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"Go ahead, call me a jerk for this but she makes fun of me constantly, butts in to my business.... She thinks it's FUNNY. We've been friends since we were in kindergarten, though.... How do I tell her?"

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:iconominous-silhouettes:
Ominous-Silhouettes Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I hate mine too. She's way too cocky U-U
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:iconneoglitch17:
Neoglitch17 Featured By Owner Nov 22, 2013
You meant Best Enemy.
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:iconnapolipoise:
NapoliPoise Featured By Owner Nov 7, 2013
With a "friend" like that you don't need enemies. 

Seriously, would YOU treat a friend like she's treating you? 
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Hawk-Moth Featured By Owner Oct 12, 2013  Student Writer
I had friends like this, they would talk crap about me, hit me, and anytime I fought back they were all apologies. I dropped them, and anytime I see them. I keep them at arms length even when they try like hell to engage me.
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ZeFerX Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
How is she your "best friend" then? Or a friend at all. If she isn't you're friend you should label her "annoying person who is rude and I hate her. She will not leave me alone." You're true friends will be sad if she is you best friend. :)
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AngeloftheBloodyRose Featured By Owner Sep 14, 2013
Then she is not your best friend. I don't have really good friends, too. They call me their best friends... But they stab me in the back at the same day.
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PureLightHealer Featured By Owner Sep 2, 2013
Lol then she's not a best friend and that's that.
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:iconthexriser:
THEXRISER Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2013
you tell her...
she either will:
-understand her mistake and change the way she behaves
OR
-she will go apeshit on you and then youwill realize it's hopeless and end this friendship!
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:iconracerkid72:
Racerkid72 Featured By Owner Aug 27, 2013   General Artist
But can she really be called your 'friend'?
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:iconenthusiasticartist:
EnthusiasticArtist Featured By Owner Aug 25, 2013  Student Writer
that's not a best friend... that's the opposite. had a friend like that and I left that friendship. other people who belong in your life will come.
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:icon8bitmonkey:
8BitMonkey Featured By Owner Aug 24, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Stop being friends with her. Bam.
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:iconthinker1988:
Thinker1988 Featured By Owner Aug 24, 2013
I've had a few of this kind of false friends for quite a while unfortunately. Friends is the last thing they are. Beat them up like fucking sacks of shit and erase them from your memory asap. Don't waste time respecting who insults you.
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dyingBrains Featured By Owner Aug 24, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Tell her to go. And if you don't want her to come back, tell her not to come back.
I did that. It's not easy, but you will feel better after that! 
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:iconzeldaokami:
ZeldaOkami Featured By Owner Aug 22, 2013  Hobbyist Interface Designer
Tell her to sod off. Aint no body got no time fo dat!
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:iconjanigmatic:
Janigmatic Featured By Owner Aug 22, 2013  Student General Artist
A true friend accepts your flaws. Not rub it in your face like that.
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Marloeshi Featured By Owner Aug 22, 2013
Talk to her about it, I know it might be hard. But maybe she doesn't realize that it really really really hurts you (yes, people like that actually exist..).
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Celestial-Biohazard Featured By Owner Aug 21, 2013  Student General Artist
That's not very best friend-ly.... You may actually want to tell this person to STFU and GTFO.... Or tell this person to stop if you want to save whats left of this friendship. :/ But this looks unlikely. 
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TigerGirl-Tiggy620 Featured By Owner Aug 21, 2013  Student General Artist
Then she is not your best friend hun, tell her to fuck off.
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bludragon77 Featured By Owner Aug 20, 2013
Tell her that her she's being a bitch and that you don't want to hang out with her while she's calling you names and going out of her way to piss you off. She isn't acting like a friend and if she says she's "just joking" then tell her you two obviously aren't that close if she doesn't realize that you don't think that shit's funny or that it's pissing you off.
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SantaFeDreams Featured By Owner Aug 20, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
your friend is a bad one
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Cinder254 Featured By Owner Aug 19, 2013  Student General Artist
That doesn't sound like much of a friend to me, a friend is there for you, and doesn't call you names like fat, lazy, or ugly. Friendship is a Symbiotic relationship where two build off of one another not a parasitic relationship where one harms the other for pleasure. 
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qwibes Featured By Owner Aug 19, 2013   Writer
That's no friend :(
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Slender-Cole Featured By Owner Aug 19, 2013  Student Filmographer
...She's not your best friend.
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:iconharuno5:
Haruno5 Featured By Owner Aug 19, 2013
Are you sure she is your best friend?? 
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Coco-Gash-Jirachi Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Outright tell her. I was in a similar situation once. From kindergarten and up all the way through high school I was "best friends" with a girl who used to talk down to me from the day we met. And I never even realized it back then.

