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verriterriberri Featured By Owner Oct 14, 2012
how can anyone love you if you allow yourself to be in a 'hopeless' relationship? Get out ot if, get out there, and find someone who will value you, and treat you as you wish to be.
It won't happen if you stay in your current, unsatisfying relationship.
DarknessRequiems Featured By Owner Sep 18, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i am afradi of being alone too :( sometimes it stress me so much ,i just can't sleep and cry for nothing...hopefully,i have friends i can trust in now, and i wish it would never change :3
WhatItMeansToBeHuman Featured By Owner Sep 2, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
We're all like that ... :)
Nobody wants to be alone!
RougeCerberus Featured By Owner Aug 11, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
they say "better alone than in bad company". have a lil faith in yourself, plus, you cant really find someone else while stuck with someone else
SnowPhotography Featured By Owner Aug 5, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
This is the only reason I have ever been in a relationship...because I thought, "no one else will care about me", it ended badly and it was confirmed that he never cared about me to begin with.
I'm stilling waiting for someone to prove me wrong. But the fact that I've only had one "relationship" which lasted a measly 2 months when I was 17, and only have one friend, a male who has told me straight to my face that he does not find me attractive, but who also refuses to admit that "hot girls" are the only ones who will ever be approached/the only ones that guys care for, is making me lose more hope than ever.
I'll be 21 pretty soon and I feel lost and lonely. But dammit I KNOW I would make the best damn girlfriend if given the chance.
Lady--Tsunade Featured By Owner Sep 8, 2012
I looked at your gallery and I saw your pictures, and you are a beautiful girl. I believe you're going to find the right person. Don't give up hope :)
Sammarinda Featured By Owner Aug 13, 2012
I had my first relationship at 23 almost 24. Although people told me I was pretty, I was shy and too honest and people didn't like that. We are still toghether and he is the best I could hope for. I use to feel lonely and desperate no-one will ever like me enough. I was wrong and you will be wrong too. =).
captain-vodka Featured By Owner Aug 5, 2012
I felt the same way after my 'first' broke up with me. I felt the same way, I dabbled in dating and then I gave up a bit. Well, fast forward two years later I found someone who has made me even happier than I was before. Even though we aren't dating I'm still very happy he's in my life. Don't worry about finding love right this minute. Instead, if you're really unhappy with your relationship, leave your significant other and find what, or who, makes you really happy.
MPgirl911 Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I know for certain no one can ever care about me as much as I care about them, but that's because the part of my brain that keeps emotions in check is underdeveloped, so I feel things stronger than others. But even if people can't love me as much as I love them, there's still someone out there who will love you, and measuring love is tricky, it's best just to relish in being loved at all.
Hawk-Moth Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2012  Student Writer
You need to patient. I know it's a major pain, I myself loath the idea of risking being alone. Though I come off as very unromantic, I really do want to find someone. But, I refuse to put myself in a relationship that will go nowhere, and I don't love the person I am with. Don't do this to yourself, it isn't healthy.
meilady Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2012
Or maybe, no one else gets the chance to love you because you're still in that hopeless relationship.
Kureji-Mosu Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Isrose Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012
Being in a relationship with someone you don't love can stop you from finding the one you love that will truly love you back. So end this relationship and go out searching for the right one for you! ^^
SkyeGyren Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Student General Artist
Oh please, stop acting like such a brat. "No one else will ever love me." What about your family? Your friends? Stop being so dependent on romantic love. There's no point on ruining your whole life by being in a hopeless relationship just because you think there's not going to be another guy (or girl), because there will be. There will be many others. Anyways, it's not like you need a spouse to be happy. You should never settle for anything less than you deserve.

No one ever said that life will be like a fairy tale and nothing worth gaining comes without a price. Have you ever thought that your right guy (or girl) was already out there, waiting for you, but he never had a chance because you were already in a relationship?

So hurry up and break up with this person you don't even love, because you're just being cruel to both yourself and also the other party. Have you ever thought how they would feel? Being in a relationship with a person that doesn't even feel the same was as them?

