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iwilblood2 Featured By Owner Apr 27, 2013
Partners who only take you for your boobs (or other features of your body) are honestly not worth wasting your time on. Someone who truly loves you loves you for who you are.
RavynRaver Featured By Owner Mar 26, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Believe me when I say big boobs aren't that great. Back pain, constant stares, lude comments, and never fitting anything. I was a G in 10th grade. I have an hourglass figure (always have), and no one in high school knew because I had to wear a men's large. It was the only thing that fit. I myself am 5'4" (which is actually average for a woman), and I fought with myself for a long time over my looks. Learn to love you. Because there is no one quite like you.
EscapeingRunaway Featured By Owner Mar 24, 2013  Student Writer
I feel the same way but only it's the oppisite I'm thirteen and about D or DD cup. I scream at them to get smaller.
iammemyself Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm in the same boat as you, only tinier. Someone told me I was 14, which is far from true. All I do is move on. I would like to be a littler taller but I'm okay with my cup size.
Marqueza Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2013
I understand. My younger sister is about half and inch taller than I am. She never lets me forget it. Everyone also thinks that she's older...but I figure when we're in our forties...I can rub it in her face that I look younger.
SuiKitsune Featured By Owner Mar 15, 2013  Student Digital Artist
I have exactly the contrary, only that I hate being like this.
My boobs and height are waaaaay too big for my age. (I'm 14 years old and 175 cm long. My cup size is about C-D.) And I look around and I see the rest of the girls being cute and small. My shoulders are really broad and my hips are small.
I look like a man with breasts. I hate my apperiance. I had wished to be born petite.
Shaun-shau Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I don't know you but being able to write you insecurities on this makes u beautiful (don't know how i ever could)
Roku4fire Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2013
I'm only 4' 10" and a fat Ginger. YOU are fine.
Nocturnalsilverwolf Featured By Owner Mar 12, 2013
starlessblueeyes Featured By Owner Mar 12, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I was that way too! I was a 32 A at 20, and now I'm almost 23 and a 34 D. o_O 5'5" is average for women, so don't stress. And as they used to say when I was smaller, "A handful is enough." ;) Some of us are late bloomers, but beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. I got just as much attention when I was an A as I do as a D. Its all about confidence!
NocturnRavyn Featured By Owner Mar 12, 2013  Hobbyist Interface Designer
Oh honey, I know how you feel. I'm a B-cup but my younger sister is a DD, AND she's leggy. I used to feel insecure about it all the time (I'm 21), but then I realized: it doesn't matter how big my boobs are. My sister and I are two different people with different body types. I also realized that while I was being envious of my sister's chest, she was being envious of my large posterior area and my small waist (and a bunch of other things apparently, her self esteem is waaaay lower than mine).

A couple things to do (preach):
1) Don't stare at the mirror anymore. Go out, buy clothes that make you look and feel amazing, and wear them.
2) Don't spend your time with people who put you down and make you feel bad about yourself.
3) Find and focus on your good qualities. I'm sure you have them.
4) Realize that everyone won't be built exactly the same, and that this isn't a bad thing.
5) Remember that beauty attracts the eye, but personality attracts the heart.

If none of those work for you, I suppose you could get a push up bra (I have a few myself) or sell your arms and legs and get breast augmentation :)
tyggrrsgirl Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2013
another way to get bigger breasts is to massage them for a few minutes each day or so just use your hands of course and massage your breasts together, down, away from eachother, up and repeat it may take a while and i heard it works very well
Lovely-Chains-2341 Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2013  Student Writer
Trust me hon, you don't want big breasts. It's no good.
kageshoujo Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2013  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
I feel you. I'm 20, 5'3", and an A. There are some days I wish for bigger breasts but for the most part, I'm happy with them. Since I'm in Asia I'm still a lot taller than most of my friends (there are a lot of girls here who don't make it past 5 feet!), so I like having the slender beauty thing going for me. On days when I want to fill out my top more or feel sexy, I put on an extra padded, extra push-up bra.

I also cosplay, so I like having smaller breasts in that regard, because if I want to dress up as younger characters with smaller breasts, it's a go, and when I have to dress as curvier ones, it's very easy to put on silicone inserts, extra padded push up bra, and you're good to go. If you have bigger breasts there's no way to tame them, unless you want to bind them or get a reduction, and both hurt.

Also I don't have to worry about heavy, sagging breasts. It's a common complaint among girls with bigger breasts--it's heavy, they get back pains. With smaller-breasted girls the complaint is just "I'm worried I'm not attractive" days and I'd rather have that over any real physical pain that you need surgery to get rid of. To be attractive, you just need to change your mindset.

If you want to appear taller, you can proportion your weight to your height. I have a lot of friends who are tall but don't look tall because they are wider, and my brother and i are slimmer (proportionally so! Don't overdo it) so we appear taller than we are and people are surprised when they find out my height. Good posture and "walking tall" helps too.

