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~LoyalPuppet May 17, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

I know how this is all to well. I only had one friend throughout high school and she came from a religious family. I couldn't talk about anything that would in any way be against what is in the bible or against her own opinions because she would state her opinion and I can't stand up for myself. She was all I had so what could I do?
I was curious about my sexuality and wasn't sure about things, could I talk to her about any of that? No! She would say it is gross and bring me down. So I would pretend I was joking...

~BreeHale9 Apr 13, 2012 Student General Artist

Ouch! That's harsh. >> A friend of mine for seven years told me only two years ago she was lesbien and I'm still as close to her as I have always been.

Friends are suppose to love you and be by your side through the good and bad.
You should be just be yourself. Its to stressful to try and be anything different.

~Kuhlani Mar 24, 2012

Maybe she was disgusted that you thought you were willy nilly gonna be a lesbian for a while then go back to being straight. I know I would be

~TheFabulousMomo Mar 3, 2012

Call me an idiot, but I don't think you should label your friend as "omg evil person" because she got a disgusted look on her face when you mentioned you thought you'd be attracted to girls, for a number of reasons: 1, they might not be and, in their mind, they may find that disgusting (not in a discriminating wa, in a "ew-i'd-nver-touch-another-woman's-vagina way. You can't blame them for that), 2, they might, indeed, have taken it seriously at some point and believed you were telling the truth and the reaction was nothing more than some sort of denial, 3, they might have been joking too, but you know them, so none other than you should know if they were indeed joking or not.

I just dont think because a person made a thing with their face when you mentioned lesbianism that gave out the idea of disgust you shoudl just ditch people. Why don't you try to understand their views on homossexuality better before making furthur judgement? And also: don't be scared

~JayfreakinNay Feb 11, 2012

Well, to put it simply, go get better friends.

~SoraIsMyHomeboy Feb 8, 2012 Hobbyist Traditional Artist

I'm sorry you're going through this, ST.

if you actually find someone that you're serious about and start dating or something, then maybe you should sit down and actually talk to your friend about it. hopefully she'll understand and if not, that's sad and yes people have different opinions but as a friend, she should try to understand and support you in everything you do

~shinedust Feb 8, 2012

I say it's time to find better friends, sorry, but circling yourself with such negative people is only going to hurt you in the long run. I'd hate to see you become one of those closet-stuck people who never are happy with life because they've never been honest with themselves or the people they love. It's not a fun life, it's a life no one deserves to be forced into.

I hope you find better people, and I hope you find a better place within yourself.

There's a whole other world of openness and kindness you'll eventually find if you're really willing to go and and look for it. Just know that it comes with a lot of injustice and it's own hardships as well. Good luck ST.

~Dragon54082 Feb 8, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

Ah, yes, I said something similar to one of my friends.
She gave the same reaction and asked if I was serious.
I said yes, I was, but it bothers me that at least one of my so-called friends outwardly displayed her discomfort of the situation. It's fine if your friends personally don't like the idea, but when they don't support you or take you seriously, then there's a problem. =/

~Dragon54082 Feb 8, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

But anyway, don't let it make you feel stupid or dirty or weird, because it's normal for people to experiment with their sexuality, especially while they're still young.

I say do what you want and not worry about what other people think, because you can't please everyone.

*5x5shadow5x5 Feb 8, 2012 Student General Artist

Friends should accept you for who you are, if not they aren't proper friends. =] Note if you wanna talk about it ST. I know what its like to hide your sexuality from friends..

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