If you think love means to rule and be ruled, then yes, too young. That's not love, more like obsession, love isn't a chain or a domination.
You're not too young to love and be loved. But real love doesn't work like Twilight... if a guy is sneaking into your room to watch you sleep, we call that stalking and it usually doesn't end well. Controlling relationships can become very dangerous, very quickly.
That doesn't mean you can't love someone very strongly with devotion and build a life with them. But you should aim to be their partner, not their boss or jailer...OR their captive.