For the age problem--everyone gets my age on the exact or just a few years on and off. Dress your age, put on age-appropriate make-up, and act your age.

The only time I really wish my boobies were bigger is when I'm naked and wish my significant other had more to play with, since we believe guys in general like that, but men stay with you because they like YOU and you are fun, not because of boobs.

A person once started a "Praise boobies!" thread here in the dA forum, and he said, "[small boobies, big boobies, to men they're all one and the same, all useful and beautiful]" Just that you have boobies should make them happy enough.

GiantMutantCoconuts Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2013
I just turned 21 and I'm about the same proportions with the same problem - people constantly thinking I'm young. I hope that one day you can be more comfortable with your body, and I would like to say you probably are good looking in your own way, just like your friends are attractive in their way. Stay strong ST! <3
Denial-of-a-Failure Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013  Student General Artist
Lol. I'm 5'2. I would die to be 5'4 xD
mysteryAphrodite Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
You shouldn't worry about it. There is no specific size you have to be...
HinamoriMomo98 Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013
I'm a AA cup.
My twelve year old cousin has bigger boobs than me, and she's a twig.
But we're not alone, and I've just stopped caring.
hopeandlight4everas1 Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm 20 and 5'1" and I get mistaken for being 14 or younger, very rarely am I thought to be 15+
I don't know the size of my boobs cause I use crop tops rather than proper bras but they seem to be a reasonable size but it doesn't stop people thinking I'm younger than I am...
summerday27 Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Do not feel bad. A lot of people like this. Short is cute, and i for one would LOVE to have small boobs, haha.
Tsukimogori Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
When I was 12 I were flat and I was like WHERE THE F*CK IS PUBERTY??!!! but on the meanwhile of waiting for my boobs to grow, my body to get curvy and my face to get prettier... I discovered that I got talents, I got a natural nice hair and a incredible mom, so I were happy about it, when 16 I realized that I spent too much time being happy that I forgot about my older worries that actually solved by themselves -w- I'm sure u can do the same <3<3<3
urmothermuhahaha Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013
Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.
I am 5 feet tall and can barely fit an a cup.
and I weight about 140 lbs

I, much like you, am asked if I am 15 or 16 and I am also 20

But you know what, there are others who will find you beautiful its just a matter of looking at what you have for yourself.

You and I are both small. Some people love that, we are easy to hug easy to carry around, and don't take up so much space on a bed and make the best "jet packs" or "little spoons"

You and I have small boobs. We can sleep on our stomachs, Not have to worry about food falling into our shirts, can wear any manner of t-shirts without them stretching, we don't need a sports bra in order to run around and we don't have to adjust ourselves just to sit and move around comfortably

Also, being tall and having large boobs doesn't necessarily make you attractive to others you wish to be attracted too... some people prefer shorter women and smaller breasts... the boob-type or ass-type of the spectrum of physical attraction is actually larger than that, some people like cute faces, or nice shoulders, or even arms. So don't think that just because you are not tall enough or have large enough boobs for an average body type that you are not someone else's spitting image of "beautiful"
dingallama Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013
Oh my Lord. I have Gs. Not attractive or comfortable at all, by the way. I'm not a big girl, either. I have unnaturally large breasts and I can't wait to get a reduction. I'm only eighteen, and I want to be comfortable in my own skin. So I guess I get what you're saying, but...damn. Big boobs aren't all they're cracked up to be.
animeluvr999721 Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
I know exactly what you mean. DD's SUCK
Harbinger-of-Rage Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Holy shit that is EXACTLY my body type. 20 years old, 5'4, barely an A cup. I'd love to be a B cup. I think that's the perfect cup size but like you said, without surgery or a pregnancy, I can't change that (someone on here suggested hormonal birth control. I'm on it for medical reasons and it didn't change my cup size at all despite making me go from 102lbs to 111lbs). I've pretty much accepted that I'll never have killer cleavage or fill out a corset top. Focus on the parts of your body that you like. Do you have nice eyes? Play them up. Do your like your butt? Wear something that shows off the shape. As for your height, there's nothing wrong with being a little short. I'm dating a guy who's 8 inches taller than me and he thinks it's cute that I'm so short lol. I think he likes that he can sort of just pick me up and carry me places. It's also easier to fit into small places which really comes in handy sometimes. I also get the age thing. I work in retail and a customer asked me my age and when I told her, she said that she assumed I was very young and that this was my first job. You may look young enough for it to be a disadvantage now (for example, people don't take you ask seriously or treat you as well when they think you're a kid) but in the future, you'll love how young you look compared to others your age.
ThousandCookie Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013   Digital Artist
What's wrong with an A? A cups are ace. Even begins with the same letter. ;)

