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StarFaerieNomad Featured By Owner Sep 29, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Here's how I feel about it. Sexuality doesn't really define you as a person. If you're happy with your boyfriend, stay with him. You don't need to make a huge announcement or tell anybody you don't trust to know about it. Your sexuality is YOUR business. In the meantime, just keep doing what makes you happy.

I'm in the same boat as you. Bi, with a boyfriend, haven't told anyone. I just don't feel the need to. I'm attracted to women as well as men, but who cares? I don't. There's no reason for my parents or friends to know about it 'cause it makes zero difference in their lives or mine.
MicheruShinearo Featured By Owner Apr 14, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I knew I was bisexual when I was 13 years old, I'm 24 now. There was a small point as a teen I thought I was just attracted to boys. But I know now that it is both. you're never too young but sometimes your feelings can change and maybe one day you'll figure out you do like both genders or one day you won't notice the gender and love the person. Maybe you'll prefer only boys or only girls. Maybe even neither. But right now nothing in concrete and you're still discovering yourself.

I never felt it was important to announce to anyone about my sexuality because I don't feel I need to, some people do though. I'm not ashamed of it. My mother and sisters know without me telling them (fb) and my brother because I almost dated our mutual female friend, but they don't treat me differently or anything. And I've said it when my friends and I were discussing sexuality and stuff at sleepovers lol 

If this is how you feel and you feel it's important to tell them and if your parents and friends love you, they will accept you because that's you. Just make sure you feel confident in who you are and who you love if you feel you need to tell them. :)
Mookie-Mooks Featured By Owner Mar 26, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm bisexual, and trust me, finding out is HARD. Hell, I realized it when I was eleven and to this very day, seven years later, I still doubt myself.
The-Mysterious-J Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Actually you don't need to know. Just fall in love with people you fall in love.
mrs-drwho Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2013  Student Writer
Don't rush into it. Labels don't matter and they don't define you. Go with what feels comfortable for you, because sexuality is fluid. Change the labels as you see fit. I used to identify as bisexual but now I identify as queer because I find that bisexual doesn't really capture who I am. Do whatever makes you comfortable. You may change labels once or fifty times. It seriously doesn't matter.
MoonRiseOrSunRise Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2013
you know it when you know it.
AmberTheKitteh Featured By Owner Jul 21, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
i know that feels.
Liefje-Saki Featured By Owner Jul 17, 2013
What matters is who you fall for. You can go on from there. Or who you want to date. Other than that what you think about and what you secretly like isn't people's business. You'll feel better about it later. It's normal to want to try things
Jesterkin458 Featured By Owner Jul 16, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
that feeling taunts me still.
Luthlaya Featured By Owner Jul 15, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
People learn new things about their sexuality every day - I still don't know if I'm purely heterosexual, slightly bi, or whatever. It's okay. You are who you are and whomever you feel attracted to is fine. You're not too young, you never are. You're also never too old. Sexuality is fluent, not static. That's okay. That's fine. That's life. You'll figure it out, and if you don't, then just feel, and go with what feels good. Also, its shouldn't be a problem to your boyfriend you might also be attracted to girls - if you love him it doesn't matter. If you want to move on, then do so - I know breaking relationships hurt, but this too is something that just happens.
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