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Zombieyue Featured By Owner May 6, 2013
i have to say that right now i am in the same situation. i had a boyfriend for almost a year but one month ago i knew a boy who has many things in common with me and some days later he told me that he liked me and wanted i to be his girlfriend. that time i also thought i liked time a lot but i have a boyfriend , but now i feel i am falling in love with that boy i cant help thinking about him all the time and i already told my boyfriend about this he was upset and sad but he forgave me and wanted me back to him i agreed but i found i was lying to both of us i love my boyfriend but i cant let the new boy come out of my mind i guess i also need help but who can help me no one can help me decide right?
EeveeTree Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013
I felt this way a year ago. I chose my best friend, and I've never looked back.
NeonColoredRain Featured By Owner Mar 8, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thats rather selfish. Why go into a relationship and make others suffer with you if you let these feelings interfere and linger?
YvaineScarlet Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2013  Student General Artist
I was in this exact situation a year or so ago, the situation is that you have to be honest with your friend and also with your boyfriend, in the end this will work out, besides ... being with your best friend is cool :D just solve the boyfriend situation hope you solve it.
inknalcohol Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2013   Writer
Just went through this late last year. I was in a happy relationship. Loved my girlfriend. She was awesome. We were awesome together. Very content.

And then I realized that I was in love with a friend. It was an all of a sudden realization and kinda shocked the shit outta me.

But I was honest with my girlfriend. Told her how I felt. What I felt for her and for my friend. She actually helped me work out some of my feelings. She was sad that we were splitting up because she loved me and I loved her and we were good for each other, but she understood that I would regret it if I didn't pursue my new feelings. And she appreciated my honesty. I didn't try anything behind her back. I didn't keep up a relationship that I knew I wouldn't be able to give myself 100% into.

So just be honest with the boyfriend. Either he's gonna understand or he's gonna be a jackass. If the former, awesome and good for you. If the latter, well, you're better off without him anyway.
Dalima-Dith Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I understand you like I don't undersand me when I realize that I'm in the same situation.
chocolatealicorn Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Okay first figure yourself out and then say something if it's driving you that crazy
HONAW Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Oh my. I think you'll need to tell them both soon
Nebula-Soul Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2013
The first thing you need to do is figure out your feelings.
You THINK you love your best friend. Take some time to yourself and think about how you feel about them.
Take as much time as you need.
Think about how you feel about your boyfriend.

Do you love him? Do you THINK you love him? Do you just care for him? Do you feel like you SHOULD?
Take away the fact that he's your boyfriend and take away the fact that the two of you have been together as long as you have. Those don't affect your feelings towards someone, just what you think you should be feeling.
Then figure out how you feel.

Its worse to drag something out if it won't work out in the end anyways.
No conclusion will feel right until you get the final result from it.
Just take the time and figure things out.

If it's your boyfriend you love, stay with him.
If it's your bestfriend you love, then break up with your boyfriend and then tell your best friend how you feel.
chris-toe-fur Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2013  Student General Artist
I read somewhere that someone said "If you're in love with two people, go for the second one. You wouldn't have fallen in love with them if the first made you happy." This did apply to me but I don't have a boyfriend anymore, just the best friend ^^; But I did care for my boyfriend. I told myself that I could happily love both guys as long as I was faithful to one.
KeganVfar Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Ha ha! Excellent DAS, we're back on the grid.
ApocalypticParadox Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I can't offer too much advice since I don't have much experience with love, but if I were in your situation, I would go with whichever choice made me happier, no matter how hard that choice is to make, and what sacrifice I would have to make to do it.
Hinatazuk Featured By Owner Mar 2, 2013
This just happened to me. It depends on the boyfriend. My choice was easier because my boyfriend cheated on me for the second time in a span of three months. And the person who told me was my best friend. My, now ex, is supposedly hurt but it gives each of us freedom. This is my overall point: the heart wants what the heart wants. But make sure of one thing first, let the best friend know before telling your boyfriend. The feeling of love with your best friend may die with rejection. However, that is not the end of everything. My best friend told me he loved me around a week before he found out my boyfriend was cheating on me. So from his perspective, he had a similar problem confessing his feelings. Because our friendship is true, as we are mutually best of friends, our bond has not broken down as a result. If you want the end of my story, my best friend is now my boyfriend. I hope all of this helps you in some way. Best wishes to you.
XMizanX Featured By Owner Mar 2, 2013
depends on which one you have stronger feelings for .. if you have stronger feelings for this friend, it's probably in your best interest to let your boyfriend go... you wouldn't want him to stay with you if he actually had stronger feelings for someone else.

but I would TRY to find out if this friend seems to like you in the same sort of way too.. just in case.
SinfulAnkh Featured By Owner Mar 2, 2013
:shrug: eh, it's not like this kind of thing hasn't happened before
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