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~ILikeASkater Jan 10, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I know how you feel but, my boyfriend is the one that will be such in school two years longer then I. He knows that I want to go to collage and that in most likily be far away from where I live. He wants to move in with me then go to a school there. Well, I guess I'm saying that enjoy every moment right now then when it comes see what you like to do.
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~Friduble Jan 8, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
As an insane person that's only ever been in long distance relationships... yes they suck, hard, but if you're both able to work together for it, make time for each other you can make a long distance relationship work.
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:iconsecret-teller:
Well... we won't be in a long distance relationship... he doesn't want to risk it falling apart while he's there. I'll see him again when I go to the same school in two years, but there is no guarantee we'll even get back together.
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~Friduble Jan 10, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Well, then my only advice would be to move on from him. If he doesn't want to risk it falling apart by stopping the relationship completely then it's not worth it. In a long term view of it 2 years is not that long at all, especially if it was someone you wanted to spend your life with.

For my situation It's looking like I wont be living with my significant other for 4/5 years and I can't even guarantee it wont be 7 years. But as it stands now we're both willing to wait for each other and be each other's best friends until we can be together. Don't hurt yourself over a guy who isn't willing to try anything to be with you.
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:iconsecret-teller:
Ah... here's where secrets get kind of awkward because they don't know the whole situation, the people involved and stuff like that... ^^;

I never said we wouldn't be in contact as friends, he just really does not want to see us slowly fall apart in a very painful matter. I'm in highschool and he'd be 18 by then, the chances to see each other would barely exist. It's hard to explain to a stranger but I don't like it being assumed that he "isn't worth it". I wanted to clarify that.

Now I only hope I don't get the "you're in high school thus you are completely incapable of being in love" lecture now. :|
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~Friduble Jan 16, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I think being friends still might complicate it because one of you might still be thinking "relationship" while the other is completely thinking "friends"

I find your last comment a little rude, I'm not going to tell you high school love isn't real. I myself am only 21, I don't believe I was given the magical ability to understand love/begin loving others as a graduation gift. It's a feeling that some can experience earlier than others.
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~Sam-Dragon Jan 8, 2012  Professional Digital Artist
I used to be so dependent on my boyfriend too. :( Then he left for the military, and I had to learn to be independent. He's been in the military for 2 years now, and I'm as independent as ever. It was difficult at first, but with time I slowly became able to do things on my own. I've gone to the beach, the movies, even a THEME PARK by myself, and I had fun. Unfortunately, after 3 years, my boyfriend and I aren't together anymore, but I'm still as independent as ever, and as sad as this sounds, it was because he left that I got this way. So maybe him leaving will do the same thing for you ST. :)
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~nikkynikki Jan 8, 2012  Student General Artist
I could have easily wrote this secret. My boyfriend and I are currently going through the same kind of thing. I'll be leaving for school, but he's doing the community college thing for 2 years.
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