. A good question to ask yourself: do you hold others to the same standard? Would you look down on them for failing at something, or making a mistake? People are people, they goof up from time to time, and that's just a part of being alive. If you understand the shortcomings of others and don't look down on them for it, ask yourself why would you be any different? You're alive too.
Sadly, I feel the same way. I guess I feel that way because whenever I fail at something, I think I'm being judged by everyone, thinking I'm too stupid to even succeed at that. I just start to feel like I'm not good enough to do most things. So I stopped trying. :c
It's allright to be afraid of failing human is never wrong, there is mistakes, but your never wrong. If you want a happy life, all you need to do is try! if you give up, you will never know what would've happen to you later, you could've meet a nice guy or get a great job! ♥ You know, i'm 12 years old girl, i love to draw alot, i draw in school and here Da ^^ There is so many people who has bullied me until now, but you know what? when bullies have stopped what they've said, they say ''i respect you for that'' because i say them this: ''You can't tear me down, because i won't never give up''. Hold on and see what future brings you ♥
Ironically, I just watched "Facing The Giants." It's the perfect movie to watch in your situation. Failure may be difficult to face, but it's the only way you get better. And it makes you stronger when you persevere through whatever obstacles you have to face. I wish you the best of luck in breaking away from this fear of yours.
Most of learning is done by trial and error. You make a mistake, you learn "oh, so that wasn't it," and you try to do things differently next time and see if that works. It's like learning any skill (a sport, a craft, etc)-- you won't be great at it to start with. A good question to ask yourself: do you hold others to the same standard? Would you look down on them for failing at something, or making a mistake? People are people, they goof up from time to time, and that's just a part of being alive. If you understand the shortcomings of others and don't look down on them for it, ask yourself why would you be any different? You're alive too.
human is never wrong, there is mistakes, but your never wrong.
If you want a happy life, all you need to do is try!
if you give up, you will never know what would've happen to you later, you could've meet a nice guy or
get a great job! ♥ You know, i'm 12 years old girl, i love to draw alot, i draw in school and here Da ^^
There is so many people who has bullied me until now, but you know what? when bullies have stopped what they've said, they say ''i respect you for that'' because i say them this: ''You can't tear me down, because i won't never give up''. Hold on and see what future brings you ♥
It's the perfect movie to watch in your situation. Failure may be difficult to face, but it's the only way you get better. And it makes you stronger when you persevere through whatever obstacles you have to face.
I wish you the best of luck in breaking away from this fear of yours.