One of my exes told me "anything more than a handful is a waste," and I've grown to agree. I've also grown to a B and am four inches taller than you, but I still get mistaken for someone below the age of eighteen... even when I'm wearing my university hoodie. :eyeroll:

Bigger boobs don't make you attractive. Confidence does.
Poneezi Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013  Student General Artist
you dont need boobs to be beautiful. I am a E cup and everywhere I go its hard to see if a guy likes me for me. I makes me a subject, not a person. (to guys.) I have the opposite problem.
LightsOnLuna Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
People might think I wrote this....The only difference is I'm 5 foot 2, not four.
SomeonesDreamer Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013
The "boobs" won't make you anymore beautiful than you already are. I'm 5' even, and I used to look at myself everyday and just wish the chubby-tummy would go away and I'd look less like a 15 year old and more like the 21 year old I am. You'll find someone who will make you see yourself as that wonderful and amazing woman that they see in you.
XxRockFiendxX Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013
giiirlll im around the same age and pple asked me if i was 13 on vacation =.= i am feeling that pain lol
Convicted-Panda Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013
you're perfect the way you are
T-Ingles Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013  Student Digital Artist
As a ftm trans, I wish my boobs were at least a cup size or two smaller so i could cover them up.
Pixelated-Beauty Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm 27, 4'11" and people think I'm still in high school. I just had a kid, she's 8 weeks old. I'm with her and my parents, and people think the baby is my mother's. Try dressing more your age, that helps a lot. And don't be mad at your thin frame. I'm a freaking F, and there are SO many things I can't wear. You however can wear all those low front and low back outfits you see celebs in. So enjoy that. Don't fret over breast size. It's a silly thing to let bug you.
Poneezi Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013  Student General Artist
I'm an E cup and Im 13.
verriterriberri Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013
I'm 5"4 and it's interesting how many people I'm taller than...
Tsuki-Child Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Hey don't give up hope so easily. Breasts can continue growing until you're 24. Also, lots of people prefer smaller breasts. Don't get so hard on yourself, and just think if you look younger that'll be nice as you get older. I'm 22 and get confused for 16, I understand how it is.
Kaye00 Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
5'3" and a C-cup. People still think I'm younger than my little sister who is an A-cup and only a few inches taller. But hey, don't feel bad, how old people think you are really doesn't matter and if you look young now, you'll probably look young later, and everyone who made fun of you for looking like a 15 year old, will suddenly be jealous that you still look 30 when they're pushing 45. :3
Vyana Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013  Student Filmographer
I'm 22 and the exact same measurements as you. Embrace it. It's what makes you, you :)
Britren1 Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
I'm 15 almost 16 I'm 4'9 and done growing.. I wish my boobs were bigger as well, and I am against plastic surgery..
Chiorro Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013  Student Digital Artist
You are attractive. I wished I was smaller.

Also, the size and boobs doesn't make you look older. I'm 5'7" with a borderline D cup and people still think I'm 12.

Also, I think women who are small is beautiful. More beautiful and attractive than those who are not.
Corvusanimus Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013
I find girls like this very cute and attractive
VulpesUrbana Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
I think Katie is very right, - actually, to me you sound pretty perfect.

Many men love small girls, and also most men I know, me included, prefer and adore small breasts. Don't let yourself be beaten down, just because some media try to plant an image of a wrong idealism in your head. You're beautiful the way you are!
spam-man Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Don't feel bad I am 24 and am 5'1.5'' and thankfully my twin sister is only 4'1'' so i am taller than her. People think I am much younger than I am and her much younger than me although we are twins. I have gotten over it, people say when I get older I will be glad I look young. And it doesn't really bother me much its a conversation starter and its fun to see peoples face when I tell them I am really almost 25 and not 15 :) You just have to not worry about it so much its not going to change so you just make the best of it. I have found what I wear and how I style my hair also makes me look older, just an idea. :hug:
Catthylove Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I've had rather the opposite problem; I'm small but I have ridiculously large boobs.

But still, your body sounds perfectly healthy to me. You could go and get a boob job but even after you do that, you might not like it.
Tanglenose98 Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm short too. I've had three growth spurts, and I'm only 5'0 barely. My boobs are pretty big, but honestly I'd rather have smaller ones.
VeganREbel Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013
I rather small humble boobs
Aramarella Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I'm 5'9ish/10", D cup and would happily swap with you. I want to be smaller. :hug: Swapsies?
SilverFlameWolf Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I am 5'4" and a small B-cup, overweight and mentally troubled. I have very little friends, especially very little female ones, because they're all more attractive than I am. I know your feel.
limeheer Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013
i know a lot of people who would find you atrativ :) and dont do a boob job you are perfect the way you are :)
p-shdw Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
5'2", size A, 20, though others guess my age a lot younger just like you.

What I want to say is that you shouldn't focus on the things you don't have, but focus on the things you have.
Inner beauty is what counts:aww:
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