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~HONAW May 15, 2011 Hobbyist General Artist

Be honest with him and yourself

^namenotrequired May 15, 2011 Student Interface Designer

Spend some good time with him and you'll find out what the best thing to do is here; hold on to him if you do come to love him, or let go if you don't. Best of luck

~TaleOfTwoSisters May 15, 2011 Hobbyist Photographer

I've never liked "Open Relationships" or "Friends With Benefits" It's always come across to me as child's play.

If he doesn't want just me, he doesn't deserve me. And that's the same for you, ST. If I was you, find that person that wants JUST you.

~mynameisjade May 17, 2011 General Artist

That's your opinion. Some people are happy with open relationships or friends with benefits.

~Crawling-meower May 15, 2011 Student Artisan Crafter

Ideally, an open relationship is just as emotionally meaningful as a closed one. Letting him know about your... apathy might be a good idea, to avoid false impressions and uncoordinated expectations. However, if you enjoy it - there might be no reason to end it. Maybe you just need to grow your feelings; takes time sometimes.

~masqueradex7 May 15, 2011

I don't think being in an open relationship is a good idea if you've never been in a normal relationship... Regardless, if you have no feelings for him you should let him know. IF you are unhappy, this is one thing you can't be timide about, and you need to be open with your feelings for this and future relationships.

~KimRaiFan May 15, 2011 Hobbyist General Artist

A relationship where you don't feel anything is really unhealthy for you. It might be hard, you might be too timid, but take a deep breath - and end it. You can do it, ST.

~Apidae12 May 15, 2011

If you don't feel anything, maybe it's better to end the relationship before something bad happens and you get hurt. Especially if you feel you're "too timid to say no", because that can lead you down a very dark path that you don't want to go.
I think you should be very careful, and possibly reconsider being with whomever this person is.

~SatoshixKasumi-4eva May 15, 2011

Dreaming-is-Freedom is right, ST, although I'd personally place my focus in a different area of the secret: the fact that you don't feel anything with him. I know it's hard to say no when it's all you've got, but you really should end it now. Don't wait to see if you can feel anything, that's never a good idea. Take that one from me.

~Dreaming-is-Freedom May 15, 2011 Hobbyist Writer

Seriously ST, "open" of "Friends with Benefits" relationships as your first relationship is a BAD idea. One or both of you are going to end up getting really hurt.
Take it from me.

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