Long story short, when I finally got her off of my back, I felt so relieved. A "friendship" like that is toxic. Completely and utterly toxic. I've been at my happiest ever since I kicked that girl out of my life for good. I haven't even seen her in over two years.
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Diamond-Blitz Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013  Student Digital Artist
First of all, that's not a friend. Friends support you and stuff. They don't call you things like that. You're not a jerk at all for feeling this way. SHE'S the jerk. I knew my best friend since kindergarten, until I found out she stole some money from me... We drifted apart. I'm thankful for that. I've made more better friends after we stopped hanging out.

I suggest telling her the truth on how you feel. If she still treats you that way, then forget her...
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:iconicyice360:
IcyIce360 Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013
Tell her then!
No use for holding onto rotten apples...
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DreamsphereINC Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013  Student General Artist
...


Well fuck her then.
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:iconkirinbutter:
KirinButter Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Tell her to go fuck herself!
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sarkute56 Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013
thats not a friend.

i know its hard sometimes, especially when youve know them for so long, but my policy is if they arent being your friend, dont be theirs!!!

you are better than what that person is making you feel and what they are bringing you to.

good luck! <33
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ThePumpkinQueen712 Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
I really get that pain, a whole bunch. One of my besties from kinder turned into a total diva, but we had a really horrible, ah, break-up? I guess? and I still feel kinda bad about it, even though it's been many years since I counted her as my friend. You should let her know, that she's been acting really mean, then ask her if she's having any home issues or the like. She could be suffering and taking it all out on you, and while that's a horrible way to release your anger/sadness, a lot of people do it, and they really just want a shoulder to cry on/someone to vent to. If she tells you no, and you know she's not lying, then tell her that you aren't going to put up with her buttface-edness {Or some variant, that insult is just... downright retarded TAT} calmly but firmly. And if she says something like 'good luck with that' then walk away, and don't look back. Or, if she says something like  'As if you could live without me' you could dignify this with a response of "Watch me" or something. She might not know you feel that way, and provided you didn't tell her before, she says something like "I didn't know it was like that, I was just kidding" you should tell her {KAY EFF THIS WHENEVER I TELL YOU SOMETHING SOMEONE MIGHT SAY IT ALSO MEANS ANYTHING LIKE THAT BECAuse sweet jeebus is it annoying to type 'something like' over and over and over and over and over...} 'It really hurts my feelings when you're like that' and if she apologizes and promises to stop being mean, then yes, she could be lying, so just watch out and if she just goes back to being mean, then tell her that you're done, and walk away without looking back. But let's go back a bit, shall we? Say she was lying when she said 'I don't have any home problems, ect.' and you can tell. You need to be kind of rough with her feelings, and it's going to hurt her a little, but you have to do this to avoid being pushed away and her problem just getting worse. 'Tell me what's wrong. I know you're lying.' and gently pressure her into admitting there's something wrong somewhere, then tell her 'Okay. You don't have to tell me now, but you're going to tell me eventually, and please, don't be so mean to me all the time' If you can, smile at her, and just tell her to call or text if she needs it. But if she doesn't tell you what's up in a month, then you should tell her to tell you, and ask nicely, but also tell her 'I've given you a month to tell me, and you haven't yet, so I'm taking it into my own hands.' and listen, really listen, and if you can, offer your help, and if you can't, just listen even more an bring her her favorite food and desserts and stuff and just be supportive. During this time, if she's being mean to you again, tell her so, and tell her that 'you're still my best friend, but I'm not going to help you while you're like that'. There is one thing you have to be on the guard for- she could be lying about the whole thing. Just don't completely believe her. You don't want to break your own heart, after all. 

A bunch of people probably disagree with me,  but this is how I would've handled it, was I old enough to have tact when I 'broke up' with my bestie. I'm not going to say that this is the best case scenario where she's getting hurt and she needs someone, but I'm not going to say that your friendship has gone all to hell, either. Theoretically, you could just tell her you're done, and you might never know if she really wants to kill herself. Masks are really hard to crack, and even the people with the best lives might want to just throw themselves off a bridge. Anyways, you could just walk away, but you might really regret it later.

