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The Secret teller would also like to say, “I can't help my misandry, I don't even remember when it started. It didn't really bother me for years, but now it's begun to affect me more and more, and I find I now can't even trust guys I've been friends with for a long time."

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:iconlordmep:
~lordmep Feb 25, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Interesting how all the comments are so supportive. Yet if you changed the last word to "women", the comments would be overflowing with hate. Our society only condones certain prejudices.
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:icontechnicolorwarrior:
~TechnicolorWarrior Jun 28, 2012
Right there with you, babe. If an appealing guy likes me, I do get interested. But then no matter what they say or do, I assume they are just fucking with me, and have ulterior motives. And then I start to dislike and avoid them.


Hooray for neurosis!
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:iconfreeflier:
Mood: Caring ~freeflier Jun 28, 2012
I feel the same. I'm scared to be around guys that could potentially like me because I think they'll end up using me; just like what has happened to some of my friends.
I like guys, but I don't know how to trust them enough to be with them.
But I know there must be at least one good guy out there, hopefully we'll meet him someday and it will be obvious ^.^
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:iconkalynvalcourt:
~kalynvalcourt Apr 29, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
I feel like this at times...
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:iconpsychicwallofenergy:
~psychicwallofenergy Apr 12, 2012
or date a girl
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:iconpersondev:
~PersonDev Mar 31, 2012
I say go ahead and trust them. Either way, if the former doesn't work, you'll still end up alone. At least you can say you tried.
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*5x5shadow5x5 Mar 26, 2012  Student General Artist
I'm like this, it's gotten to a point where i can't even keep a friendship with guys.
I'm not a people person anyway but there's only one guy who i haven't broken the friendship with and sometimes i really want too. At the same time he knows more about one side of me no one else does and ever will because they just won't believe me.
Yet i wouldn't class him as a best friend or anything.

The last best friend i had was a guy but i broke the friendship off over something really stupid and we haven't spoken since. I just trust girls so much easier..
Also i can't stand men been close to me. If i have to cope then i will but on buses or in bus stops i shrink away and hate been touched in anyway by one. Even if it's shaking their hand.
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:iconfandomaniac:
~Fandomaniac Mar 25, 2012
I'm not afraid of guys, but I always see their faults, especially if I'm dating one. But I like a girl now, so I have the extra confusion of whether I'm gay or bi. I mean, is it possible to love a guy when you hate his sex? I'm happy with being gay, but I do find guys cute every now and again (when it comes to famous people or fictional characters, I usually love the guys more, but not in reality). No fucking idea :D
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:iconhigh-lactose:
!high-lactose Mar 25, 2012
I'm androphobic, and understand the feelings you have. you don't have to be alone, but it would probably be healthy for you to stop distrusting men as a whole. pick and choose who you trust, have high standards, but don't discount a person just for who they are.

I have anxiety attacks of a male gets too physically close to me. hugs, and intimate contact are out of the question. but I still trust my male friends. they respect my feelings and my need for physical space, and they're very kind people. good people.

first find men like that. men who will respect you. and if you develop an emotional connection to one, try to let yourself get close, slowly. but you really really have to find the right men to start the process of learning to trust. you can't just suddenly trust overnight.

it takes time.
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~Secret-Teller Apr 15, 2012
I know my dislike and distrust of men isn't healthy, but I can't help it. It's like.. an instinct. It's part of who I am now, and no matter how much I try, I haven't been able to change it.
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