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:iconprotodramon:
Protodramon Featured By Owner Mar 20, 2013  Student Digital Artist
GIve it to him. He may be angry you lied for a while but I'm sure he'll be happy you told the truth
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:iconemoturtlefrk:
emoturtlefrk Featured By Owner Mar 8, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
yes. He's going to end up finding out sooner or later.
Trust me, i've been there :/

If you really care, you'd put his safety and reputation first. If someone else finds out the truth you're both in trouble and he could go to jail :(

It's sad...but maybe someday if your feelings are still strong enough, when you're at least 16, you can get back together.
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:icontragicpopcornmoment:
tragicPOPCORNmoment Featured By Owner Jan 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Yes you should
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:iconsegacat101:
Segacat101 Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Student Artist
Yes
True love will stay strong

Lies will lead to heartbreak
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:iconelectricbluenights:
ElectricBlueNights Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yes; if it's really love, age will not matter.
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:icondrawingdragons1221:
DrawingDragons1221 Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Do what you feel like is right. If you want to, give it to him; If you want to burn it and pretend he never exsisted, you could probrally do that to. Do what YOU feel is right, not what us strangers here on DA tell yoo to do.
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:iconkristenblue:
KristenBlue Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012  Student Writer
Yes.
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:icondramionehuddy:
dramionehuddy Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Relationships are based on trust. If he can't trust you with something as simple as telling the truth about yourself, then he can't trust you with anything.
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:iconwolffoxruler22:
wolffoxruler22 Featured By Owner Dec 14, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
yes. it's not good to start out a relationship based on lies. they hardly ever go far.
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:iconhippymcscallywag:
HIPPYmcscallywag Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012  Student Artist
wait make your own decisions
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:iconlovelovefleetway:
LoveLoveFleetway Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
If the guy accepts the truth, then you were meant to be.
If he doesn't accept the truth, then he was never really the guy for you and he probably never will be. Besides, a true man would love you no matter your age, height, or whatever is different!
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:iconsarahnorwood:
SarahNorwood Featured By Owner Dec 10, 2012  Hobbyist
If you can't tell the truth about your age first how would you know that he loves you...and how can he trust you if he does because you lied about your age..and if he is older than you he can wait if he does love you..
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:iconappliedalgebra:
AppliedAlgebra Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
If you can't be honest with him about something as basic as your age, then you don't love him as much as you think you do, and he can't love you because he knows /know/ you.
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:iconappliedalgebra:
AppliedAlgebra Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
excuse me, *because he doesn't know you.
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:iconaya-creuset:
Aya-Creuset Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
You should; When a relationship "begins" with a lie, will be a vicious circle. It is still your own decision. Good luck.
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GrubCloud Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Just do it. *pushes towards post box*
You have to tell him. If it's meant to be, he won't even care. Otherwise he's not cool enough for you. :meow:
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:iconannabelleroxayne:
AnnabelleRoxayne Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012
Yes. Relationships cannot last if they're based on lies. Not telling him is basically dooming yourself.
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:iconjtcheney:
jtcheney Featured By Owner Nov 27, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Love is built off of trust. If you are lying to him, how will he ever trust you?
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:iconscissorsmei:
sCissoRsmei Featured By Owner Nov 27, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
YES
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:iconambreechristineskye:
AmbreeChristineSkye Featured By Owner Nov 22, 2012
I think you should tell him in person. If your love is true it won't matter to him your age. He may be sad that you thought you had to lie to him, but if he's worth it, he'll get over it. And those who have a problem with your age aren't worth your time. I hope it turns out well.
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:icondancingintwilight:
DancingInTwilight Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2012  Student General Artist
nope
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:iconchristiannightangel:
ChristianNightAngel Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Tell him.
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:iconveganrebel:
VeganREbel Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2012
yes ofc, he needs to know your underage in case you will do something, he should'nt go to jail because of your lie
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:iconsunkissin:
sunkissin Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thirteen is just a LITTLE young to be saying you're "in love", don't you think? xD
Honesty is always the most important thing in a relationship, so yes I think you should tell the truth, even though I don't think you should be in a relationship in the first place considering you're just a kid :XD:
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:iconwearmuffin:
wearmuffin Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
yes if you truly love him then you would other wise itll be him who gets in trouble
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:iconash-was-here:
Ash-Was-Here Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Yes. Give it him so there are no legal problems later...
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:icon333hf333:
333hf333 Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Love = truth.
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:iconrougecerberus:
RougeCerberus Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
yes -_- its fucked up that you lied, and continue to do so
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:iconlouderthanapplause:
louderthanapplause Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
A relationship not built on honesty isn't much of a relationship. <3 Tell him the truth honey. From experience, I mean it from the bottom of my heart. <3 Good luck.
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:icon777wolf:
777wolf Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2012  Professional Writer
UHHH, DUH! The longer you wait the worse it will be when he finds out!
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:icondreamersdiary:
dreamersdiary Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2012
Yes! It's VERY important for the one who truly loves you knows the truth.
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:iconverriterriberri:
verriterriberri Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2012
YES. It is important to tell him.
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:iconjessie0wessie:
jessie0wessie Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Yes. You will always ask yourself what if? if you don't. you will always feel guilt for not telling him. ANd I think we know thatyou want to know if he'll be accepting of your real age.
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:icongravitii-cs:
Gravitii-CS Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2012
You should tell him, if he loves you he'll understand. :)
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:iconsomersetraven:
SomersetRaven Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Even if your countries age of consent is 18 a lot of guys ask for sex around 16 and even if you're old enough at 16 (that's my countries - the UK - age of consent) you are way too young at 13 and he really needs to know for your safety and his. If you had sex he's opening himself up to all kind of issues with the law that could mar his life forever.
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Sithis666 Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Tell him :) and i'd say as face to face as possible, ( i dont know if you've met him or if it's an online thing?) As others said, you cant base relationships on lies, and the truth will get out there sooner or later, better he hears it from you :)
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:iconthousandcookie:
ThousandCookie Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2012   Digital Artist
Well, there is obviously the issue of how old he is. Disregarding that, yes, honesty is important and for the best. If you feel bad, make sure you stress that, and that you've also learnt from it, and, potentially more importantly, WHY you lied in the first place. Communication and understanding people's actions are two of the most important things in any kind of relationship.

