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LivviIsDeadInside Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2012
You will never be alone there will be someone else out there! Alaways remember this saying: There's plenty of fish in the sea.
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Darkangel5620 Featured By Owner Nov 12, 2012
You can try and patch your love back up, If you loved him once im sure it will be there again. But if it doesn tell him how you feel, and maybe he will want to try and fix the love or let you go, you should be honest and involve his feelings in this too. I understand how you feel, it seems scary but trust me if your not happy, leave. You will find love again, but you have to be patient.
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Hawk-Moth Featured By Owner Oct 29, 2012  Student Writer
Let me ask you something, how would you feel if you were in his shoes. Is letting go of your fear harder than telling him the truth, you are being cruel.
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silly-little-flower Featured By Owner Oct 28, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
That's a pretty awful reason to stay with someone. :/ It's only fair to him that you break up rather than continuing to lead him on and being so selfish. That really isn't fair on him. Think about it, there are plenty more people out there you can love, so why continue to stick with the one you're with without a good reason to? Being alone isn't that bad anyway, trust me.
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aranek9634 Featured By Owner Nov 5, 2012  Student General Artist
"Being alone isn't that bad anyway, trust me."

that isn't true either. you obviously don't know or understand loneliness in its deepest depths... I have been alone for the previous 7 years of my life, not relationship-wise, but just alone in my life in general. and I am just now breaking those chains of what my family had done to me. I have people now... but then I didn't.

:bulletred: however, I agree that leading people on is wrong and shouldn't be done.

people that like loneliness when trying to help other people should keep it to themselves. :fork:
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silly-little-flower Featured By Owner Nov 5, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Um.. ahem.
I didn't mean being alone IN GENERAL, I just meant being single. Please try and read comments more carefully next time.

Exactly, that was my whole point. That being single isn't the same as being lonely, so leading someone on for that reason is just cruel.
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Apidae12 Featured By Owner Oct 27, 2012
Lets just play out the scenario that you stay with him, despite not loving him.
I'm sure he'll catch on eventually. A loveless relationship isn't hard to miss. Even so, if he doesn't say anything about it, you'll labor on together until some new guy comes along, and you're completely wow'd by him.
That's probably all it will take for you to leave your boyfriend - the promise that you'll be with someone else and so you won't be alone.
It will absolutely devastate your ex, and he'll probably resent you for it. I would honestly recommend breaking up with him, so at least you may still remain on good terms, and that your next boyfriend won't seem like a rebound.

That being said, sometimes people mistake not loving someone anymore for just being in a boring relationship. Take some time apart, break up with him and maybe you'll find that all you needed was time apart. Who knows. Either way, staying with him for your own convenience will only lead to more trouble.
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aranek9634 Featured By Owner Nov 5, 2012  Student General Artist
i completely agree with this advice.

thank you apidae12, for not stepping on anyone's toes that does know loneliness.....
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Sunnyfrost Featured By Owner Oct 27, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Honey, even if you won't be in a relationship anymore, being single does not officially make you 'alone'. You'll still have your family, and your friends, and you ex-boyfriend will hopefully still be friends with you, even if you do break it off with him. If you don't love your boyfriend anymore, you shouldn't be afraid to look him in the eye and tell him how you feel. I'm sure that he'll be accepting of your decision.

But I'm not the one to decide your decisions. He's your boyfriend, and this is your life. I don't want to tell you what to do, because it is entirely up to you. Just remember: Do whatever you feel is right for you, not for your boyfriend, not for others around you, but for you. Because you're the most important thing in your life.

Hope this helped....
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