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~iwilblood2 Apr 27, 2013 New member

I can't remember either of my parents ever telling me they love me, but that doesn't mean they don't.

~HazySunray Sep 8, 2012 Hobbyist Writer

I have the exact same 'issue' with my father. Recently discovered that the reason why he couldn't ever tell me, is because it's not the truth. He finds it a horrible thing to do; lying.

~lil-bella-lover Aug 31, 2012

had the same experience currently 20 and have only heard it once. In her desperate attempt to make me stay with her. turns out there was a reason for it and until she told me there was nothing i wanted more than to hear those words. Now I'm old enough to understand sometimes loss just makes it impossible to express certain feelings. See she had a child before me which passed away from sids straight after she said those words. It hard growing up with out the affection of you mother and it puts so many doubts in your mind but you have to push passed them and have faith that its not something you've done.

~I-like-blue Jul 15, 2012

Does she show it? I don't know the situation or circumstances but sometimes something happens that makes them feel insecure and pull away from everyone, including the people they love and cherish.
If that's the case, she still probably loves you but tells you in other ways that she loves you. She shows you rather than saying it.

However I could be wrong on the situation...
Do you get along? Does she act like she doesn't love you?
Sometimes the words themselves are harder to say and admit because they are a sign of weakness. (Not that loving someone is weak, but you see it in movies all the time. The people you love and care about can be used against you, and THAT is the weakness.)

~chiapett666 Jun 30, 2012

It can be extremely hard sometimes for a parent to alter how they treat a child when that child is transitioning to adulthood since they will forever see you as there baby. Now that you are a teenager, your attitude and general personality are changing and you probably don't even recognize it. your interests change, you change the way you act cause your growing out of your childhood ways and learning how to be an adult. I guarantee you she loves you but she most likely has trouble expressing that to an almost adult when shes so used to doing it a certain way. However, I also have to point out that every story has 2 sides. Being a parent myself I know that my son, who is only 6 years old right now and is far from doing the things a teenager does when dealing with a parent, can sometimes do and say things that truly make me scared that he doesn't love me. It's times like those that I must force myself to insure in him that even if he doesn't love me, I will always love him. Maybe your mother is too scared to do that. Try and take a step back and see how you treat her and react to her just to check if you are doing anything that may be putting that sort of fear in her. Most importantly though, always remember that even if she doesn't love you, It is not your fault and you are in no way a bad person.

~Hawk-Moth Jun 20, 2012 Student Writer

Some people just don't express it. I actually had that kind of problem. Only with texting. My mother loves to save mine and brother's text messages that say "I love you" for the longest time when she said it, I never returned the favor. Finally she made an offhand comment about, even though it seemed silly, I could tell it was eating at her. So I make a point to text "I love you" to my mom whenever I finish a conversation with her. Just say something to your mom, maybe she doesn't know what she isn't saying is hurting you.

~HisImmortal1922 Jun 17, 2012

that's so sad

my mom always says "i love you" because she says you never know when it will be the last time you say it or hear it. have you asked her about it?

~summerday27 Jun 17, 2012 Hobbyist Traditional Artist

A mother's love is unnconditional. Always know that.

~amitrixwolf Oct 6, 2012 Hobbyist Writer

I do not agree with this. But I understand why you're saying it.

~GunniLoveAnime Jun 16, 2012 Hobbyist

It's important to say that you love people. People tend to forget these important words. Everyone NEEDS to hear it sometimes.
I remember when I had my first surgeries, I was SO scared that something would go wrong. I had dad by my side, and everyone kept saying it was going to be alright. Right before I fell asleep I said "I love you dad", then everything went black. And the first things I woke up too, was the words; "I love you too"
Even though the pain was to scream for, I felt warm inside. So whenever you feel like you need love, just say that you love them first. Sometimes, it might be them that needs to hear those words from you.

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