I discovered that someone I've been talking to was eight years older than he actually said he was (around a month after we'd started talking) through a number of HUGE oversights by him - so huge, that I actually find it funny. I broached the subject and he didn't deny his age (and his age isn't a problem, it's the dishonesty!), but he's attempted to cover up that he ever lied in the first place, which is baffling, particularly given the evidence I have against him, which I will be presenting to him in the next few days.

So yeah, don't make lying a habit. At worst, you'll hurt people, and, at best, you'll become a laughing stock.
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jlucydaisuke Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
A HUGE part of relationships are trust and the ability to trust each other. It might not be easy... He might not take it well. But he might. I'd go on and give it to him. Otherwise, there's a risk that this'll just continue to weigh you down and and be in the back of your mind. Like others have said, as well, for his own safety, he needs to know for legality purposes, if nothing else.
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:iconshinasuki:
Shinasuki Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
You should give it to him or tell him in person. He could get in trouble and I assume you would rather see if he would wait than trick the guy you like.
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:iconteardropofangel:
TeardropOfAngel Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Tell him the truth. He deserves to know it.
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:iconnoy0:
noy0 Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2012
Give it to him.
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:iconhellhound249:
hellhound249 Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2012  Student Photographer
Yes. If he loves u he'll understand
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:iconkanakanafigures:
kanakanafigures Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2012  Student Photographer
*you
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:iconmysteryaphrodite:
mysteryAphrodite Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Yes, a good relationship must have trust.
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:iconrisenangeleyes:
RisenAngelEyes Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
More importantly, if he's breaking the law (in your country/state) he has a right to know.
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:iconnocturnravyn:
NocturnRavyn Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2012  Hobbyist Interface Designer
Oh gosh, I wasn't even allowed to date until I was 17 :S I can't imagine needing a boyfriend or even falling in love at 13 (I didn't really fall in love with someone until I was 20, and I'm 21 now)

Yeah, definitely give it to him. I don't know what the law's like where you live but age of consent is 14 where I am... He could get arrested. If you two really love each other there should be no issue in waiting until you're legal age :/ Really, you shouldn't rush to grow up. You'll regret it later.
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:icondejapulido:
DejaPulido Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2012
yes you should it's the right thing to do.
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:iconthe-lost-hope:
The-Lost-Hope Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2012  Student General Artist
Yes I think you should, it isn't a stupid question so you know. Everyone has times they need help.
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:iconsmearingsin:
SmearingSin Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2012
Don't listen to anyone who says that it depends.
It does NOT depend on his age.
Whether he is an adult or not, he deserves to know the truth.
YES YES YES TELL HIM!!
He'll find out sooner or later, anyway.
Make sure you're the one to tell him before he finds out some other way.
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