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Marikachan Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Student General Artist
A parent isn't necessarily related, if they raised you and cared for you, then that makes a parent.
Passin Featured By Owner Nov 14, 2012
Try talking to him, if he's any kind of dad, he'll probably help you through this.
mizoretheicegirl Featured By Owner Oct 20, 2012
I can tell you from experience finding out your dad isnt your father is hard but if he loves you and you love him it wont matter. My mother never told me because she thought i always knew it wasnt until he had kidney dease and i thought that if she couldnt give him her kidney i could have that i found out. All i know is, the man who treats me like im his wown has been doing that since i was a child and when i didnt even realize the meaning of calling someone your father i looked at him and told him "I love you Daddy" and he cried for the first time. if you truely love hom and he loves you it wont matter.

ps. sorry if that was more info than you wanted i just hope it helps
jsplollypop Featured By Owner Oct 19, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Does it even matter all that much? If your Dad loves you, it doesn't matter. He's your father and that's all you need.
Shadestepwarrior Featured By Owner Oct 16, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I was born before my parents were married, and sometime I can't help but wonder if my dad is my biological father.
Lovely-Chains-2341 Featured By Owner Oct 13, 2012  Student Writer
I'm turning 17 and I'm not so sure my father is my father. It is very heartbreaking to tell the truth. :/
SqueekyTheBalletRat Featured By Owner Oct 13, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Dad and Father are two very different terms.

Dad is someone who raised you, who loved you, and is there for you as much as they can be.
Father is someone who gave his sperm... that's really it.

Dad is emotion, father is biological...

If the man loves you like a 'Dad', then it shouldn't matter if he is your 'Father'.

Though if it does bother you to not your genetics(which is understandable, you don't want to suddenly come down with some horrible genetic disease and then find out that you couldn't have gotten it from your dad or mom), then ask your mom. If you ask him then it might stress him out... Your mom may not want anyone to know the truth, but she should know...
tiffanyblogs Featured By Owner Oct 13, 2012  Hobbyist
In my opinion if he raised you and loved you like he would a daughter then he is your father in every way than matters.
tiffanyblogs Featured By Owner Oct 13, 2012  Hobbyist
DovePoet Featured By Owner Oct 13, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Why did you 'that' your own comment?
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