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DragonsAdopts Featured By Owner Apr 1, 2013  Student Digital Artist
If he cares more about your looks than your personality, he isn't for you, hun.
DorkyAmerikkalainen Featured By Owner Mar 12, 2013
<3 I met my boyfriend on the internet too. I don't know what he looks like, but he knows what I look like and he tells me I'm beautiful. No guy here will do that <3 I will love him when I see what he looks like, someday.(: <3
totalrandomusername Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
He loves you right? And why does he love you? Because of your personality! You should not worry about this. Nothing bad can happen :)
ShakuChan1995 Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
You find yourself ugly because you notice EVERY LITTLE THINGS about yourself which others will never see. :D

Don't worry, just send him your picture, maybe he will tell you you're beautiful and like you the way you are.
DrawingDragons1221 Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
it doesnt matter how you look, i bet you're beautiful and i bet he would think that to.
VampireRain17 Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2012  Student General Artist
I bet you are not ugly at all!! I'm sure even if you aren't as "beautiful" as some other people, he will still see you as the most beautiful because he loves you!
dramionehuddy Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I bet you anything he has the same problem if he really loves you. (:
xAlalax Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
well shallow peaple exist but you know most of us normal peaple aren't super models :p !!! <.< if he cares too much about the way you look then he's a waste of your time this should test his love for you + he could have the same fear you know ^^
jtcheney Featured By Owner Nov 27, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
if he tells you he loves you, then how you look shouldn't matter. If he sees what you look like and it changes things, then he never really loved you at all.
Send him a pic. See what happens. Then you can embrace the bliss of true love, or (if he's superficial) you can move on and find someone who will love you for you.
HetalianElemeno Featured By Owner Nov 25, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
If he really loves you he'll love you for all of you <3
What if he has the same fear?
Catthylove Featured By Owner Nov 25, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
See, I have a similar problem myself. But the person I fell in love with is actually a lot older than me, and that's my problem.

If he loves you too, and he's never seen your face, he fell in love with who you actually are, and that's a good thing.

That's all I can really say, as I've never been in a romantic situation (really) but I wish you good luck.
Sithis666 Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Serioulsy, i have had this issue, sooo many times myself, but guess what? Everytime i've sent a picture/met them, it always worked out :) Because true love isnt just about the looks, it's about who you are, and that's why he fell for you. I mean, if he already loves you, just for who you are, really i doubt it'll be a problem :) Good luck! :)
Dejesu Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:iconslendermanplz::iconsaysplz: I dont get it, how could sent a picture of your face work?
Sithis666 Featured By Owner Nov 23, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
it could be an full-body picture too :p I didn't necessarily mean just the face ^^
broken-and-whole Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012
How do you know that he feels that way? What if he thinks your really pretty?
Pokey-Bunny Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
He knows what I look like, but I'm still scared. You certainly aren't alone.
Mlu9 Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
Ive fallen for someone on-line too.. You just got to trust they love you for you. Thats what I do.. Because I love him for him. He is all I could ever want.. I dont care if people think internet relationships arent real or dont work... Distances makes the heart grow fonder, eh?
MPgirl911 Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I've never met an ugly person. I don't know why. Everyone's either average or pretty to me. Anyway, most ugliness is either that horrible puberty stage which we grow out of or can get medical help with, so take the chance and see how he sees you. Everyone sees things differently.
Chiorro Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012  Student Digital Artist
The most ugliest, hideous, grotesque person can look drop dead gorgeous to the one that loves her/him. It's an actual scientific fact that when we love someone, we don't judge them like how we would normally. And ugliness is a perspective thing. One person can find you attractive, one can find you average, and another can find you ugly, but it's honestly hard to be 'ugly'. That's simply a stereotype our society has put on. I have friends who met their current boyfriends and husbands on the internet. In fact, one of my closest friends has been living with her boyfriend for about 5 years and they were dating 5 years on the internet without meeting. If he truly loves you, and you know it, then you will be the most gorgeous person he's ever seen.

Best of luck!
ChainsawBlossom Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Your 'I' looks like a '1'
Scylas26 Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012  Student General Artist
I have the same issue...
But I don't want to be with people that care so much about physical appearance and prejudices, so I guess they do me a favor.

I hope it works out for you!
MangaEngel Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012  Student Digital Artist
The first look can often be more hard then the second and third.
Knowing the other person can make the vision blurred.
If you have a very, very best friend, you stop noticing their visual errors. Because they don't matter to you, you like them anyway.

If he truly cares for you, then maybe his first glance will be cruel, but if he gives you a chance, then he will accept you and soon, he doesn't even notice the things you dislike about yourself.
peppery-fish Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012
I met my girlfriend on the internet and I always had the same fear,even though she'd seen me before in pictures and on webcam.
After two years and two months,I finally met her in person.
And even though I was so insecure and worried about what she would think,she proved my fears wrong.
When you love someone so much,it doesn't matter what they look like.
And if he doesn't like you the way you are over something so superficial as beauty,then he's not the person for you.
CahjesaalLesou-n Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012   Writer
What we see in ourselves and what other see in us is never the same. You don't have to love yourself (but you should!), but he can. And if he loves you, he will.
Trust me on this.
Chiorro Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012  Student Digital Artist
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