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Deviousness `anmari has been spreading her infectious positivity throughout our community for over 6 years. Throughout this time Ana has been at the core of all things devious, passionately developing an eclectic gallery, helping organise devmeets, participating in chat events and also recently completed dedicating her time as a Community Volunteer. We are absolutely delighted to bestow the Deviousness Award for May 2013 to `anmari, congratulations! Read More
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Sta.sh
Personally, I have no regrets. This guy got under my skin, even while part of me was always aware that he was in love with someone else, no matter how he tried to deny it.
There have been many times, and will continue to be, where I thought that people were fools for falling for me. How many times did I have to warn people for them to stay away? Should I wear a warning at all times?
But the thing is, what we do to others is our own fault. We may not make people fall in love, but what we do when we're aware of their feelings for us is our own fault. Do we let them know where we are at, that our hearts are not with them, or do we continue acting the same and let ourselves continue to "get under" their skin?
It is a shared responsibility about humanity. You have to take responsibility for yourself, what you have done, what you have said.
It is a hard thing to do. It's easier to say "you're an idiot". I would prefer that. If I could believe it, I would say that every time. So many guys fall for me, and sometimes I wonder. How is it my fault? But a little bit, it is. Even when knowing their feelings, how many have I been clear with?
I can't call them idiots. Either can you.
You sound like my friend. But guess what, maybe the person let you under their skin because they trust you. Not trust you in a way you know what will happen now, but they believe you are strong enough to not do that. Fight yourself. They're not an idiot, they just believe in you.
Guess what, it worked in my case. ^^