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*AbiNicole Aug 3, 2012 Student Traditional Artist

He is psychologically blackmailing you. Get out of that relationship as soon as you possibly can. Regardless of whether he believes he needs you, you can't fix his issues. It may seem hard to you to give up on him or to leave him, but in this kind of situation you have no way to stop him from killing himself if he actually decides to. Honestly, he just wants to know that he has control over you, and would sooner hurt you than kill himself. He wants to live, he just blackmails you so he has a slave. If he threatens to hurt you or himself anymore, call a professional because it can only get worse. If you really want to save his life, that's the most you can do.

~foxwithwings13 Jul 8, 2012

Now i don't know this guy. but it sounds to me like he is abusing you. Chances are, he's not going to kill himself, he's messing with your mind, manipulating you, and conttolling you. I really think you should get out as soon as you can. Or it'll only get worse

~Atuin May 24, 2012

Leave, and make sure someone else is there to keep him from killing himself if he actually would attempt. Likely he wouldn't, but its better to be safe and this way you'd be more comfortable leaving.

~OneTrickMyTrick May 24, 2012 Hobbyist Photographer

I've been there... A lot... I'm there now!
Only difference is I don't love him anymore because of his mental abusing, it starting turning into physical....
Get out of the relationship while you still can, don't be trapped in this relationship...

~jtcheney May 24, 2012 Hobbyist Writer

You make him sound toxic.
He needs help, and if you can't do that, you need to find somebody who can.

~Rokkii May 23, 2012

I've been there! I tried to leave so many times, he'd call me crying, saying he was on a chair in his closet, belt around his neck, and we'd talk until morning and end up together the next day. Then once, I just didn't answer that late night phone call. You know what happened? Well, he's alive, and he just went on and pulled the same s*** with another girl. It's bs. The threatening suicide is abuse in itself. PLEASE, get out! If you think he will really do it, tell someone close to him or call 911. He is not your problem though, and chances are, if he has any exes, he pulled the same crap with them. I'm happy now, and I hope someday you can find that same happiness that you can never really have when you're with an abusive bf. The first step though is getting free!

~forsakensoul26 May 23, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

Please, for your sake, get out of this. If you even *begin* to think that someone is mentally abusing you, that's enough of a sign that you need to leave. If you really think he'll kill himself, call a hotline. Get someone else to help him--that is not your job ST.
My ex was mentally and emotionally abusive and manipulative. Sure, he never physically hurt me (as another commenter talked about below) but that's more than enough. You deserve to be happy. Right now, that's what you should focus on.
I very rarely do this because I know secret teller's usually won't, but if you want to talk to someone who's been there (recently, within the last 6 months) and gotten out of an abusive relationship, don't hesitate to note me.

~jessie0wessie May 23, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

Sounds like my best friend

~GalaxyGoddess May 23, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

This sounds like my ex. Who was absuing me, and told me if I left him, he'd kill himself and it'd be all my fault. Then he tried to kill me, hopsitalized me, broke my spine... so I left him, and he tried to get me back and said that if I didn't go back to him, he'd kill himself. I told him to send me the video. Months later, he attacked a 15 yr old girl who wouldn't get in the car with him. several months later, he OD'd on a lovely cocktail of meth and xanex. The world is a safer place.

Crazy abusive jerks don't deserve the people they abuse. I've known a number of people who got told "I'll kill myself if you left" and they left, they got free, and their abuser didn't kill themselves. They try to use the "ol' I'll kill myself" but they won't do it. They want your pity, they want to make you the victim. They NEED a victim they can guilt, it gives them power.

Leave, he doesn't NEED you. He doesn't even love you. You don't love him, it's a false love, one that will kill you if you don't get free.

*5x5shadow5x5 May 23, 2012 Student General Artist

You need to stop believing his threats. I can tell you do but he's just saying those things so he can have control over you.
The only way for you too be happy is to get rid of him. You'll never be happy with him around.

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