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emoturtlefrk Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I know how that feels :/ i had the chance to date an amazing girl a long time ago....and i took her for granted. Since then, she's figured out she's straight and now has a boyfriend and i feel like an asshole for letting her go in the first place
Koukounut Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I feel the exact same way, but.. I've gotten used to it just being a distanced 'love'. I know she'd never date me, but.. I'm actually alright with it. Just being around her makes me feel better, since she'll always be a good friend.
fallencruxisangel Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I'm probably the only person who would say this, but... You have to decide which is more important: having your friend in your life, or having her as your lover. You may not be able to have both. My best friend came out to me with the same confession, and while I loved her as a friend, I am straight. And she felt like I was betraying her for not falling into her arms and being with her. We lost a decade old friendship over her inability to accept my not being in love with her.

I was cool with her be bi, and accepted it, but she was hurt by me not loving her the same way after she opened up to me. I'd much rather she kept it inside, at least then I'd still have her as a friend.
Crystal-Baka Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2013
Love is something that is always going to be hard. :c
Segacat101 Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Student Artist
Don't be afraid to reach out and ask how she feels
Alicia-Majo Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012
it's rlly hard i know how u feel
Aiyukilove7 Featured By Owner Nov 25, 2012
Well if she dumps you...Dont worry we're here for you on Deviantart! So come to my bosom and be happy!
shatteredblack Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
I had the same problem last year. I came out to her and then told her. We've been together for eight months now. It's possible!
333hf333 Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
I'd tell you to tell her, but since I'm to cowardly to tell her.
foxythecutefox Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Aww :(
CrystalTheTaco Featured By Owner Nov 14, 2012  Student Digital Artist
I have the exact same problem. Like word for word... I get what you're going through...
Passin Featured By Owner Nov 14, 2012
Love hurts. But you could try talking to the girl.
Deshiiba-chan Featured By Owner Nov 12, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
It must be so freaking painful for you /: I'm bisexual too, but it happend to me with mi bestfriend (boy) when I was younger... Hurted me so much, because he kissed infront of me with his girlfriend, my other bestfriend... I comprehend you, and it's hard to show off to society the way we really are... I had only told to my boyfriend and my bestfriend (boy)...
jessie0wessie Featured By Owner Nov 12, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I know exactly wqhat you mean...I've fallen for my best friend...also a girl. She knows but she's straight. So nothings going to happen and it sucks so much.
Sunnyfrost Featured By Owner Nov 12, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Whoever you are, I hope you know I'm going through the same thing as you..... but she also lives like a continent away, literally....

We can bear this pain together. :)
KairixSora101 Featured By Owner Nov 12, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
I went through the same thing but my friend was already out as a lesbian. Now she is a he <3
dreax3 Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
i went through the exact same thing, and she likes me back so dont forget that things could change for the better<3
inaeriksson Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I had the same problem in 9th grade... I'm too bisexual, and I had a crush on my "sister" (Me and four of my closest friends called ourselves sisters). It was heart-breaking for me, because she had a boyfriend. She still have him, though I'm not in love with her like before. I had a boyfriend during my crush for her too :/
But, you should know that there are people with the same problem as you <3
Katie-Venerelli Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Go for it. :)
Anime-The-Dino Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I fell in love with my best friend too. I do still love her very much but we stopped dating. I fell for another girl but I don't know if she likes me. It seems like she's flirting or she likes me but I can never be too sure because I hate to assume.
I know how you feel.
LadyLuciole Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Student Filmographer
Tell her. There's a chance that things will turn out good, and there's a chance that they won't. But trust me, you will always regret the things you didn't do.
So go for it.
PurpleChain Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012
I fell in love with my bestfriend too. She was totally straight(and a bit homophobic) at that point but suddenly.. We just ended up as a couple.. Soooo.. There's hope!c:
TriceraCop Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Student General Artist
I feel the exact same way it's tough
5x5shadow5x5 Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Student General Artist
I wish I knew what to say, these situations have never worked out well for me at all. But good luck with whatever you chose to do. Dont tell her without knowing her views on sexuality though, if she seems okay with it then tell her you're bisexual. Then and only then would I work on telling her your feelings. =]
ColourfulEden Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
I ended up falling in love with my best friend too... We met over the internet, so it was pretty awkward when I "kissed" her for the first time in msn... And I wasn't serious then... Now I have kissed her in real life several times...
I think you should grow closer to her slowly, getting closer and closer, until you feel confident enough to say what you feel... Real slow, be patient... It will pay off to be like that, you'll see ˇuo
Shadowsbeloved Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Student Photographer
I've had the same problem. I have yet to tell her because she is one of my closes and dearest friends. Its truly a scary thing... Yet I probably will never tell her.

However my advice to you is to feel it out. Try to bring up the subject gently; see how she'd feel. If she's comfortable, tell her. Its better to have those types of things out in the open
TheInkheart Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
*Sorry if I seem like a troll* I swear I don't bite! :D But I saw your comment and must say that I am going through the same thing right now and if you want to talk about it with someone going through the same thing, then I am here and talking about it would be nice! :hug: I have going through the same thing and she is one of my closest, dearest friends and I haven't gotten up the guts to tell her and I have tried hinting to her, but I don't know if she feels the same way! :'( (And she could be straight, I don't know, we haven't talked about it! :shrug:) And I haven't told her and it is a very scary thing, because if I did tell her, I am afraid that I would scare her off. It is not like I am lusting after her (I mean, she is very pretty and attractive and adorable, don't get me wrong!) but I am afraid that she would take it that way.

...Wow, I went off hard! :D Oh, sorry about that, I (obviously) haven't talked about it and needed to speak, I guess! :hug:

Anyway, if you want to talk about your situation and mine and share our mutual sadness, then that would be good. :glomp: Thanks! :blush:
Shadowsbeloved Featured By Owner Nov 26, 2012  Student Photographer
You don't seem like a troll at all :). I'm not exactly sure how to go about talking about it to be frank :iconsweatdropplz:. My best guess is if your friend seems straight; she probably is :/. Isn't it though? And honestly that's a real possiblity... Its the entire reason why I haven't said anything to my friend *winces*

Don't worry about it :) we all have things we'd need to get out in the open. I'll happily share ideas. Not alot of people in my life know about my.. Problem I guess would be a good word for it. (Sorry its taken me so long to get back to you)
Larrygandalfp Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012
I think that you should tell her how you feel. Its the only way you can know for certain. She might feel the same way.
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