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This to me would have been a perfectly valid secret if you left out that you were gay, ST. Is it really in any way important? The age old proverb goes here I think: "It's better to try and fail then to have never tried and live with the regret."
I understand why you think that, cause at first I thought so too. But I think it is important, cause it's not only that I thought she love me back, but also that I thought she could fall for a girl. So me being confuzzeled had partially his roots in that I didn't know if she's gay/bisexual or not: she acted different than her words. And that I never tried was because of that confusion. So in that case, to me, it is important to tell I'm gay.
How much do you value this person's friendship? do you really want to risk losing that? Are you confident things won't become awkward as time goes on? just ask yourself those things before you do anything one way or the other.
Don't give up on her. My girlfriend (and best friend of 4 years) chased me for 2 years as I lived in denial of my feelings for her, regardless of the fact that I had accepted that I was pansexual. (I had a previous relationship that had really shattered me-- trust issues abounded) Finally, I accepted how I felt and told her everything... and it was the best decision I ever made. I am so absolutely happy, and I can't imagine what I would have done if I had lost her because I never talked to her about it. She may not love you back, but it is defiantly worth confronting. Good luck.
Ah, I've been through this as well. The problem is, I don't think she ever truly accepted herself and still lives partially in a lie. I'm not sure what she believes. But I understand. My feelings for her, diminished over time as well.