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:iconathousandknives:
~athousandknives Jan 8, 2012  Student Digital Artist
I can sadly relate.
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~jessie0wessie Nov 30, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Yeah...that would be my secret too
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*TheMoonlightCandle Nov 28, 2011  Student Traditional Artist
Story of my life, except it's with my dad instead...
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~jsplollypop Nov 28, 2011  Hobbyist Photographer
Ah, I relate. "You're just...freakish!"

Hope it gets better for you, or that you reach adulthood fast, ST =)
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~CrazieLazy Nov 26, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
i know how you feel....
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*MGillustrations Nov 23, 2011   Traditional Artist
Family can often be the most toxic people in your life. If making her aware of how she's hurting you and asking for your space will not work, I would suggest finding a way to move away from her and limit or sever contact completely once you're at an old enough age. I know I said this on another secret but it bears repeating: just because they are our parents doesn't mean we have to respect them, like them, or get along with them. If they choose to treat you poorly then they are to in turn be treated as anyone else who hurts you, verbally, emotionally, or physically. You don't owe them anything if they can't respect what they've given you by respecting you in the first place.

She may be your mother, but she is only one person with one opinion of you.
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~kaila-chan Nov 23, 2011
of course I don't know what exactly you're talking about, but.. my mother and I have really bad relationship (to keep it short, she accuses me of the fact she is 'stuck-with-these-people' <--talking about my paternal side of the family because of me, as she had to marry my father because I was on the way... my bro is being held as 'the-one-who-has-to-suffer-with-me'.. when he was diagnosed with life-long illness, her first reaction was 'why not her?' for example.. ) I received quite a few backstabs from her.. verbal, her actions.. in fact, she ruined one possibility I really wished for in my future, caused me social problems, depressions, even suicidal thought at the age of 9, which, by psychologists, is really hardcore.. not gonna talk about it. more importantly, I am in last year of highschool now- best at most of school subjects, I draw, learn to play two instruments, volunteer at zoo and try to find summer work in order to get enough money for vet uni. I don't have many friends and many people actually really dislike me, but I have few people I care about. it is not easy, not at all, but whining doesn't help things at all, and that I try not to forgot that.

anyway, the only advice I can give you (if trying to sort things out doesn't help) is to bear things, work for your own future really hard. kind of ignoring her/ not letting her damage your soul any more is really a good idea. somebody may call you egoistic by doing that... but who isn't egoist?

uh.. again, I don't know your case.. no.. not a 'case'... your 'story', your LIFE, but that is what helped me.. actually seeing my life as my life. and by the way... if you wanna talk or something, feel free to note me~
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~makeo Nov 23, 2011
You are going to have to do what is best for you
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