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:icondaydreamingofmurder:
DaydreamingOfMurder Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
ST, I went through the same situation that you're going through. I don't know if you've made a descision yet, but I feel like I should share what happened with me.
When my dream guy started dreaming of me, too, I did break up with my boyfriend at the time to get with my dream guy. It was a rough break-up, and there were definitely some issues with jealousy between the two boys, but I am currently with my dream guy, and we have been dating for a year and a half now, and we're very happy. I'd say take the risk and be with the guy you're dreaming of, because, if you don't, he will be your greatest 'What-If,' and you'll always wonder what might have happened.
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shadowhunter4-26-95 Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2011
do you still dream about him is the question I'd be asking myself
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Markenkeks Featured By Owner Jul 13, 2011
In case you do break up, good luck.
Did you ever consider he only likes you now because he can't have you?
If you really love your BF, stay with him.
Plus, you'll probably just get dissapointed by that other guy, because reality is much different from your dreams...
I'm sorry, but that's my honest opinion.
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dingallama Featured By Owner Jul 12, 2011
I do it too, ST.
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:iconkickpeach:
KickPeach Featured By Owner Jul 10, 2011  Student Traditional Artist
There's nothing wrong with breaking up with your boyfriend to be with this other guy. You are psychologically cheating on him and you will not fully put your heart into your current relationship if you're thinking about another guy.

However, a common mistake people make is breaking up to be with another person because they are new and different and exciting. However, all of the wears off, and most people find they had more with the person they broke up with, and end up regretting their decision.

I think you're heart is telling you it wants to be with the other guy, but you should listen to your head, and what it thinks is the right decision.
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:iconwithallyourheart:
Withallyourheart Featured By Owner Jul 10, 2011
I believe that loving your boyfriend and dreaming about another since day 1 cannot be okay.

I think you should seriously think about you playing with other people.s hearts.
I don.t think you would enjoy being played like that. I do believe that what comes around goes around, and you will get dumped for another, you will be loved by a man and he will have thrills when seeing another.

You just can t do that to people and label it love.
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AbiNicole Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
She only said consider. She never said that she wanted to or that she was going to, and although she may have meant that, she did not specify so I am inclined to think it stayed in her mind and nothing more. She is not playing with other people's hearts unless she actually acted on this decision by doing something behind her boyfriend's back. You can't always help the way you feel, or what you think, and she needed to get her thoughts in open air.

To the ST: if you haven't broken up with your boyfriend and are to the point you want to decide between the two rather than just considering it, I think you should decide if you're happy where you're at and if you really like this other guy so much you would give up what you have. Be honest with your boyfriend, and if you want then go to someone close to you and get advice, you'll be surprised how accepting and helpful they can be. I hope your confusion ends soon, regardless of your choice. :)
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Withallyourheart Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2012
You are right, she did say that she is only considering that thought.

I think i chose the wrong words to express what i thought. What i actually wanted to ask the ST is if she really thinks she can love someone (or call her feelings "love" instead of "strong feelings" ) and think of another.

And i am speaking from experience here, nothing more. I have been told that i was loved and i believed it while he was thrilled to talk to another. it's not just me, it's happened to most people i believe.

I just think that people misunderstand feelings. They name them wrongly. People are frustrated and instead of saying just that they yell at somebody. People feel very strong feelings and by mistake call it love.
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Apidae12 Featured By Owner Jul 11, 2011
I agree completely.
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goddess61 Featured By Owner Jul 9, 2011  Hobbyist Writer
If you really do love this other person then no it's not horrible. The heart can't help who it loves. I know exactly what your going thru and I can only tell you this. Don't wait until it's too late and the person gives up on waiting. Cause it will hurt so much to be put thru that again.
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KiraKiraBubble Featured By Owner Jul 9, 2011
i know exactly how this person feels ._.
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blackpoppies Featured By Owner Jul 9, 2011  Hobbyist Photographer
Honestly? There's nothing wrong with entertaining the idea, but do not act on it without a lot of consideration for what you're doing.

I found myself in a very similar situation only a few days ago, only I didn't consider for a second leaving my boyfriend because the guy in question had kept me hanging for a good five years and only became interested again once I'd found somebody else (who, I might add, is a worth a million of him) and had absolutely no intention of respecting the fact that I was in a relationship.

Maybe it;s not like that for you, I don't know well enough to judge, just please be careful and don't make any rash decision. Good luck, ST.
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Umbrella-xx Featured By Owner Jul 9, 2011
"If you fall in love with two people, choose the second one: Because if you loved the first, you wouldn't have fallen for another."
Something Johnny Depp once said, I believe.
I don't know if I fully believe it, but it might help.
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Fandomaniac Featured By Owner Nov 14, 2011
That is probably the best damn quote I've ever heard.
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Umbrella-xx Featured By Owner Nov 14, 2011
:]
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:iconfandomaniac:
Fandomaniac Featured By Owner Nov 14, 2011
Or at least the most useful ;P
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ErikaaBabee Featured By Owner Jul 13, 2011
how do you know which is the first and which is the second?
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:iconumbrella-xx:
Umbrella-xx Featured By Owner Jul 15, 2011
I suppose if you didn't meet one after falling for the other, you don't.
But if you sat and thought about it, your heart might.
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namenotrequired Featured By Owner Jul 12, 2011  Student Interface Designer
Johnny depp said that in your pants? I bet many are jealous.
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:iconumbrella-xx:
Umbrella-xx Featured By Owner Jul 12, 2011
;D
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:iconi-am-a-pickle:
i-am-a-pickle Featured By Owner Jul 9, 2011  Hobbyist Writer
I agree with this, except for the whole polyamoury thing.
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:iconbrainfissure:
BrainFissure Featured By Owner Jul 9, 2011
Poly! Woo! :iconepichighfiveplz: But it does require maturity and understanding from everyone.
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:iconfirefly-dreamer:
Firefly-Dreamer Featured By Owner Jul 9, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
^ THAT. That is what you need to do.
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HisImmortal1922 Featured By Owner Jul 9, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
just be careful. if ruin your current relationship for this other boy and it doesn't work out, you'll miss the guy you're with now and it might be too late. i say if you really do love your boyfriend, stay with him. what you have with this other kid is just infatuation. it probably means nothing.
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