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Wooooooooooooooow, this sounds like someone I know. And boy oh boy, he is a clingy bastard.
When I first met him, he was a really great guy! I mean, like, really great. Like the kind of guy that I wanted to spend a whole bunch of time with. And then things got awkward, really awkward. Whenever I'm tired, him offering to be a pillow, wanting me to stay just a few hours longer when I just want to go home, finding me at the school and taking up all my time when I really just want to take a breather by myself.
...
But that's not important.
What you need to understand, is even if it does hurt, it really, probably, is better this way. If you date this person this year, you'll only grow to enjoy their company, and when they do leave you'll miss them so much more. In one way, it's just easier to not build up a relationship you know won't go anywhere. Worse, if the person went out with you, and you decided to stay together through a long-distance-relationship... There's no telling what might happen. The person could end up cheating on you, which to be honest, would probably hurt a LOT more than blowing you off for right now to protect you/themselves.
However. That's not saying you shouldn't hang out at all. Jesus, I really hope that person isn't avoiding you. Just, don't act clingy and desperate and like they are the only solution to your ~never-ending depression~... Because you'll only push them away. I get that it might be hard, but... Hey, if it's really meant to be-- and this is where I stand on the matter-- then you'll find each other again some day.
Enjoy whatever time you have with that person. My best advice is to just... not... suffocate them. =/ I'm really sorry you fell for the wrong person. -hug- Maybe some day they'll be the right person.
When I first met him, he was a really great guy! I mean, like, really great. Like the kind of guy that I wanted to spend a whole bunch of time with. And then things got awkward, really awkward. Whenever I'm tired, him offering to be a pillow, wanting me to stay just a few hours longer when I just want to go home, finding me at the school and taking up all my time when I really just want to take a breather by myself.
...
But that's not important.
What you need to understand, is even if it does hurt, it really, probably, is better this way. If you date this person this year, you'll only grow to enjoy their company, and when they do leave you'll miss them so much more. In one way, it's just easier to not build up a relationship you know won't go anywhere. Worse, if the person went out with you, and you decided to stay together through a long-distance-relationship... There's no telling what might happen. The person could end up cheating on you, which to be honest, would probably hurt a LOT more than blowing you off for right now to protect you/themselves.
However. That's not saying you shouldn't hang out at all. Jesus, I really hope that person isn't avoiding you. Just, don't act clingy and desperate and like they are the only solution to your ~never-ending depression~... Because you'll only push them away. I get that it might be hard, but... Hey, if it's really meant to be-- and this is where I stand on the matter-- then you'll find each other again some day.
Enjoy whatever time you have with that person. My best advice is to just... not... suffocate them. =/ I'm really sorry you fell for the wrong person. -hug- Maybe some day they'll be the right person.