A lot of these comments are right, but don't explore all the sides to rubix cube, which is what you really have to do with any relationship. You have to look at the good, the bad, and the ugly in every relationship, and a lot of what I'm saying, right now, is to basically use tact and logic. Think about what you say and what you do, blah blah blah, all that good stuff! I want to give you the most thorough explanation I can manage, and if I missed anything at all, or something is unclear, then send me a reply to this message, and I'll fix it. I've just spent the better part of an hour, and I certainly do not want that to go to waste! Good luck, chicka, and use tact, and yes, be a little harsh, but no yelling, no accusatory voices, just state the facts and what you're going to do about those facts. When you finally 'break up' with her, try not to let a lot of emotion on your face, or she might try to manipulate you. 

If everything has gone to hell in your relationship, well, you're gonna have to move on and take refuge among your other friends. You just have to be strong to go through all the motions I typed up here and *Looks up and reads* holy crap I had no idea I wrote that much that's a little bit really intimidating *hides under table* Beeeessssssssssssiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiidddddddddddddddddddddeeeeeeeeeeeessssssssssssssssssssss, you can just look at some Tumblr comments to cheer you up. Best of luck with life n' stuff, and I offer my help if you need it, just note me and I'll keep my lips sealed
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4hikari Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013
Clap Great advice for the different scenarios. 
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ThePumpkinQueen712 Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
Thank you, I tried to get as many as I could think of ^.^
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angellove94 Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013   Writer
sound more of a bitch then a friend
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glassmagnolia Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013  Hobbyist
That's ....not a friend. and you need to get away from them. Be ready. They'll try to slander you to everyone else. However, when you're gone there's only so long they'll be able to wait until they find some other victim to screw over and the truth about who they are will be pretty apparent. At any rate, you should get out of that situation. It'll just wear you down. My two cents.
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ToadAdventure Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Man tell her to get her act together! What kind of a best friend does that??

Tell her that she is making you very upset and you wont stand for it!
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Evermore-Willow Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Then, obviously they are not your 'best friend'...This is a toxic person and you need to get rid of them. You need to tell her to stop being such a terrible person or she is no longer your friend. 
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1bookfish Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I know how you feel, believe me. In elementary school... well, let's just say my best friend became my worst enemy. Thankfully, we drifted apart after I moved to a new school. 
Then there's this other friend I have right now... she honestly doesn't realize what kind of affect her words and actions can have on people... she has slight FAS, so that could be a reason why. But honestly... sometimes it feels like she's using me. And sometimes her comments really hurt. But I try not to hold it against her... 
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Animechick213 Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I have a friend who's extremely bossy, rude, hypocritical, and judgmental.  And if anyone does something she doesn't like in the slightest bit, she blows up in their face.  She also has a habit of kicking people in the shin.
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asdfneingag Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I also have a friend who is critical and judgemental, she always has negative comments on things she doesn't like but she only keeps it to herself and her friends (including me) how do you handle people like that? o.O
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Animechick213 Featured By Owner Aug 19, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I usually just smile and nod cause she'll probably yell at me and I don't like being yelled at.
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asdfneingag Featured By Owner Sep 22, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
oh...do you think she can change? :/
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:iconanimechick213:
Animechick213 Featured By Owner Sep 22, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I hope so, she's gonna have to learn to be more tolerant and to not yell at people.
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Voltex12345 Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
answer me something.
is she the kind of "friend" that says the phrase "if you don't do (insert action here) for me then you're not my friend" constantly?
because if so it's extortion and by no means a sign of friendship. if someone's friendship is so weak and meaningless to them to be reduced to some "favor" then that is just that
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KakuEpsilon Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013
Tell her to go fuck herself. Just because she's been a long time friend does not mean she has the right to treat you bad.
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CalicoWingedCat Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist

I have two best friends.

 

And one of them fits this so perfectly.

 

I swear.

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Pyrosaitan1 Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013
Have you noticed that in these kinds of DAS uploads there's always that one stupid pain in the ass who says "maybe it'll get better with age", "maybe they're worth more than you think", "you should talk this out, it's sure to get better"? I hate them, they're wrong, I hate sympathetic optimists who think like that because sadly for them, that's not how the world works, think I'm wrong? Next time you get kidnapped by a rapist, go ask them to stop, try talking about your feelings and that they shouldn't do it coz it's wrong, I dare you to, and then see if your ass doesn't get penetrated, coz I can honestly say that no one cares and those unrealistic bastards should shut up and mind their own business
IM TALKING ABOUT YOU JOSEGONCALO!!!
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OniExplosion Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013
This is probably the best comment I've ever read.
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Pyrosaitan1 Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013
Best "haha this loser is having a rage" or best "is fucker actually has a point"?
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OniExplosion Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2013
"This fucker actually has a point". :3
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