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~OverlordChaos Apr 30, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
father-daughter abuse is never justified.
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~chiyo-x Apr 30, 2012  Student Digital Artist
I TOTALLY GET THIS. My dad left us six months ago and took our money. When I tell people that I don't want anything to do with him and they say "But he's your dad, you need him," I makes me want to fucking scream. Even my MOM said that I need my dad. What the hell?
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~CaptainKai Apr 29, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I know just what you mean. I heard it all the time, "But he's your father. You need him in your life. You can't just cut him off." Yes I can. And if I have any sort of self-respect I will.
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~DarkenedAngelEyes Dec 20, 2011
I can understand this. My dad left before I was born, but the little boy i babysit's parents aren't together. he has 3 older siblings w/a different dad and that man treats him like a son, but his own dad will promise to visit and then cancel at the last minute. He's too little to really understand yet but I know its going to hurt when he gets older. especially since his brothers and sisters daddy is always there for them. It makes me grateful my dad didn't stick around. at least he never pretended and lied
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~NapoliPoise Dec 12, 2011
My first question is, how old are you? I am asking this because abuse of a small child (of either gender) is pretty much universally seen as a worse crime than genocide. Somehow, however, if the Same Person waits until they are of majority age to reveal that they were abused as a child, there is a chance that they will just be told to "get over it, LettitGO," etc.

The fact is, the effects never go away until you find a way to process what happened to you, usually by directly confronting the abuser. If you haven't done so already, I suggest you talk to a therapist, someone who understands that the effects or abuse are NOT even remotely like losing a teddy bear, and that you don't simply "grow out of it."
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~blackxblack Dec 3, 2011  Hobbyist Photographer
Yeah, that's unfair :C I don't think it's justified.
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~hentaibunnyinc Nov 28, 2011
Mmm, I can relate to this. My dad was a real shithead growing up too. But looking back on it now, I'm glad I had a dillhole father, because now I am stronger than he will ever be, and I will make sure my children never have to experience half the pain and heartache I did as a kid. Plus, what goes around comes around, and he's paying for his sins now >=3
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~TheAlyGal Nov 27, 2011  Student Writer
It's not justified. Abuse is abuse is abuse, no matter who is who. Victims need to get out, friends and family of victims need to help them get out. Simple as that.
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*MGillustrations Nov 26, 2011   Traditional Artist
I had the same thing told to me when I was younger, though it was by my relatives and not my mother since my mother had divorced him. Sometimes parents do the worst thing possible and break our trust by hurting us. We're always told our parents are the safe adults but when they turn out not to be, then it makes it worse. Get far from him, tell someone if you can, and remember just because he's your parent and he has stuck around doesn't mean you owe him anything or should stand what he's doing/has done.
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~Darkqueenalexis Nov 26, 2011
I'm sorry, I have no way to relate..I just know my father has changed from the caring laid back man he once was to the uncaring laid back man he is now..I'm so sorry though:tighthug:
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