So break up with them, and face the world with a smile. Don't frown, even when you're upset, because you never know when someone might be falling in love with your smile.
ThaliaAnderson Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012
Not to mention that some people don't even have that much. You're in a relationship and you're at least with someone who wanted to be with you for five years. I've never been kissed, never been hugged, never had my hand held once by someone interested in me. I understand the feeling of not being loved, wanting a romantic relationship to feel like you're comeplete--I totally get that. But keep your chin up, because even if this person wasn't "the one", they were still someone who was willing to spend five years of their life with you. They wanted to be with you, even if it was just for a little while. Hold onto that, because chances are, if there was one, there'll be another. (:
Pilotslover Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
I must agree with this.
no-day-but-2day Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
so true....
i couldnt have said it better myself
RemiroQuai Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Learn to like being alone, I say. It comes more natural to some than to others but really, you don't need romantic love in your life. Only if you feel your life is worth sharing with someone, then do so. Until that time. Have fun, do the things you love or find out what you love by trying it.
Believe me, I have been there and I don't always practice the above, sometimes I wallow in self pity, but that is only when I get into the mindset I see in this secret: No-one wants to love me.

PATluvme Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Student General Artist
I had an aunt that felt the same way when dating a guy way older than her. She was depressed in the relationship because she felt that's the best she could do, she didn't think anyone else would love her. We all told her that it's not true, that there are other guys out there WAY better than the loser she was dating. She ended up breaking up with him and she found a guy who is amazing and TRUELY loves her. They are happly married and going to have a baby soon.
So don't give up!! There are people who love you very much and I"m sure there is another person out there for you who when you're with, you won't feel hopeless. <3
Good luck!
emoturtlefrk Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i know how that feels....i've only had one person that's ever come close to how i wanted to be loved...and even he wasn't 100% sure.
In the end, i ended up moving and he left me anyway :/
CartwAalbiel Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Finally a scret that doesn't look like crap ! Thank you for understanding that this is deviant ART secret.
ZantMarx Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I agree, I think this actually looks like it took some time and effort instead of just being written on a computer in like 5 seconds
swoopingisbad99 Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012
I feel the same way, even though I'm too young to worry about love like that. We just have to keep searching for that one person. There are so many people on Earth; somewhere, there's someone who is just right for you. :D
Medlilove Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
You have to like yourself, its hard to love someone who doesn't love themselves
ragdollsally123 Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012  Student Photographer
This is'nt true, their is always someone out there that loves and thinks of you, and doesn't that matter? I think you should go off and find that person or people that truely love you. You just gotta look <:3
i-likes-gaara-pie Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012
I've felt this way before. However, I'm too young to worry about love that way. Atleast, that's what I keep telling myself.
xXNibiNoNekoXx Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012
There are _7 billion_ people on this planet. So I highly doubt that there isn't somebody out there that will love you with all your heart. You just have to keep searching and never give up.
xXNibiNoNekoXx Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012
their* (not your)
CoyoteDove Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I completely understand you there, I don't understand how anyone can ever love me. I'm just a little freak with over sized dreams, and universe sized opinions. The bottom of the bucket, I love and support people but never really feel that love back. It doesn't help that most of the people I really love are taken or are straight females. All my past boyfriends have stepped all over my heart, and my gal and I didn't work out dating, she os a great friend but only a friend.
MasamiHayato Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012
I understand this all too well. Nice gals finish last in real life(but unlike nice guys we have to had thicker skin because even some of the "nice guys" would try and trample our gentle hearts too so in a way, even if we get hurt those who learned knows that by the end of the day, she will always love herself even if no one can seem to give or match the unconditional love she can provide.) In the end, i decided that "I just want to be happy with everything in my life, whether or not i'm going to be able to share it with one lucky guy or not." that's my ultimate goal but it would be nice to experience being in a good loving relationship at least once(Never been in one)
Prof-Stein Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
I feel that way quite often. Someone will love you soon, I'm sure of it. ;)
ZombieHun Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
love yourself more, and you wont feel alone...and then you wont feel like you need to be in that dead end relationship that isn't building you up as a person.
HachiLen Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Keep hope. No matter how lonely you get, how seriously alone you feel, you never are. You have family and friends. Even if you never were to find the perfect guy/girl.. At least your not alone. <3
I'm sure you'll find that special someone someday though! I wish you luck friend.
Sithis666 Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I somewhat understand how you feel. Though its a bit turned around for me, everyone seems to have such an easy time loving me, and i cant seem to fall for anyone, and love anyone back, and it kinda sucks. I so wish i could, because i hate being alone aswell.. stay strong. <3
Odrobinka Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012
Sucks both way, doesn't it?
Sithis666 Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Heh, yeah.
Animegirl3213 Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I feel the same way. Except when I really do want my personal solitude, I would also prefer my best guy friend too...
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